Put on then..... compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony.

Colossians 3:12-14 (English Standard Version)



"Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future."

Paul Boese


"The gospel comes to the sinner at once with nothing short of complete forgiveness as the starting-point of all his efforts to be holy. It does not say, 'Go and sin no more, and I will not condemn thee.' It says at once, 'Neither do I condemn thee: go and sin no more.'"

Horatius Bonar


"Perhaps forgiveness is the last thing mentioned in the creed because it is the last thing learned in life. Perhaps none of us can understand the forgiveness of God until we ourselves have learned to forgive."

Joan Chittister in 'In Search of Belief'

"The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong." 

Mohandas (Mahatma) Gandhi

"Of him that hopes to be forgiven it is indispensably required that he forgive. It is therefore superfluous to urge any other motive. On this great duty eternity is suspended, and to him that refuses to practise it the throne of mercy is inaccessible, and the Saviour of the world has been born in vain."

Samuel Johnson: Rambler #185

"Scarcely any law of our Redeemer is more openly transgressed, or more industriously evaded, than that by which he commands his followers to forgive injuries."

Samuel Johnson, Rambler #185


"The practice of forgiveness is not only, or even primarily, a way of dealing with guilt. Instead, its central goal is to reconcile, to restore communion - with God, with one another, and with the whole creation."

L. Gregory Jones, in 'Practicing Our Faith'

"Not to forgive is to be imprisoned by the past, by old grievances that do not permit life to proceed with new business. Not to forgive is to yield oneself to another's control...
to be locked into a sequence of act and response, of outrage and revenge, tit for tat, escalating always. The present is endlessly overwhelmed and devoured by the past. Forgiveness frees the forgiver. It extracts the forgiver from someone else's nightmare."

Lance Morrow,
(1939- ) Essayist, professor

"Memorial Day is a day we remember and honor those who fought and often died for their country.  It is fitting that we do so. It is not, however, a day that we are called on to forgive those who have brought on us the horrors of war.  As a nation we are not called on to do that; as individuals, as the years pass by and memories fade some of us will.  But some can never."

Lyn Nofziger

"We pardon as long as we love."
Francois de La Rochefoucauld

"A man can be a Christian or a patriot, but he can't legally be a Christian and a patriot--except in the usual way: one of the two with the mouth, the other with the heart. The spirit of Christianity proclaims the brotherhood of the race and the meaning of that strong word has not been left to guesswork, but made tremendously definite- the Christian must forgive his brother man all crimes he can imagine and commit, and all insults he can conceive and utter- forgive these injuries how many times?--seventy times seven--another way of saying there shall be no limit to this forgiveness. That is the spirit and the law of Christianity. Well--Patriotism has its laws. And it also is a perfectly definite one, there are not vaguenesses about it. It commands that the brother over the border shall be sharply watched and brought to book every time he does us a hurt or offends us with an insult. Word it as softly as you please, the spirit of patriotism is the spirit of the dog and wolf. The moment there is a misunderstanding about a boundary line or a hamper of fish or some other squalid matter, see patriotism rise, and hear him split the universe with is war-whoop. The spirit of patriotism being in its nature jealous and selfish, is just in man's line, it comes natural to him- he can live up to all its requirements to the letter; but the spirit of Christianity is not in its entirety possible to him.
The prayers concealed in what I have been saying is, not that patriotism should cease and not that the talk about universal brotherhood should cease, but that the incongruous firm be dissolved and each limb of it be required to transact business by itself, for the future."

Mark Twain, from Mark Twain's Notebook

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