Well... I finally met a guy.... and fell in love. It was crazy how I met him. I was working with his brother, and started to see his brother. Then me and his brother started going out... well.... his brother dumped me in 4 days for another girl... My husband... Doug comforted me and appologized for his brother. A week later I was going out with him. At first everyone thought it was a bit strange... but now it is as if Matt (the bad brother) never even existed. In fact we do not even speak to him anymore and would never let him around Tyler because he has violent tendencies. He came to our house one night very drunk saying he didn't come to fight and ended up in Doug's face saying "I know you wanna hit me" and Doug kept saying "No I just want to go to bed" and finally he turned to go inside and pushed Doug like he was going to come inside, and Doug's instincts said to keep him away from the house and a fight broke out and the police were called. He now has a restraining order for the next 18 months! My husband... Doug or Douglas.... was born October 30th, 1978. He is a jr, named after his father. He has had a tough life. His father was abusive and went to jail when he was around 8 years old for killing a woman while he was drunk. His mother got right into another abusive relationship, and Doug was beat most of his life. He slowly dropped out of school and even lived on the streets for awhile. He was a drug addict and alcoholic when I met him. Within 6 months he quit both Drugs and Alchohol (for ME and HIMSELF) That was when I knew we were meant to be. Doug is thrilled to be a father. He is a natural at it too. He wanted kids almost as much as I did, which is how I knew he was the man for me. He is very sweet and wonderful. He would do anything for me, as I would for him. I am so happy and he has changed my life, and I have changed him. He is always telling me how if he wouldn't have met me then he would probally have been dead by now. He has made me start planning more for the future... and also to want to find out who I really am and who I want to be. He has made all my dreams come true. I am actually looking forward to the future and all the wonderful things to come. I feel like I can now do anything... and I intend to do just that... so this page is for him... the love of my life... and just what I was looking for in a man, a husband, and a best friend......
