Me, August 1999
S_U_N_N_Y_S_K_Y (Michelle)  and trocar37(Lance)  started chatting in a YAHOO! chat room in late March of 1999.  We became fast friends, the best of friends.  With  so much in common and yet had no idea the other had ever existed.  Daily we talked with each other.  After awhile we started telling each other our fears, dreams, wishes, hopes and deepest secrets.  It seemed as though we were the opposite sex version of each other.  Hours and hours were spent chatting online.  We fell in love,Lance  was a married man.  I  a married woman.(tsk, tsk now!!)   What were we to do??!  July 3,1999 we met in person at my home in Michigan. . Lance  traveled from his home in Iowa to meet me  .   We had no intentions of getting "romantic" w/ each other. ( AND DID NOT) Our spouces were involved in this meeting as well.  The 3 day visit came to an end and Lance went back to Iowa while I stayed home with my family and cried for days.  A few days later my spouse found out about the love I had for Lance. 
November 2001...We still chat for hours but now Its face to face.  We have been together for nearly 2 yrs.  We are still best friends.  I could not ask for a better friend.  He is so kind and considerate and, well.... wonderful!  He is My Man and I his Babydoll, brought together by this www  a rather unusual way of getting together but it happened to us and I am very fortunate that I have met my  best friend and Lover.
Lances Mortuary School Pic
Michigan July 1999
Working on the puter,  Lance trying to teach me a thing or 2!  It was hopeless! 
Lance and I January 2000. (Yes! My eyes ARE open!)
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