I am interested in everything that excites the mind or
the body, and preferably both.
Classical Music
First, and foremost,
Classical
Music is my life-long love. My parents are both musicians,
my brother, Rami Bar-Niv , is a Concert Pianist, and my nephew, Tal Bar-Niv, is
an accomplished musician. As a child, my late father taught me to play the violin ---after winning me over from my Mom, who was trying to teach me the piano... Nowadays, I keep on studying it on my own. I am always on the lookout for a good pianist to accompany me.
About 10 years ago, I took up the classical guitar, studying with
the late Mrs. Anita Sheer. At that time, I also became interested
in Flamenco music, because Anita was the President of the
"Flamenco Society of San Jose". My favorite venue for interacting
with guitar lovers is the
The South Bay Guitar Society.
Personal Growth
I became interested in Personal Growth about 15 years ago;
that's when I found out the right terminology for these
strange interests. Personal Growth, of course, takes different
forms for different people. I started by taking the "SAGE
Experience" from
Mastery Services. That was a weekend-long workshop --a
remote relative of "Est" and "Life Spring". For me, it was an
eye opener, and an introduction to the subject of "Humanness".
That followed by "Warrior with Heart", from the same wonderful
people; four days of an upheaval,
and a complete re-evaluation of my life and my mental and
physical powers. The next step, naturally, led me into
Fire-Walking. This is an experience that defies
verbal description. It combines extreme exhilaration, a feeling
of "If I did that, I can do ANYTHING", and a tremendous boost
of one's self-confidence, and the belief in the untapped powers
we all posses. Jon cotton (also Carol Ackels and
others) took me further, into re-bar bending/throat-piercing
(whichever comes first), and some other hair-raising
(N/A to baldies) experiences. Relatively late into my path I
discovered Anthony Robbins,
his books, workshops, etc.
My interest in Therapeutic Massage also dates back about 20
years. It started with a weekend-long workshop at
Esalen., where they
naturally taught the Esalen style of massage.
Since then, I have taken tens of courses from various
organization, such as the
Body Therapy Center. Eventually, I got certified by the
Western College of Therapeutic Massage --thereby combining
pleasure with business. Over there, I mostly acquired the
techniques of Swedish, and Deep-Tissue.
At some random periods of my life I got involved, and practiced,
Hata- and Kundalini-Yoga, Transcendental Meditation,
Self-Hypnosis,
Indian-Sweat-Lodging
, Judo, Aikido, and alike.
Ballroom Dancing
Ten years ago I discovered Ballroom Dancing. That opened for me
a way to socialize in a relaxed, clean (from smoke/alcohol),
non-threatening, and totally fun way. Initially, I was
only interested in the social side of it.
As I learned more and more, my interest
shifted towards the dancing per se. Ballroom dancing encompasses
Smooth dances (Waltz, Foxtrot, Quickstep...), Latin (Tango
--International and
Argentine,
Rumba, Bolero, Cha-Cha, Samba,
Salsa, Lambada...),
and American
(Hustle, Two-Step,
East- and West-Coast Swing). My favorite dance venue used to be the
Starlite Ballroom. But, having re-discovered West Coast Swing, I became a regular at the new (and fantastic in all respects) Steppin'Out studio in Sunnyvale, where I have been consistently taking Richard Kear's Monday classes for the last year. We are now working on this routine (please see my Dance site).
The Great Outdoors
I have always been a runner; 15 to 20 miles a week on the
trails of Rancho San Antonio can clear up my mind enough...
for meditation. I do weight-lifting for cross-training.
Skiing is my fav. It's helped me a lot with my Anatomy studies---especially related to knees and shoulders. I mainly ski down-hill in Tahoe
(
Heavenly Valley, and such), and cross-country in
Yosemite.
I love water sports: Water-Skiing, Wind-Surfing,
Whitewater-Rafting,
and
Scuba-Diving. In rafting, I've had lots of O.O.B.E's
(out-of-boat-experience) in up to Level-IV waters. So, it hardly
matters any more whether I am in or out of the raft.
Scuba-Diving, I got spoiled --having learned it
in the Red Sea. So, those, needing a scuba buddy for a trip to
the North Sea, please contact my neighbor....
We hear of people having Near-Death experiences.
I am still working on my first Near-Life one.
View my Album. Contact me: ybalias-friends"at"yahoo.com (Please type in the @ sign to replace "at")
P.S.: Almost forgot all about that. I am single, and looking. If you want to
find out more about this aspect of my life, please email me for the password
to my wishes and secret desires,