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The First Thirty Years
I guess I shall begin by telling you a bit about myself... It all started back on
VALENTINES DAY on a cold snow covered
morning in 1960.
I was born in Fort Knox, Kentucky (home of the world famous Gold Vault). As a child, I grew up in Vine Grove, KY.
It is a small town offering plenty of wide open spaces for an adventurous kid to roam and explore.
As a child growing up, I led a pretty unremarkable life. My biological
father was a loser and a deadbeat dad. My second father also couldn't
handle the pressure of raising two kids and family life and soon started staying
out after work. It wasn't until I was ten that I got a REAL Dad. His name was
Andrew and I'll always remember my Mom getting his picture out of the car and
showing it to my sister Debbie and me. He was an Army sergeant brave enough to take on
the challenge of raising two kids that weren't his own. I am proud
to say that he is still around today and has been a very supportive
father and a beloved papaw for my children. Soon after Andy and Lucy
married there were to more additions to the family, my sister Sheila and my
brother Troy.
My mother, Lucille, spent most of her time as a
homemaker. I remember taking my daily naps with my Mom running her long
fingernails down my back as she read me a story. I also
remember that she possessed a passion for rearranging the furniture and
keeping a spotless house. I give her the credit for making me the
dishwasher that I am today. After all the housework and chores were done we would
travel to our relatives' houses and spend most of our afternoons at Grandma's and
the cousins house. My grandma would send my sister and me out
under the shade tree to eat our salted tomatoes and ice cold tea. It was
there that we would watch the trains traveling up and down the
tracks.
Some of my fondest memories are growing up with my cousin Craig.
We spent most of our free days discovering life in the woods, playing on the train tracks,
wandering in and around the creek beds, running over the cemetery yard,
crawling under the town drainage system and climbing on top of the old downtown buildings.
As we grew into adolescence the adventures shifted to riding our trail bikes (mine Kawasaki,
his Suzuki) over the back roads and farmlands of
Hardin County and the Fort Knox Reservation. It was through all these years of competitive challenges that I developed my strong will for competition and outdoor adventure.
Even though I was born on an Army base and spent much time around the reservation, I was not your typical "Army Brat".
My family chose to stay in one place when my father got his overseas orders.
Therefore it was in 1973 when my father received his orders for Germany, that we moved to Radcliff, KY.
It was there that I would remain until I turned 20. Just in case you haven't heard already,
Radcliff is rumored to be in the record books for the most fast food restaurants per square mile.
A nice place to live if you like fast food!
My Likes and Dislikes
- Music
- My life would be considerably more bland today without
the joy of music. I truly wish to thank all the musicians of the
world. My musical interest began with my parental influence of my
parents. Their choice included the likes of Loretta Lynn, George Jones,
Conway Twitty, Dolly Pardon, Johnny Cash , and Mel Tillis. Of
course back then I didn't care much for it but it did have an influence on my
adult life. Granted, country music today is much different than the
music of the sixties and seventies, but I still enjoy country music
stars such as Dwight Yokum, Clint Black, Trisha Yearwood, Reba McIntyre, Alan
Jackson, Faith Hill and an occasional David Allen Coe.
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- My personal choice of listing includes what is now
called classic rock. All the traditional rock bands such as The Rolling
Stones, The Who, Pink Floyd, and Led Zepplin greatly influenced me. I have been to many
concerts over the years ranging from KISS to Men At Work. Like
most Baby Boomers , all the rockers that followed were included. The
list is too long......from Tom Petty to the Eagles....to include everyone
here, but again, a special thanks to all the musicians of the world for making
this a better life and soothing our souls.
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- There is a place in my musical heart for
those special musicians that have become a part of me. I may not agree
with their personal life positions, their political stances, or their
values... but I do like their music. At the top of the list is Bruce
Springsteen. If you have ever been to one of the Boss's
performances (I have been to four), you know what I mean. Nobody..
let me repeat..nobody, puts the electric in the air like Bruce.
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- One of my favorite female performers is Stevie
Nicks. My wife and I were fortunate enough to meet her and
Christie McVeigh after a Fleetwood Mac show. I took this photograph of
them in the back of their limousine after the show. They were very
pleasant and friendly. I know, some people don't like her voice. But
having grown up with Fleetwood Mac, I continued to follow her career after she
went out on her own. So I have very nice memories of her and her music.
Also, I was fortunate enough to catch Fleetwood Mac reunion tour in Cincinnati,
Ohio before the tour disbanded. I'll go on record as saying that all the
performers sounded as remarkable as ever.
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- My favorite feel good musician is Jimmy Buffet. I'm not your typical
Parrothead and don't necessarily agree with some of the lyrics, but the Caribbean
sounds are what I love the most about his brand of music. My first
encounter with Jimmy was in 1980 in Rupp Arena and just last year I again got
to witness the madness in Riverbend Stadium in Cincy. I use his music to
relax while at the beach and I use it as a motivational tool to keep me
focused on obtaining a place at the beach. Thanks, Jimmy!
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- Even though I haven't forgotten my rock and roll
roots, I have broadened my musical interest to include alternative rock.
Currently, my favorites include Third Eye Blind, Rusted Root, The
Wallflowers, Oasis, The Goo Goo Dolls, and Bare Naked
Ladies. One of the best of these is my wife's choice (and mine) Better
Than Ezra. We saw and met them twice (Lexington and Cincy), and let me
say that they are very personal and down to earth.
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- I also enjoy
the message and sounds of Tender Mercy.
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- Boating
- When
asked my favorite time of year the answer is always Summer. The reason
being is I love the water and the opportunity to go boating. My
father -in- law has a seventeen and a half foot Glastron runabout that the
family all enjoys during the warm weather season. It doesn't hurt
that the kids get a real thrill from riding with the wind through their hair
and an occasional splash in their faces. There is hardly
nothing that I would rather be doing than cruising the lake or riding up and
down the Intercoastal Waterway. Even though I don't own a boat
presently, Robin and I have long entertained the idea of obtaining our
very own. We dream of traveling the Atlantic Intercoastal Waterways
during the day and resting the night in our cuddy cabin.
- My Dislikes
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- Cold Weather, Sarcastic People, Being Ignored, Long Lines
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Wrestling...It changed my life forever
At age fifteen I had a couple
people in my life that were not a positive influence on me. One person that I
met was a skinny little neighbor named Pete
. He was different and had several positive aspects occurring in his
life. His older brother Donnie was involved in high school
wrestling. Pete would follow the family tradition and join the prestigious
team during his freshman year. It was during the summer of 1975 that Pete
became my weightlifting and "spoon-bin" (swimming pool) buddy .
It wasn't until a chance wrestling scuffle that summer in the pool locker room that my fortunes changed. It just so happened that Clinton was a standout high school wrestler who saw some potential in me and invited me to tryout with the team.
Little did I know then that we all would remain lifelong friends. Thus it was
through sheer determination and some physical strength that I beat out the
varsity wrestler and made the team. Because of the bonding and building relationships of the
North Hardin Trojan Wrestling Program , I found people willing and able to help a youngster in need.
Another very important person in my life at that time was my matmaid sponsor and business law teacher, Ms. Bishop. It was from her advice and assistance that I finally got enough courage to enroll in college.
She often times tried to guide me in making the correct life decisions and was a ear that would listen to all my troubles. Plus, she is a warm and kind person. Even today, we have kept the friendship fires burning after twenty two years.
My Move To Lexington,KY
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