TOP 10 SEXUAL FANTASIES...
WHAT'S YOURS? WHAT'S HIS?
Does he know what sexy scenes play out in your head?
Swapping fantasies really made a difference for these couples...
Excerpts From the April 1999 issue
Does your love life need a noticeable boost? Well, your imagination is the most potent sex-charger of all. Its ability to galvanize your sexual desire and enhance your lovemaking pleasures is virtually unlimited. Sharing fantasies and role-playing with your partner are among the most effective ways to heat up your love life together and add spice to a long-term relationship.
Having trouble coming up with your own, original fantasies? The following are fantasies experts say are the most common, along with some examples of people’s individual variations on these popular themes. Use them as they are, or use them as a springboard to create your own original scenarios.
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Wish Sex Was More Fun & Games? Playing games together can restore your youthful sense of fun, creativity, and freedom. Throw a love banquet This game is a particularly effective way to persuade a squeamish partner to give oral sex. Take a shower together first, then smear your favorite treats (whipped cream, chocolate sauce, peanut butter) all over each other. Take turns feasting on each other’s mouth-watering bodies. Do a naughty little number. Number different areas of each other’s bodies—the back of the neck, the inside of the thigh, armpits, toes, etc. Try to pinpoint new "hot spots." Then write the numbers on separate scraps of paper and throw them into a hat. Take turns picking numbers and having the other partner kiss each numbered spot. Play Twister with your mister in the nude. With this game, you’ll have to assume some interesting positions... Play your hand (leg, arm, shoulder, etc.) The game ends when someone is completely nude. Then lovemaking begins... Zoom in with a plume. Feather tickle each other—all over, or on those numbered spots. Do it nice and slowly. Rub each other the right way-with body paint. The gentle, featherlike sensations of the paint brush moving over your body increases your sensual awareness and makes for a sexually exciting experience. Apply Emotion Lotion. Apply this special love lotion to each other’s bodies, then gently blow on his skin for a warm tingling sensation. Give each other the royal treatment. Take turns playing king or queen while the other acts as humble love servant, catering to every whim—serving a meal, giving a massage, drawing a scented bath. View and do. Watch erotic videos and follow the actors’ lead, right along with them. Be sure to point out what turns you on. Or take it a step further and make your own private erotic tapes. Have a nude food fight. Toss watermelon or any other juicy, slippery, tasty food as your weapons. Put him in a chair and if you dare... Give him a nice, long lap dance. If necessary, tie him there. All he is allowed to do is kiss back. Do a strip tease to please him. But don’t take it all off—at least not too quickly. Undress slowly and tantalizingly and do it to your favorite hot music. Keep in touch Decide that you’re only going to touch each other for 60 minutes. No kissing, no genital stimulation. It’s amazing how erotic this is. Touch everywhere. Remember, the entire body is your erotic playground. Feel as if you are touching each other for the very first time. |
1. Making love with someone new
"I believe in reincarnation," says Sharon, "and in a former life I’m sure I was a prostitute with multiple sex partners. Now my greatest fantasy is lying in bed, with men lined up from my bedroom to several blocks away, and I just say, ‘Next! Next!’"
2. Making love with a forbidden partner Janis and her best friend’s ex, Peter, have always felt a subtle sexual attraction to each other, but Janis was afraid of hurting her friend. Janis’s favorite fantasy involves being trapped with Peter all night long in a stalled elevator. Since the elevator is in an office building, and it’s after working hours, they both realize no one will come to free them until morning. The elevator is large and carpeted, and Janis just happens to have food and water with her, left over from lunch. So, neither of them is too afraid. As the hours pass, though, the temperature rises, and the heat finally forces them to strip naked. They glance at each other’s nude, glistening bodies, then quickly look away. A few moments tick by, before Peter finally grabs Janis in a rough, passionate embrace, and they melt together in a deep kiss. They slide down to the floor and make wild, sweaty love all night long, until they are "rescued" in the early morning.
3. Making love with two or more people Robert’s fantasy begins with a king-sized bed covered by a rubber sheet, over which he pours scented massage oil. Two gorgeous women make love to each other on the bed while he watches.
4. Making love in an exotic locale Jason’s ultimate fantasy is to be moored on a fabulous yacht with all the amenities, about 150 miles out at sea, off the shores of an exotic Caribbean island. He and his three male friends and four voluptuous women can barely glimpse land. "It’s about 6 p.m., and the sun is just beginning its descent in the West," says Jason. "We sip glasses of champagne. We’re fishing, but we occasionally jump into the sea to refresh ourselves. The sounds of soft reggae and R&B music float in the gentle breeze. As darkness falls and the stars light up the sky, each of the four couples wanders away to find a romantic, secluded spot where they make passionate love all night."
5. Making love with a stranger, on the spur of the moment Carl travels a good deal for his business. His fantasy begins on a train, as he exchanges glances with a gorgeous woman wearing a beautifully fitted business suit. The looks grow bolder and longer as time passes.
6. Making love under force You can sleep with anyone you want and you don’t have to feel guilty! After all, you were forced. "I can think of nothing more wonderful than being blindfolded and confined to a bed," giggles Joyce. "Eight people take turns having sex with me at the same time—in various combinations. I can’t do anything to stop them. After a while, I don’t want to!"
7. Making love in forbidden spots where you could easily be discovered Ellen was traveling in Italy when she came upon a lush, expansive park in Rome. All she could think about was how exciting it would be to duck under a bush or behind a tree with a darkly handsome Roman man and make deliciously furtive love. "People stroll past us," she says, elaborating on her fantasy. "But they’re completely unaware of what is going on only a few yards away."
8. Making love with someone of the same sex Lynne has never made love with another woman. "But one of my favorite fantasies is to make love with my mirror image—the brunette counterpart to my own blond beauty," she says. "It would be like doubling my pleasure."
9. Watching your partner make love to someone else Although he would never act out his fantasy in real life, Jim has always wanted to watch his girlfriend, Beth, making love. "The only way I could see every move she makes and every expression of her passion is if she were making love to another man—an extremely virile-looking body-builder type," Jim explains. "Of course, Beth would be doing this only to please me. Her mind would be constantly on my excitement, and even during the heights of her passion, her eyes would never leave mine."
10. Making love with a celebrity Ever since Jane saw a ‘60s film adaptation of Faulkner’s Sanctuary, about a privileged Southern belle who is imprisoned by a French brothel keeper and eventually becomes his willing love slave, she began fantasizing about the sexy late French film star Yves Montand. "For decades now—even after Montand become a gray-haired senior citizen—my favorite sexual fantasy has been to imagine myself playing out the exact same scenario—enslaved by lust to Yves Montand." |
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