The Story of Liz
After many months of searching for my birthmother, my quest has come to a wonderful end. It turned out that I had all the information I needed to find my her for some time. So far, we've exchanged letters, numerous emails and flowers. We're planning a reunion for Christmas. I'm so thrilled, I can't even describe it!
December 2, 1997
It appears that I've been remiss in updating this site, but since I don't get that many hits here, I guess it's okay. Kathy and I have been emailing for a while now, and last week I got an email from Kathy's mother, my birth grandmother, who is very excited about me finding them. The day I got that email, I felt inspired and picked up the phone (this time I was armed with an operational number) and called Kathy. We talked for a wonderful 2 hours, it felt more like talking to a sister than a birthmother. We'll be meeting during my trip to Columbus at Christmas. I can't wait!!!
Oct. 12, 1997
Things are looking up. I got a new job, starting tomorrow.
I got a letter from my birthmom today! She sent pictures of herself, and for the first time in my life, I look like someone. It's so amazing to look at the pictures and see parts of me. My bony elbows, my lips, are reflected in her, her parents and her sons. She is so happy to hear from me, she's never forgotten me, but she's never doubted that her decision to give me up was the right one. Neither have I.
Sept.29, 1997
This is a day of good news and bad news. The good news is that my birthmother sent me some beautiful flowers. The bad news is that I was home to receive them because I was laid off from my job.
I look forward to hearing more from my birthmother, and hopefully to getting a new job very soon. I'll keep you posted.
Sept. 22, 1997
Today I mailed a letter to my birthmom, telling her a little bit about who I am, and enclosed two pictures. It took me a long time to compose this letter. All the while I was mindful of the fact that it could well be my only contact with her. I told my Mom (my adoptive mom, who will always be Mom to me) that I was worried. "What if she doesn't like me?" I asked. Mom replied with her ususal matter-of-factness: "If she doesn't like you, she's got a problem." I hope she does...
She should be getting this letter on Thursday or Friday.
Sept. 21, 1997
Today I found out the name and location of my birthmother. I woke up this morning more nervous than I've ever been. I got dressed, complete with my lucky underwear and lucky t-shirt, and sat down to call her. Before I called, I said that one of two things could happen: she would be glad to hear from me, or she wouldn't. I didn't count on a third thing- her phone had been disconnected. What a letdown that was!
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