A Lot Of Links
Okay, one of the things about modifying on the web is that, although there is a lot of stuf out there, there isn't much that is well documented.  Other than reading the little website tag line on an advert, there isn't much.  However, fear not, Andy C comes to the rescue.  Most of my Internet Explorer Bookmarks are in the little section entitled 'Automotive'!

Links Sites

Modify.co.uk

A british site, as most of those here are, with a list of a lot of british sites, broken down into sections, making it easy to digest.  The section of most use to the British modifier is the Directory, which is then subsequently broken down again into areas such as Security, Insurance, Styling, and Wheels

TuningLinx

An European Site, with well over 300 links.  Again broken down into areas.  This site is easy to navigate, but a knowledge of who, rather than what, you are looking for is needed, as the site goes by manufacturers primarily.  There is a shopping section, with retailers websites, which is a good start.  However, I have found that not many retailers websites are that good for actually ordering things off of.  They are outstanding for looking things up, but ordering still has a long way to go...
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