This first list is a list of the books that I recommend based on what I've seen.
REVIVING OPHELIA, by Mary Pipher
BEYOND VICTIMHOOD, by Tom Fitzgerald
THE SEXUAL HEALING JOURNEY: A GUIDE FOR SURVIVORS OF SEXUAL ABUSE, by Wendy Maltz
SEXUAL ABUSE: SACRED WOUND, by Stephanie Mines---This book is a little different than most self help books. It approaches healing without therapists, but instead with art.
The books below are those which have been recommended to me.
AGAINST RAPE, by Andra Medea and Kathleen Thompson
COPING WITH DATE RAPE AND ACQUINTANCE RAPE, by Andrea Parrot
FREE OF THE SHADOWS: Recovering From Sexual Violence, by Caren Adams and Jennifer Fay
I NEVER CALLED IT RAPE, by Robin Warshaw
IF SHE IS RAPED: A Book For Husbands, Fathers, and Male Friends, by Alan W McEvoy and Jeff B Brookings
IF YOU ARE RAPED: What Every Woman Needs To Know, by Kathryn M Johnson
NO FAIRY GODMOTHERS, NO MAGIC WANDS: The Healing Process After Rape, by J.H. Katz
RAPE: THE POWER OF CONSCIOUSNESS, by Susan Griffin
RECLAIMING OUR LIVES, by Karen Lison and Carol Poston
RECOVERING FROM RAPE, by Linda Ledray
SAFE AT LAST: A Handbook For Recovery From Abuse, by David J. Schopick, MD
THE POLITICS OF RAPE: The Victim's Perspective, by Diana E.H. Russell