National Domestic Violence Hotline
1-800-799-SAFE, 1-800-787-3224 (TDD)

Welcome to FAVNET!

FAVNET Feminists Against Violence Network is a fully moderated email list dedicated to ending domestic violence & violence against women through networking & direct action for feminists & pro-feminists women & men within a feminist environment and based on a feminist perspective. Counselors, legal advocates, survivors, and all feminists & profeminist women & men who seek to redress violence against women are welcome!

FAVNET was founded by Marc Dubin (mdubin@ix.netcom.com) with the assistance of Andy Bartalone . On Dec 31,1996 FAVNET became a fully-moderated list moderated by Jennifer Gagliardi (gagliajn@netcom.com). And on Jan 22, 1997 list-ownership was transferred to Kristen Hansen and Jennifer Gagliardi. In 1998, Jennifer Gagliardi became sole list-owner & moderator.

THE GOALS OF FAVNET

1. To provide survivors of and advocates against domestic violence, child abuse, sexual assault, stalking, and other acts of male violence access to resources and support. These resources include a worldwide network of committed women and men who struggle daily to end violence against women.

2. To provide news & information about events and political developments that affect violence against women.

3. To provide accurate statistics about violence against women.

4. To provide a place where survivors and people working to end domestic violence & male violence against women can meet, help one another, share their stories, feel less isolated, and be empowered.

5. To provide a place where violence against women can be put into a political, social, and historical perspective.

6. To provide a resource where those in need of help can meet those able to help them, obtain accurate information, or referrals to programs that aim to end violence against women.

7. To provide a place where these interactions and discussions can happen within a feminist environment and based on a feminist perspective.

GUIDLINES FOR POSTING TO FAVNET

FAVNET is a FULLY-MODERATED list. We ask that all subscribers adhere to the following norms of nettiquette, respecting the dignity & good taste of all involved. Plurality of opinions is great--flaming & misogyny is not.


1. Topics

Appropriate topics include: Grant information for non-profit agencies working to end violence against women; Information about speakers, conferences, publications, etc. on the topic of domestic violence & violence against women; Survivors' stories; Information regarding programs addressing violence against women; Available domestic violence & violence against women resources; Requests for assistance; Offers of assistance; News about violence against women; Information about laws concerning domestic violence & violence against women; Information about medicine and violence against women; Information about law enforcement and violence against women; Information about courts and violence against women; Information about businesses and violence against women; Discussion about privilege gained through violence as a means to oppress women.

If there is something questionable in a post, the moderator will return it to the original author with suggestions for editting, expansion, etc. Although the moderator may reformat your post for legibility (or clip a wholescale quote of a post) AT NO TIME WILL THE MODERATOR EDIT YOUR POST. YOUR WORDS ARE YOUR OWN!

In summary, if the post is related to domestic violence &/or violence against women and is free of misogyny or flames, it is posted. Anything off topic will be returned.

2. Subject Lines

Please use the subject line so that it accurately reflects the content of your post. This helps subscribers manage the high volume mail days more efficiently. Please use the prefix FAV: in the subject line of your post (ex: FAV: New DV Study).

3. Common Sense Sensitivity

In joining FAVNET, all subscribers should do two things:

A) Agree to take extra responsibility for the way in which they express their ideas and emotions on list. If you have to "vent" about a FAVNET matter, do it off-list.
B) Remember the limits of the medium, e-mail, that we work in! E-mail isn't formal or face-to-face, so people tend to "speak" thoughtlessly or carelessly when rushing to post in their free time, etc. Do not assume that an ignorant and/or hurtful comment was made with ill-will in mind. If you feel offended, see "A", above, and compose and post a clarifying question.

4. Disrespect

Posting of misogynist materials is inappropriate and will result in the poster's unsubscription from the list. "Flaming" (vehment disagreement & critique of a position is not a flame; a personal attack is) or anything that can be construed as a threa is inappropriate on FAVNET. Flamers will be given one warning and, after that, subsequent flaming will result in unsubscription from the list. Flaming cannot and will not be tolerated on FAVNET because it shuts down communication, precludes education, and wounds unintended victims in unforeseen ways.

Subscribers who are disruptive (on- or off-list) or who do not agree to abide by nettiquette as interpretted by the list moderator will be suspended or unsubscribed. Please consult http://www.fau.edu/rinaldi/net/dis.html for further details on nettiquette.

5. Diversity

Although listmembers have subscribed because of a common goal, they bring different backgrounds, approaches, and perspectives to the on-list discussions. This diversity is to be encouraged and respected by all listmembers. Please remember that trolls will be unsubscribed; the uneducated, however, have subscribed in order to learn: please teach them by explaining *why* they are in error--don't attack them for their lack of understanding.

Likewise, if you're new to the list (and this topic), ask questions; don't blithely challenge listmembers who may have a better personal and/or professional understanding of the issues than you do.

6. Personal information

Please limit the amount of personal, identifying information you post to the list (e.g. addresses, personal history that you wouldn't want discussed in a public forum). Although trolls will be removed, "Father's Rights" advocates and other members of the Male Lobby have shown a flattering amount of interest in FAVNET. They, and other persons hostile to the list's goals, have previously lied about themselves in order to be subscribed--and stayed silent while receiving and then forwarding FAVNET posts to other lists, often with snide editorial comments attached. Since it's not feasible to unsubscribe all the "lurkers", this is a problem that it difficult (if not impossible) to eliminate. Please be cautious.

7. Formatting

When posting to FAVNET, please take care in your post's format. Try to repair line breaks, strip needless headers & quotes ">". Kindly identify the person whom you are quoting. Also do not quote an entire post & then tack your comments at the end (the entire quoted post may be clipped); rather intersperse your comments throughout the post. Care in formatting will greatly aid people in reading your posts & acquiring new info. Please refrain from simply posting "one-liners", "me-tos", & "atta girl!" comments, but add your own comments/information to forward the thread. If a thread has "frayed", becomes hostile, or simply outlives its usefulness, the moderator reseves the right to issue a STOP POST by a certain date & time.

8. Crossposting

Although there are many informational posts on FAVNET, please get the poster's expressed permission to crosspost offlist (it would also help if the original poster notes at the beginning of the post "Please Distribute"). If you crosspost from another list, please include the original poster's address & the list from which it was crossposted. Same if you crosspost appropriate info to another list: please include the original poster's address & line "Crossposted From: FAVNET@otd.com"--this way people can keep track of appropriate forums, how their info is being used, and subscribers can choose to pursue dialogue with the original author, who is often not a subscriber to the list to which their article was crossposted. Flagrant violation of any of the above may result in unsubscription.

Crossposting personal info will result in a warning & may result in unsubsciption. Crossposting any post to a Father Rights &/or the Masculinist Lobby forum will result in immediate unsubscription upon discovery & without warning, and a complaint filed with their internet service provider.

By subscribing to FAVNET list, you are agreeing to observe the norms of nettiquette & nettiquette unique to FAVNET, and to accept the consequences for any violation. In short, Netiquette = RESPECT!

Finally, FULL MODERATION means that although there maybe slips in all of the above (we are very humyn ;-) FAVNET is a great space for feminists & pro-feminists to meet, discuss, strategize, and implement a violence-free society where women (& their children & menfolk) can live free from fear.

FAVNET ADMINISTRATA

To subscribe to FAVNET, please send a message to favnet@otd.com with the following info:
1) Full Name
2) Email Address
3) A brief discription of your background
4) A brief comment on why you would like to subscribe to FAVNET

To post a message to FAVNET, send the message to:

Feminists Against Violence Network (favnet@otd.com)

It will be automatically forwarded to the moderator for her approval


INTERNET RESOURCES RELATED TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE & VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN

New subscribers are also encouraged to checkout the following lists & internet resources:

Email Lists:

Abigail's Rebels ABIGAILS-L@HOME.EASE.LSOFT.COM--a feminist activist discussion list

END_VIOLENCE end-violence@edc-cit.org --a discussion list in preparation for UNIFEM's dv/vaw March 1999 conference. See UNIFEM

FGM-L fmg-l@hollyfeld.org --a list organized against Female Genital Mutilation

FIVERS fmg-l@hollyfeld.org-- Feminists against Intimate Violence through Empowerment, Energizing, Education, Exchange Resources, Resistance, Research AND Support. An excellent list organizing against domestic violence.

RECLAIM THE NIGHT webweave@isis.aust.com--an email list from Australia, dedicated anti-dv/vaw activities.

RURALCONNECT ruralconnect@plains.net)dv/vaw & rural women

Or check out any number of gender-inclusive, feminist-related forums as listed in Joan Korenman's frequently updated pages:

Women's Studies: UMBC and Beyond
http://www-unix.umbc.edu/~korenman/wmst/
Guide to Feminist Mailing Lists
http://www-unix.umbc.edu/~korenman/wmst/forums.html
Women's Studies/Women's Issues Resource Sites
http://www-unix.umbc.edu/~korenman/wmst/links.html

The FAVNET website http://geocities.datacellar.net/Wellesley/8984/favnet.html features links to other sites, organized according to different dv/vaw topics (ex: glbt dv, dv & substance abuse, foreign language dv/vaw resources,etc).

Other outstading dv/vaw websites include:

DOJ Violence Against Women Office
http://justice2.usdoj.gov/vawo/
National Domestic Violence Hotline
1-800-799-SAFE, 1-800-787-3224 (TDD)

Justice Information Center Homepage:
http://www.ncjrs.org/homepage.htm

Minnesota Center Against Violence & Abuse
http://www.mincava.umn.edu/index.asp

Rural Womyn Zone: Violence Against Rural Women
http://www.wowwomen.com/ruralzone/domvio.htm

SafetyNet: Domestic Violence Resources:
http://www.cybergrrl.com/dv.html

Texas Association Against Sexual Assault (info in spanish & english)
http://www.taasa.org/

Victim Services: Domestic Violence Shelter tour
http://www.dvsheltertour.org/

*****
Thanks!


FAVNET moderator, Jennifer Gagliardi (gagliajn@netcom.com)

a copy of this infocard is available @
http://geocities.datacellar.net/Wellesley/8984/favnet-info.html


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