Love isn't something you can grab onto. It can come and land on you like a butterfly, but if you try to grab onto it and force it to stay, no matter how gently, you can't help but hurt it, and all the beauty of it will be either hidden behind grasping fingers or turned ugly in it's struggle to be free. It will stay if it is right for it to stay, and as long as it does so of it's own free choice, it will always remain as beautiful and amazing as when it first lands, and in fact, will become more so the more you look at it and see the detail and beauty and delicacy of it.
Excerpt from a letter to a friend...