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For Married Women Only: My Advice On The War About Sex

I've been married for sixteen years to the same man. It hasn't always been a smooth road, but it is getting better and better since I learned some basic secrets about men, and I'm going to share some of them with you, other wives.

Manual sex saved my marriage.

My husband had this incredible sex drive that far exceeded my own. For the first two-three years of our marriage we'd have power struggles all the time, and the major conflict was that he said I didn't give him enough sex.

What to do? I didn't want to fake it, and yet his disposition did improve after a good romp, so I made a deal with him. I told him it was unrealistic to expect me to "come alive" every time he was randy, but if he would accept oral or manual sex as a substitute I would never turn him down. At first he said no, that he wanted the "real" lovemaking...but I changed his mind.

Here's some rules for you to lay down before you start:

1. Whoever is giving pleasure is in TOTAL CONTROL. If your man wants you to do it HIS WAY tell him NO if you want to. This is your gift to him. YOU ARE NOT SUBORDINATE IN ANY WAY, SHAPE, OR FORM. If your man doesn't trust you enough for this kick him out and find someone who's on your level.

2. The man can make SUGGESTIONS but not ORDERS, You do not have to accept any of his suggestions or remarks if you decide not to. His body is in your control. If he wants to take over tell him to jerk himself off, he doesn't need you for that.

My Philosophy Men's bodies are producing sperm constantly. If they don't expell this excess it builds in their bodies until it reaches up to the brain. There, hidden next to the pineal gland, is the ASSHOLE button. This sperm starts pushing on this button after about a day or two of no release of sperm. As the pressure builds the button is pushed more and the man becomes more and more of an asshole. Keep the pressure off the asshole button and he'll be far easier to live with, believe me!

According to Dr. Phil it takes men 2.8 minutes for a man...not much to ask, eh?

Let your man read this and then ask him:

1. If you need sex, will you accept manual pleasure as a substitute?

2. Will you allow me to express my creative desire to give you pleasure without any interference? Any way I see fit? Long or short, wet or dry, hot or cold?

3. Do you agree to give me total license over your body? I will never endeavor to cause you pain or discomfort.

Why Women Don't

They think it's demeaning. They see themselves on their knees at the feet of a man and he has his hand on their head, holding them down....I don't tolerate that and neither should you.

Some women think it's dirty. Sorry. We are all biological physical lifeforms here. Sometimes biology is messy. Get over it. Have your towel handy, make him shower first, powder him up with sweet baby powder first if you need to, but get this twisted idea of "dirty" out of your head. He needs to get off (and it only takes 2.8 minutes according to Dr.Phil's Show on Sex). No one can do it better than you can.

Some women are utterly stupid and don't realize that when you have satisfied a man's sex drive he is less likely to stray.

If you want your relationship to improve and the SEX issue has been a mainstay of your power struggles then you have to change the battleground. Learning the joy of pleasing your man, in an arena in which you can do NO wrong may take the edge off your animosity later, but it will not fix everything.

~~~~~~Have fun and a happy marriage!!!~~~~~~~~~~

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