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About ME and my Situation |
| Hi. I am 26. 135 lbs. 5'10". I try to
be open and honest. I don't like playing head games. I just
want to be free and have a little bit of fun. I live in Newport News, VA. Close to Harpersville and Jefferson. I am recently going thru a separation. I have a daughter, almost three years old. She is the most important thing in my life. Out of respect, I would like to keep her separate from my dating life. This is sort of out of respect for my soon to be ex wife. And so my daughter does not get too confused. What am I looking for in a relationship. To be honest, I am not exactly sure yet. I am NOT looking for LOVE. I am not looking for GAMES. I am not really into looking for a long term thing. I am not looking for a real emotional attachment either. I am just not ready for that type of stuff yet. At least I know what I do NOT want. I be honest, I am 26, red blooded, straight guy. I am looking for more than just SEX. I am also looking for a physical, intimate relationship too. I am not looking for ONE Night Stands. I am not looking to sleep with everybody in town (for one, that would not even happen anyways). But when it comes to sex. I want to feel safe. I am a one woman type person. I am not looking to get into multiple sex partners or anything like that (even though if it was at one concentual setting, it would be interesting. hehehe). I do have a bit of a dirty mind... But heck, I am honest. And most people are interested in SEX in one fashion or another. I am just open and to the point about what I am about concerning SEX. But I am looking for more than SEX... I would like to find a friend. Actually, I like to find friends. One sex partner, but I am looking for multiple friends. Somebody to go out and just have fun. Be it just dinner, going to the movies, maybe bowling, whatever.. I wouldn't smoke, drink, or any of that other stuff either. I wouldn't mind going out drinking, but I will be ordering the PEPSI.. hehehe... I am awkward around women. I have goto clubs, but I don't know how to approach women. I feel strange. I see 'em dancing with other men or women and don't know how to approach. So, I always go home alone. I am also, not sure what to talk about. I never really dated, not even in High School. I still have no clue what to talk about. The only thing I can think about is my current situation with the EX and myself. And I feel bad about talking about that stuff. I don't know, I guess it lets you know how I am, and tells my side of the story. But I feel like I want to talk about her too much and it just seems wierd... Especially if we are on a date (or even just friendship rendezvous). I want to be completely honest, to whomever I am with. I do have DEEP feelings for my ex. I know she is not returning to me. She has her own situation and is with another. I am disappointed but am also happy for her too. I just hope he treats her right. I know she is a wonderful person and I am honest, if she would ask to be back, I would take her back in a nanosecond... Also, I am working full time, my daughter is in daycare, but as of today (July 1st 2003), she lives here with me. My working hours is not the best for dating. I go in from 11 to 7pm. my daycare doesn't like to keep her after 6pm so the ex-wife picks her up from daycare and brings her back to our house. And stays here until I get home about 7:30. Sometimes she says for a while to talk. I am trying to build a friendship with her. Just a friendship. but like I said, I do wish it were more. So, dating during the week is wierd. And I guess we are exchanging weekends, she she can have some time for herself too. I am a very devoted father. And never really have plans anyways. but hopefully that will change. |
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What I am Looking to Find |
Contact Info |
| I am not looking for LOVE. I found love
and have lost love. At this point and time, I am just getting back
onto my feet. I am looking for either a friendship or a physical
relationship. Hopefully something in the middle.
Like I mentioned earlier, I try to be open and honest. I am always concerned about safety. I hope to find a monogamous relationship. I am sure about wanting anymore children. Kids are a joy but can complicate a relationship and right now. I do not need more potential problems. I have thought about getting myself a vasectomy so I wouldn't have to worry about bringing another individual in this messed up world. |
We currently live here in Newport News,
Virginia (just bought this house in Sept 2002). Really there isn't
too much more about myself. I try to
check my e-mail daily. So,
please feel free to e-mail me anytime at
geocities@mosesandkelly.com. 
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