Lesson 4: What Forgiveness is Not
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What Forgiveness Is NotForgiveness is not condoning the act
We forgive the soul, not the human ego which committed the act (the “Not Self”)
Forgiveness is not absolution;
we do not absolve people of their responsibility for their actions by forgiving themForgiveness is not something we dole out when others meet our requirements for
being forgivenYou can’t say, “Now that you’ve apologized, I’ll forgive you.”
Forgiveness has no requirements, no conditions
Forgiveness comes not from your ego, but from your heart
God’s forgiveness isn’t fickle;
we make it so through our own judgments
There is no forgiveness but God’s;
we become his instrument when we choose to forgive
Forgiveness is an act of free will
Forgiveness: Process of “Letting Go”
Forgiveness is letting go of the intense emotions attached to incidents from our past
Forgiveness is not the balancing of karma but the setting aside of karma
We no longer want to punish or get even with those who hurt or wronged us
Opportunity to balance karma through serving and helping others and through the
violet flame (flame of compassion and mercy).
* * *Further Reading:
The following Chapters.
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