Dear Me,
Hey, I have liked this guy [for] 3 years. I doubt that he likes me and it makes me cry! But I KNOW that he is not worth it! I even think he is produce! But I really can't just stop liking someone that important and close to my heart! I have no idea what to do! Thanks for helping! ---Dani
Dear Dani,
Oh boy . . . Is this the same guy you are acting with in the play? Okay, first off, I want to say that I, myself, have carried a torch for a someone who I knew didn't like me back in that way, for many years, so I know how this feels. However, I don't think they weren't worth it; it just simply was not meant to be. There are many people out there who like others who aren't worth it, though. Just look at any talk show and you'll see that. There are lots of cases where there will be a person who is being cheated on by their lover, but they say they can't leave because they love them. Now, I know this isn't quite the same thing, but it's the same concept. You really have to tell yourself, again and again, how much he isn't worth it, but I know that won't really help. You have already thanked me in advance for helping you, but I'm afraid I can't, really! You see, getting over someone is very hard to do. Even if that person treats you horribly, it's still dificult, mainly because it's painful. You feel like you've spent all that time thinking about them and now you know it's just been a waste. It's worse when you date someone for a long time and then it ends so badly that you can't even remain friends. You feel like you've wasted away part of your life, and that is a terrible feeling. No one can tell you how to get over someone. That really lies in you. You just have to find a way to deal with things, to stand being around him without feeling upset or torn. You have to strong, and brave, and somehow, eventually, you WILL make it through; I promise! It may take a long time, but it will happen! The best of luck to you, Dani! ---Me