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Debbie

Me and hubby Robbie
Me and hubby Robbie

Hi , My name is Debbie, my daughter Jessica has a
Wilms tumor. We have a Shitzu (dog) named Gizmo.
Jess is our only child. My husband's name is Robbie.
I am a nurse/manager for a Cardiology group, my
former job was 10 years in Adult oncology, (can you
believe that?). My dh is a homicide detective for our
local police dept. Being a nurse helped me get through
some of the tough times (mostly understanding
what was happening) but all my nursing experience
"left my head" when I found out my child had cancer.

Jessica, The Cowgirl - jul/97
Jessica, The Cowgirl -  jul/97

On Aug.15,1997, on a routine 5 year old check-up and
pre-kindergarten physical, while palpating Jessica's
abdomen, our pediatrician found a large "mass".
She had NO symptoms! We were immediately sent for
an abdominal ultrasound. This confirmed it to be a
tumor, but they were unsure if it was a Wilms tumor or
a Neuroblastoma. Arrangements were made for us to
be at Medical College Of Virginia at 6:00 am the next
morning for more tests. Cat scans confirmed it to be a
Wilms tumor in her left kidney. It also confirmed that she
has "multiple "small nodules scattered within both
lungs. Surgery could not be done until the 19th.

Jessica - Christmas 97
Jessica - Christmas 97

Between the 16th and the day of surgery,  the tumor
apparently ruptured through the kidney, attached to the
spleen, and her diaphragm. The surgeon was able to
"peel" the tumor off the spleen, but had to resect the
diaphragm, thus causing Jessica to need to be on the
respirator for a week. There was nothing that could be
resected from the lungs because of the "scattered"
small tumors in both lungs. They gave us a choice of
chemo and radiation, or just chemo and "wait and see
what happens to the lungs". We opted to go full force.

Jessica - april/98
Jessica - april/98

Jessica started radiation treatments 5 days later and the
chemo on post op day 6. She had a very complicated
hospital course, pancreatitis, developed a stress ulcer,
and had 2 bowel obstructions, which needed to be fixed
surgically. She stayed in the hospital for 1 month!
Through all of this, Jessica only complained once
about being in the hospital, and that was because she
missed her dog (a friend snuck him into the hospital in a
large tote bag). The chemo and the radiation were hard
for her to understand, but when I explained it all to her,
she never cried, nor put up a fuss about going so
often for treatments. She had long, strawberry blonde
hair, and we thought it would bother her that it fell
out, but she took it with a grain of salt.

Jessica and Mom - may/98
Jessica and Mom - may/98

She is quite special, when we left the hospital after a
second stay for a line infection, she gave all her stuffed
animals that people had brought her to the nurses on
the ped.onc floor to give to other children, "because
she really didn't need them". She has given me a lot of
strength through all of this. She has completed
8 months of chemo, and 1 month of radiation, and her
latest scans have been "negative".

We are so very thankful our pediatrician found this
when he did!!!

Gizmo and Jessica - june/98
Gizmo and Jessica - june/98

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