This is what your sisters had to say about their breastfeeding experiences. These numbers are based on a survey size of 26. I will update the survey as I receive more responses. This is too small a survey size to develop any correlations, but I hope it proves helpful to those of you who have not yet embarked on this journey.
The respondants:
are currently breastfeeding and working 77%
have breastfed while working in the past 15%
returning to work from maternity leave 8%
How many children do you have?
1 77%, 2 15%, 3 8%. So most of our mothers
were first time mothers.
How many children have you breastfed?
Most children from all mothers were breastfed. One child out of the group was not breastfed.
How old is your child? On the average
13.62 mos with ranges from 1 month to 5.5 years.
How long did/have you nursed? On the average, children were nursed for 9.4 mos. Most respondants were still breastfeeding. The longest a child was
breastfed was 28 months. The amount of time breastfed is not a really good indicator in this survey because most of the respondents are still breastfeeding. But that is great!
Do you:
like your job 77%
not like your job 15%
not care about your job 8%
How long were you able to stay home with your baby? On average 11 weeks
with ranges from 2 weeks to 26 weeks.
How many days before returning to work did you pump after feedings? On the average 17.48 days
Most commonly 10 days or just short of two weeks. Some never pumped before returning (3) and one pumped for 77 days before returning.
After every feeding or some feedings? 13% pumped after every feeding. 62% pumped
after some feedings. 25% did not prepare by pumping after feedings.
As additional information, all respondants pumped at work.
I was given good counselling before returning to work | 60% no | 40% yes | I felt the pump I used at work was efficient | 17% no | 83% yes | I had a comfortable place to pump | 25% no | 75% yes | I had support from my boss | 8% no | 92% yes | I had support from my company | 30% no | 70% yes | There were other mothers who had pumped or were pumping at work. | 56% no | 44% yes | I knew other mothers who pumped at work at other companies. | 57% no | 43% yes | I attended LLLI meetings | 75% no | 13% yes | I used a lactation consultant while on maternity leave | 72% no | 28% yes | I used a lactation consultant after I returned to work | 88% no | 12% yes | I called my LLLI leader while on maternity leave | 75% no | 25% yes | I called my LLL leader after I returned to work. | 75% no | 25% yes | I felt that I was successful | 8% no | 92% yes | I felt that breastfeeding (before returning to work) was easy | 24% no | 76% yes | I felt that pumping after I returned to work was easy | 64% no | 36% yes |
If you stopped breastfeeding, was it before you were ready to? 80% stopped before they were ready.
Did you regret stopping? 80% regretted stopping when they did.
Did you stop before you had planned to stop? 80% of those who have weaned stopped before they had planned to stop.
What was/is your primary reason for breastfeeding?
medical/health/common sicknesses 50%
allergies in the family 4%
closeness/touch/relationship 31%
medical/health/common sicknesses 58%
the only way I know 8%
If you have weaned your child please give the most important reason why you made this decision:
he/she weaned him/herself 2 people
could not pump enough 1 person
milk dried up
While working and breastfeeding, did you encounter any of these problems and still continue breastfeeding?
biting 27%
mastitis 12%
comments from coworkers/family/friends 42%
nipple confusion/child refusing breast 19%
could not pump enough 38%
hated pumping 27%
logistics were/are difficult 38%
pumping takes time 69%
didn't like breastfeeding 4%
What is your favorite book on breastfeeding?
"So THAT's What They're For!" (Janet Tamaro) 1 vote
Mothering your BF Toddler 1 vote
Nursing Mother's Companion 5 votes
Sear's The Baby Book 1 vote
The LaLeche League Answer Book 1 vote
The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding 3 votes
I am an anesthesiologist with very unpredictable hours and long hours. I have a supportive husband, I believe that my breastfeeding is best for my baby.
At work, I pump in the comfort of the bathroom stall. Yuck! I also use a manual pump. Yuck, again! I am seriously considering getting an electric hand held pump since I plan to breast feed until Kristina is at least a year old - or more. I usually can pump 3 to 4 oz. during the day and then supplement with formula. At one point I could get up to 7 oz. but I found that it was taking too much time out of my day. I love the little munchkin but I can't spend all my time in the bathroom. Hopefully the electric pump will produce better results. :)
I wish more literature would be given to mothers in hospitals so that they would know that it is possible to work and breastfeed successfully.
Stress and fatigue can really deplete the best milk supply. I'd really like to be able to work part-time if I ever have another baby. It wasn't possible this time, so I usually feel unsuccessful as a breastfeeding mom and as a professional.
I loved breastfeeding my boys and am now pregnant with my third. I had to wean my first at 10 months due to severe health problems. COnor weaned himself :-( I hope this child will be able to nurse as long as he/she wants.
Kathleen
The best advise I can give someone is to go to a lactation consultant and try out different pumps - I believe that you must have a comfortable pumping situation before it can be a success for you. I drove two hours with my newborn for this option and it was worth every mile! If you have trouble relaxing for a pump - try mood music (headphones and lullabyes) and looking at a favorite picture of your child sleeping (that seems to have the most effect emotionally). You also need to work on your guilt level - I know I have felt guilty for the last 4 years (with my 1st I had to go back at 3 months - luckly with my second I got 6 months). Just know you are doing the best most natural thing for your child and being able to pump for the child is your way of giving to that child during the workday.
Good Luck to every mom out there! Email me if you want to conversate - dianef@qualice.com.
Leslie Burby
Becky Manteuffel
Karen Espaldon
I usually pumped about half an hour *before* feeding Caroline, rather than after. (I tried pumping after, but it was SO frustrating, because I could never get another letdown, and would only get an ounce or so.) Even if I pumped right before feeding her, she seemed to get enough. Sometimes I'd pump on one side *while* feeding her on the other side (this worked especially well because she often only nursed on one side anyway).
The hardest part for me in the beginning was finding times to pump (to build up a supply) that wouldn't interfere with her nursing too much.
The hardest part now is pumping enough milk to keep up with her demand. I'm fortunate in this regard, though -- she's not that crazy about the bottle, and tends to get more of her milk evenings/nights when she's with me (which unfortunately means less sleep). So she doesn't usually drink that much when I'm at work. Also, it's easier now that she's on solids: she has 1 or 2 solid meals, and 2 bottles (occasionally 3) while I'm at work, so she usually only takes 8-10 ounces total, or even less.
One thing I'd take issue with in your recommendations: you say to offer a bottle starting around 6 weeks, but I think earlier is a better idea. Most babies won't have a problem with nipple confusion if a bottle is offered around 3-4 weeks (assuming that nursing is going well), and some babies (perhaps many babies certainly both of mine!) are more resistant to taking a bottle if it's not offered early. Also, it's a good idea to give a bottle regularly once it's introduced, because a baby can "forget" (or just stop be willing to take) a bottle.
Attending evening LLL meetings is a great way to network with other working moms. Good luck to you!
I think what you are trying to do here is of value.
Michelle Schaefer