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A Bon Voyage, Travel Well!

. . . A few thoughts for NetFriends . . .

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Farewell net friends, God bless you in your journey.

Travel far, travel near, may you always find friends here. Wherever you go, I hope you find a pleasant pace, enjoyable scenery where the view takes your breath away & you are comforted with peace of mind. Be cautious & stay safe, guard what is valuable and hold onto what is precious. When you look in the sky at night, know there is someone who shares the excitement of living. Smile, it lightens your load! ;) God Bless you in your travels. Last thoughts and affirmations ~~

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Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there ... to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be but when you lock eyes with theirs, you might know that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way. And sometimes things happen to you at the time that may seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, will power or heart.

Everything happens for a reason -- nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. Safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet affect your life. The successes and downfalls that you experience can create who you are, and the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are probably the most poignant and important ones.

If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them because they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart to.

If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and open your heart and eyes to little things.

Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Let yourself fall in love, break free and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you.

Create your own life and then go out and live it. - anonymous -

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HAPPINESS...............

We convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married, have a baby, then another. Then we are frustrated that the kids aren't old enough and we'll be more content when they are. After that we're frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with.

We will certainly be happy when they are out of that stage. We tell ourselves that our life will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act together, when we get a nicer car, are able to go on a nice vacation, when we retire.

The truth is, there's no better time to be happy than right now. If not now, when? Your life will always be filled with challenges. It's best to admit this to yourself and decide to be happy anyway.

For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin-real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid. Then life would begin.

At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life. This perspective has helped me to see that there is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way. So, treasure every moment that you have. And treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to spend your time...and remember that time waits for no one...

So stop waiting until you finish school, until you go back to school, until you lose ten pounds, until you gain ten pounds, until you have kids, until your kids leave the house, until you start work, until you retire, until you get married, until you get divorced, until Friday night, until Sunday morning, until you get a new car or home, until your car or home is paid off, until spring, until summer, until fall, until winter, until you are off welfare, until the first or fifteenth, until your song comes on, until you've had a drink, until you've sobered up, until you die, until you are born again to decide that there is no better time than right now to be happy...

~~ Anonymous

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Remember, happiness is a journey, not a destination. Work like you don't need money, Love like you've never been hurt, And dance like no one's watching. ~~ Des


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The Art of truth from every perspective, paints the spectrum palette of character on the canvas of your soul. Find yourself and you will know it intensly ~~ be an artiste of humanity. The image from the miror views the aesthetic exterior. The glory of the truth you value from inside ~~ Intelligence, charisma & integrity ~~ are more beautiful to the mind than any soul without conscience. ~~ Desiree Devlynne Darling (c)1999

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I can complain because rosebushes have thorns . . . or I can rejoice because the thornbush has a rose. -- It is all up to me.

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Of all the blessings that time and earth bestow, there is non so precious as one true friend.

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I cannot change yesterday I can only make the most of today, and look with hope toward tomorrow.

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A mind once stretched by a new idea, never regains its original dimension.

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I N T E G R I T Y

We make a living by what we get.

We make a life by what we give.

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P E R S E V E R A N C E

In the confrontation between the stream and the rock, the stream always wins . . . not through strength, but through persistence.

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To do is to be Socrates

To do is to live Plato

Do be do be do Sonatra

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Expectation begets disappointment

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"Never compromise yourself. You are all you’ve got." – Betty Ford

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"If we did all the things we are capable of, we would literally astound ourselves." – Thomas Edison

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"Act the way you want to become, and you’ll become the way you act." – Rob Gilbert

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"Luck is fascinated with those who dream & plan." -- Welsh Proverb

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"Imagination is only intelligence having fun." – George Scialabba

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"I have been given this day to use as I will. I can waste it or use it for good. What I choose to do is important, because I am exchanging a day of my life for it." – Author Unknown

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"As novices, we think we’re entirely responsible for the way people treat us. I have long since learned that we are responsible only for the way we treat people." – Rose Lane

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"Appreciation in any form at any time brightens anyone’s existence." – Ruth Stafford Peale

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"When we do the best we can, we never know what miracle is wrought in our life, or in the life of another." – Helen Keller

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"Nobody grows old merely by living a number of years. We grow old by deserting our ideals. Years may wrinkle the skin, but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul." – Samuel Ullman

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"Setting an exciting goal is like setting a needle in your compass. From then on, the compass knows only one point – its ideal. And it will faithfully guide you there through the darkest nights and the fiercest storms." – Gil Atkinson

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"Acting effective and being effective, produce the same results. Conversely, acting stupid and being stupid cause you to be the one to apologize." – Unknown Author

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"The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams." – Eleanor Roosevelt

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"Only as high as I reach can I grow. Only as far as I seek can I go. Only as deep as I look can I see. Only as much as I dream can I be." – Karen Ravn

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"Reach high, for stars lie hidden in your soul. Dream deep, for every dream precedes the goal." – Pamela Starr

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"I learned the hard way that it doesn’t pay to get discouraged. Keeping busy and making optimism is a way of life that can restore your faith in yourself." – Lucille Ball

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"As you grow older, you’ll find the only things you regret are the things you didn’t do." – Zachary Scott

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"When I was growing up, I always wanted to be someone. Now I realize I should have been more specific." – Lily Tomlin

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"Keep a diary or daily win book to record your aspirations and accomplishments. If your life is worth living, it’s worth recording." – Marilyn Grey

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If you’re anticipating the worst while hoping for the best, you will get the worst. Turn it around: Visualize the best, anticipate the best, believe the best – and you’ll usually get the best." – Gil Atkinson

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Hey, folks, this is the way it works >>> When Aquarius wants to give, you'll get plenty, but when you make a demand, the gears lock up and you'll get nothing.

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"The world and its desires pass away, but the man who does the will of God lives forever."

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"If ever two people were meant to be friends, they were. They were always laughing, or sharing problems, or doing some little something for one another. People might think they were brother & sister, that's how close they seemed to be. Though many people had passed through their lives, and many would in years to come, they knew what was shared between them was a comfortable closeness that was special enough to be called in its purest sense ~~ friendship." ~~ From Between Friends by Mary Dawson Hughes

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"Yesterday is history, Tommorow is a mystery. Today is a gift, that is why we call it the present".

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~Mountain Dreamer~

It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing. It doesn't interest me how old you are.

I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dreams, for the adventure of being alive.

It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain! I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it or fix it. I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own; if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, be realistic, or to remember the limitations of being human.

It doesn't interest me if the story you're telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul. I want to know if you can be faithful and therefore be trustworthy. I want to know if you can see beauty even when it is not pretty every day, and if you can source your life from God's presence. I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand on the edge of a lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, Yes!

It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done for the children.

It doesn't interest me who you are, how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back. It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you from the inside when all else falls away. I want to know if you can be alone with yourself, and if you truly like the company you keep in empty moments. [Oriah, Mountain Dreamer, Indian Elder]

Faith in friendship *hugs*

~~ Des

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Thanks for the indulgence, *hehee* Thanks for visiting my site -- see you online . . . ttthhhppppppttt!! ;P

In Light, Levity & Love always, ~~ Nymphette ~~ Desiree ~~ Layne

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