Welcome to my Guestbook! Look to see who came before, learn from them, then leave your own wisdom for those who are to come.

deb - 09/19/00 03:28:38
My Email:CHAVEZ.L.D.@prodigy.net
How did you get to the Haven?: reading info from website
Do you think dissociation is normal? Scary? Or just something that lonely people do to get attention?: normal and scary
Do you believe in God?: yes
Where do you hope to be in 100 years? What plans have you made to get there?: in heaven
Have you hugged your inner child today?: no

Comments:
why do you think that this could help anyone

Lynda - 08/14/00 00:05:51
My URL:http://usa.internations.net/health/redapple/index4.htm
My Email:arnica@hotbot.com
How did you get to the Haven?: One of Many web ring
How many people live inside your head?: Countless
Do you think dissociation is normal? Scary? Or just something that lonely people do to get attention?: I think of it as a coping skill
Do you believe in God?: Yes I do, Messianic Jew
Where do you hope to be in 100 years? What plans have you made to get there?: Keeping care of my health
Have you hugged your inner child today?: Yes I just did.

Comments:
Wishing you well with your encouraging, informative web site. Lynda

EagleWings - 07/27/00 17:28:49
My URL:http://www.blushingangel.com/mbb
My Email:oneagleswings_59@yahoo.com
How did you get to the Haven?: webring
How many people live inside your head?: not really sure
Do you think dissociation is normal? Scary? Or just something that lonely people do to get attention?: No, I don't think its normal, but I do think it is a way for people to get through bad things. And I believe that through Jesus there is heali g.
Do you believe in God?: YES
Where do you hope to be in 100 years? What plans have you made to get there?: I hope to be a whole healthy person. Or with Jesus in heaven, which ever comes first.

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I'm speachless. Thank you Corrie for you honesty and openness.

- 04/27/00 01:25:46
Do you think dissociation is normal? Scary? Or just something that lonely people do to get attention?: not sure
Do you believe in God?: I am a Christian
Where do you hope to be in 100 years? What plans have you made to get there?: heaven!
Have you hugged your inner child today?: hugged lots of people

Comments:
Wishing you well. Life can be hard but I believe that there is a purpose to our suffering. You are God's child(ren!) and very loved by Him. Just wanted to send you my love too!

grace - 04/19/00 21:28:26
My URL:http://altersalive
My Email:altersalive@hotmail.com
How did you get to the Haven?: we are already a part of it , god is withus in all things. it is our choices that decide when and where.
How many people live inside your head?: we have six active committie member and many young children and enfints
Do you think dissociation is normal? Scary? Or just something that lonely people do to get attention?: Yes it is normal, but mps do it inorder to survive the abuse. it is only later that we must learn how not to dissociate and work with the here nd now
Do you believe in God?: yes, I feel that he gave me this disorder or gift so that i can complete the task that was giving to me in this life.
Where do you hope to be in 100 years? What plans have you made to get there?: I hope to be with god in a hundred years, I hope that i complete my task and learn the lessons that needed to be learned
Have you hugged your inner child today?: the get loved every day

Comments:
I am MPD, your page gives me hope that others are not alone and can find others for surport.

Theliel - 04/03/00 20:42:25
My URL:http://geocities.datacellar.net/Athens/Academy/8200
My Email:Theliel41@hotmail.com
How did you get to the Haven?: surfing the web
How many people live inside your head?: don't know total yet.
Do you think dissociation is normal? Scary? Or just something that lonely people do to get attention?: It's a gift.
Do you believe in God?: yes
Where do you hope to be in 100 years? What plans have you made to get there?: sitting on a porch watching the children of my generations play. I'll get there by living life joyfully.
Have you hugged your inner child today?: yes :)

Comments:
Love your pages. Read every one of them. Saw me while I was reading. Please anyone with MPD/DID feel free to email me. I'm just discovering myself/selves and I would encourage any to share their story with me. Thanks. God bless.

Jez - 02/29/00 01:44:05
How did you get to the Haven?: MSN
How many people live inside your head?: several - but only one at a time
Do you think dissociation is normal? Scary? Or just something that lonely people do to get attention?: Scary,there are devine reasons for everything
Do you believe in God?: yes
Where do you hope to be in 100 years? What plans have you made to get there?: with my family - trying to spiritually evolve
Have you hugged your inner child today?: No- but I've hugged my real ones

Comments:
I have found your pages fascinating I sincerely wish you all the peace and happiness that you would wish for yourself(ves) We are all unique - revel in your individuality(ies) - I am sure God gave it you for a purpose - do you know why ? Seek and be positive in your search, though I suspect you are doing this anyway. Good luck and sincere best wishes Jez

Dj - 02/20/00 10:53:14
My URL:http://geocities.datacellar.net/HotSprings/Spa/2463/
My Email:tygers@gci.net
How did you get to the Haven?: web ring
How many people live inside your head?: don't know
Do you think dissociation is normal? Scary? Or just something that lonely people do to get attention?: I think it is real
Do you believe in God?: Yes
Where do you hope to be in 100 years? What plans have you made to get there?: to be whole
Have you hugged your inner child today?: no

Comments:
Hi just wanted to say hi, and visiting all the sites on webring. Nice place you have here. Dj

Cheryl - 02/10/00 06:13:35
My Email:a4everluv@hotmail.com
How did you get to the Haven?: followed the trail from Ask Jeeves
How many people live inside your head?: Normally I don't know
Do you think dissociation is normal? Scary? Or just something that lonely people do to get attention?: It is safe and it is only for those who need it to live
Do you believe in God?: With all my heart, soul, mind and strength
Where do you hope to be in 100 years? What plans have you made to get there?: With Jesus!!!!!!
Have you hugged your inner child today?: Yes!!! about 4 minutes ago

Comments:
So many things are happening at once. Never would I have ever thought that the "broken glass and shattered pieces" would be "me" pieces. My friends take the best care of stuff. And they are quiet most of the time, unless they see there is danger of bei g overtaken. There is safety in numbers most of the time. I gues.

Vlad - 02/08/00 19:17:22
My URL:http://members.aol.com/vkmentor1
My Email:vkmentor1@aol.com
How did you get to the Haven?: Through a friend.
How many people live inside your head?: Depends on how one defines a "person."
Do you think dissociation is normal? Scary? Or just something that lonely people do to get attention?: So far, it's fascinating.
Do you believe in God?: No.
Where do you hope to be in 100 years? What plans have you made to get there?: Where? How about "what?" Continuing to observe that which fascinates me. No plan can yet solve the problem of my death.
Have you hugged your inner child today?: I'm afraid I've lost that abilty.

Comments:
Excellent work on this website.

Aither - 01/27/00 06:13:12
My URL:http://pages.about.com/Aither
My Email:aither@about.com
How did you get to the Haven?: Christian Multiples WebRing
How many people live inside your head?: over 20
Do you think dissociation is normal? Scary? Or just something that lonely people do to get attention?: normal- it shows how intelligent someone can be, to accept good and bad, and keep behavior appropriate for the situation at hand
Do you believe in God?: Yes: the Christian God
Where do you hope to be in 100 years? What plans have you made to get there?: i'm going to be the woman who changed the world, says me
Have you hugged your inner child today?: yes

Comments:
This is a wonderful site. You've inspired me to accept my personal facets and just deal with it. My "helpers" appreciate the fact that you've maintained this website to educate the "one-dimensional" people out there. Keep up the good work!

- 01/25/00 14:42:25

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Mojo - 10/21/99 19:45:48
My URL:http://geocities.datacellar.net/workprogram
My Email:mojo578@hotmail,com
How did you get to the Haven?: webring
Do you believe in God?: yes
Where do you hope to be in 100 years? What plans have you made to get there?: heaven,
Have you hugged your inner child today?: everyday

Comments:
Your site is really great. Informative and helpful and I will return often. I'll tell my friends about it too.

Colleen - 10/14/99 18:13:03
How did you get to the Haven?: Was doing psychology research
How many people live inside your head?: There's just me and the Holy Spirit which helps me to obey God.
Do you think dissociation is normal? Scary? Or just something that lonely people do to get attention?: I don't think it's normal, I do think it is a bit scary, and I also thing that some people enjoy making up a disorder to gain attention. Howev r, I also believe that it is a real disorder and I think it's very sad.
Do you believe in God?: Absolutely.
Where do you hope to be in 100 years? What plans have you made to get there?: In 100 years I will have died, and gone to heaven!
Have you hugged your inner child today?: No.

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Susan E. Slaymaker - 04/24/99 04:51:21
My Email:SES_57@yahoo.com
How did you get to the Haven?: Browsing
How many people live inside your head?: None
Do you think dissociation is normal? Scary? Or just something that lonely people do to get attention?: Yes
Do you believe in God?: Yes
Where do you hope to be in 100 years? What plans have you made to get there?: I haven't thought that far.
Have you hugged your inner child today?: No

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Cara Elizabeth Daniel - 03/18/99 00:36:58
My URL:http://www.asarian.org/~amber
My Email:cara_daniel@excite.com
How did you get to the Haven?: Haven people are my really awesome friends.
How many people live inside your head?: Well, now, that is debatable depending on who's functioning as a merged group and who's not at a given moment.
Do you think dissociation is normal? Scary? Or just something that lonely people do to get attention?: Well, for me it's just my life. I don't know how to do otherwise and am not sure if I want to.
Do you believe in God?: Most certainly.
Where do you hope to be in 100 years? What plans have you made to get there?: In 100 years, I definitely won't be here! Have a mansion to go live in.
Have you hugged your inner child today?: Oh, yes. At least one of them. :)

Comments:
I didn't realize I had never signed your guestbook and I've been coming here for a long time, watching you grow and get to know yourselves. You have an incredible amount of insight, and don't you forget it! Besides that, you're creative, and I really re lly like that! I think I'm inspired to actually put up my own personal page on my crowd's site.

Martin Battaliou - 03/09/99 21:12:56
My URL:http://www.angelfire.com/mb/bbep/javascript.html

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Rock on people, this is a great site. Thanks for letting me sign your guestbook. Keep up the good work.

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Martin Battaliou

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PROVERBWOMEN - 02/18/99 09:29:54
My URL:http://geocities.datacellar.net/Wellesley/Garden/5863
My Email:proverbwomen@geocities.com
How did you get to the Haven?: A Time to Heal Webring
How many people live inside your head?: Just me
Do you think dissociation is normal? Scary? Or just something that lonely people do to get attention?: Frightening, an illness
Do you believe in God?: I know God
Where do you hope to be in 100 years? What plans have you made to get there?: Heaven for sure. Accepted Jesus Christ as my Lord
Have you hugged your inner child today?: I want to love myself as I love my neighbor

Comments:
Thank you for sharing with us. We are also on aTime to Heal Webring. We are sharing with adult children of divorce and divorced women, offering prayer and comfort. May I say that you are very courageous to make public this horrible turmoil that you are suffering. I know that God is the great Healer and that He binds up the wounds for us so that there is not even a little scar left. God bless you, dear one, and I have prayed for you. I will come back again, have bookmarked and complete the entire page.

VALENCIA TAYLOR - 02/18/99 06:09:39
My URL:http://geocities.datacellar.net/HotSprings/Sauna/5807
My Email:val82951@msn.com
How did you get to the Haven?: surfed
Do you think dissociation is normal? Scary? Or just something that lonely people do to get attention?: Scary
Do you believe in God?: YES HALLELUJAH PRAISE GOD
Have you hugged your inner child today?: Not often enough

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Cyndi - 02/08/99 22:11:40
My URL:http://members.aol.com/godzawsome
My Email:GodzAwsome@aol.com
How did you get to the Haven?: Friends
How many people live inside your head?: I think 9
Do you think dissociation is normal? Scary? Or just something that lonely people do to get attention?: Undecided
Do you believe in God?: Whole Heartedly
Where do you hope to be in 100 years? What plans have you made to get there?: Heaven / Throught the blood of Christ and His everlasting grace and love
Have you hugged your inner child today?: uhhh, If I knew how, I would

Comments:
Love ya Sis

Jan Lee - 01/26/99 05:44:57
My Email:preciousme17@hotmail.com
How did you get to the Haven?: Surfed on in
How many people live inside your head?: at least two or more
Do you think dissociation is normal? Scary? Or just something that lonely people do to get attention?: it is normal
Do you believe in God?: absolutely
Where do you hope to be in 100 years? What plans have you made to get there?: Heaven - salvation
Have you hugged your inner child today?: yes

Comments:
It is such a relief to know I am not the only one in the world who has felt a split in personality.There has been a darkside to me all along and I did not realize until I started to face my past head on and started learning to deal with it. Thanks for yo r help in that area of my life.

David Vaught - 01/11/99 22:58:52
My URL:http://geocities.datacellar.net\~theophostic
My Email:dvaught@essmwmbg.com
How did you get to the Haven?: Through the Christian Multiples Webring
How many people live inside your head?: One Now.
Do you think dissociation is normal? Scary? Or just something that lonely people do to get attention?: It is Normal and Should be Accepted.
Do you believe in God?: YES YES YES
Where do you hope to be in 100 years? What plans have you made to get there?: I will be with Jesus.
Have you hugged your inner child today?: He is inside now.

Comments:
Great Website! You have done a super job!

Sarah - 12/29/98 02:14:33
My Email:sorummag@bellsouth.net
How did you get to the Haven?: onelist
Do you think dissociation is normal? Scary? Or just something that lonely people do to get attention?: understandable
Do you believe in God?: yes

Comments:
WE have a lot in common, Corrie. I was the oldest child of a mother who died of cancer, when my brother was 6 weeks old. I have introduced myself at 12 step meetings as the 'adult child of a religious doctine addict' (my dad). Thanks for writing your sto y. It helps me see my own story. Ever read Frederick Bueckman's 'Listening to your life'? He is a great writer. he talks about the secrets in his family.

Angels - 12/12/98 03:42:42
My URL:http://geocities.datacellar.net/Athens/Crete/9515/
My Email:multiplicity@cheerful.com
How did you get to the Haven?: cause youre one of my bestest friends :o)
How many people live inside your head?: no9t sure right now the count is 15
Do you think dissociation is normal? Scary? Or just something that lonely people do to get attention?: well.. for me its normal.. but i think it is way neato and wonderful and a gift that is majorly misunderstood
Do you believe in God?: yeppers hes my bestest friend
Where do you hope to be in 100 years? What plans have you made to get there?: well.. i dont know... i guess ill be wherever god puts me... i could still be here though... :o) helping peoples like mes.. :o)
Have you hugged your inner child today?: yepirs i git hus lots an lots kay? fum ranbo kay? hihi ebibude kay? (( fur mi frent eli))

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This page is wonderful... as you all are... can you believe today is the first time ive seent he guestbook... it is wonderful to see the people you have helped... i hope we make as big an impact as god has given to you.... i am glad we found yous... yous ave all changed our life... and reminded us of the simple truths that keep us on track... no matter how "weirded out" our life is.... we have god... and an imminent future filled with his love and peace... its been quite a journey though huh? be young have fun... praise god... mostly candy and crys... ( yeah newbies ya havent met..) love for all those who travel this way, angels

LeAnne of SplitAngels - 12/10/98 03:43:51
My URL:http://www.splitangels.org
My Email:leanne@splitangels.org
How did you get to the Haven?: Via the Dissociation Association
How many people live inside your head?: 15 active parts
Do you think dissociation is normal? Scary? Or just something that lonely people do to get attention?: Its our way of being.
Do you believe in God?: No.
Have you hugged your inner child today?: Yes

Comments:
This is a great site. I am glad I stubled across it.

Filch - 12/04/98 23:07:18
My Email:filch@hotamail.com
How did you get to the Haven?: Mythago1
Do you think dissociation is normal? Scary? Or just something that lonely people do to get attention?: normal
Do you believe in God?: no
Where do you hope to be in 100 years? What plans have you made to get there?: in the river, learned of her and know of her
Have you hugged your inner child today?: yep!!

Comments:
which one a me ??...:-))

Mandy - 11/25/98 09:57:25
My Email:atho1chb@stokecoll.ac.uk
How did you get to the Haven?: Web Search DID|MPD
How many people live inside your head?: 50 +
Do you think dissociation is normal? Scary? Or just something that lonely people do to get attention?: Scary, normal
Do you believe in God?: Yes
Have you hugged your inner child today?: Yes

Comments:
What I have read of your story so far, I have found very interesting and thank you for telling it on the net for people like myself to read. Here in the UK dissociation is still very uncommon and it is great to read things for people like yourself who ha e the courage to tell your story to help those of us without much support to know that it is not just us and that there are others out there in a similiar position.

The Group - 11/20/98 23:25:56
My Email:DBGroup@aol.com
How did you get to the Haven?: web search
How many people live inside your head?: close to 100 now, down from what it used to be
Do you think dissociation is normal? Scary? Or just something that lonely people do to get attention?: I believe it is a God-given gift which allowed us to survive the abuse. I have a number of friends with MPD/DID, but I've only heard of one per on who was "acting the part"
Do you believe in God?: I certainly do!
Where do you hope to be in 100 years? What plans have you made to get there?: in 100 yrs? I'm heaven-bound, thanks to God's saving grace!
Have you hugged your inner child today?: Yes.. the littles won't let me forget that!

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I like your web page a lot, and plan to visit some of the others out there too. It is very hard to find a place where it is ok to be dissociative and Christian too. In a way I can understand why that happens, because it took me a while to accept that God id not cause the abuse to happen to me...He gave me the gift to survive it, and to serve Him by helping others.

Sue - 11/18/98 18:19:18
My Email:sponto@knox.net
How did you get to the Haven?: search

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Susan - 11/17/98 19:05:34
My Email:joeg@imsday
How did you get to the Haven?: friend
How many people live inside your head?: several
Do you think dissociation is normal? Scary? Or just something that lonely people do to get attention?: ghosts of the past
Do you believe in God?: yes
Where do you hope to be in 100 years? What plans have you made to get there?: heaven
Have you hugged your inner child today?: I can't find my way to her

Comments:
I have really enjoyed reading your story. There are a number of events in my life, that could have cause my DID, but I was never beaten or sexually abuse. I always thought that I was just weird. As far back as I can remember, I would escape from the world. When I was eleven, my hero, my Dad died of cancer. I could hear him crying from his bedroom, and it seemed like I could feel his pain. The day the ambulance came to rush him back to the hospital for the last time, I ran and hid. I then looked out the living-room window and just cried. My mother didn't cope well with being a widower at the young age of thiry-one, and turned to alcohol instead of comforting us. Every night she would get drunk, and start screaming and crying like a woman possessed! She would even hug up to me in her bed and call me Sammy(my Dad). There's was no one there for me, and I always feel that me, at age eleven, calls for me now, to come and be there f r her. That sounds so crazy, I know. Just like you, I was a Christian, and have always felt like the thoughts in my head were a sin. I'm thirty-seven now, and when life presses me, like it has in the past year, I block it out, just like I learned to do when I was a child. One of me, is the Looker. She is always in search for her real mother. When the Looker surfaces, I look at my mother, and feel like I hate her. The first time, that I realized the Looker, had surface, she even went as far, as going to the county court- ouse, and looking up birth records to see who her real mother was! She also talked to friends of my mother, to try to confirm the fact that she was adopted. Paige, is another. She is sixteen, and loves to dress in black. The Mother comes out alot, Thank God, because I have three children. Then the Writer. This is my most painful. This is when I write. This is when I try to go back. Then there's the fighter. This is the one that gets me in the most trouble. The fighter gets set off very easily. She stands up for my rights. Don't get me wrong. I do not black out. I know everything that's going on. Most of what goes on with me is inside. The only real difference anyone notices, is that I'm preoccupied, and distracted. They might say something to me, and I don't hear them. The thing that bothers me most, is the feeling keeps coming to that the restless souls of the past are the ghost of tomorrow. My mission in life has been totally dedicated to finding peace. My mother, because she didn't look at my Dad, in the casket, went to the funeral home, and inquired about having his body dug up to look at. They said, by law, she could do it. She was going to, until my grandma put her foot down. My mom was just like that. I think she is the cause of my DID. Sorry to be so long winded. SUSAN

corrie G. - 11/13/98 00:26:18
How did you get to the Haven?: browsing
How many people live inside your head?: a couple of them
Do you think dissociation is normal? Scary? Or just something that lonely people do to get attention?: scary
Do you believe in God?: yes i do
Where do you hope to be in 100 years? What plans have you made to get there?: heaven;faith
Have you hugged your inner child today?: no

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I like that we have the same first name and spelled the same too.normally I don't find any corie's that spell their name like I do.

trasy - 10/31/98 22:47:46
My URL:http://geocities.datacellar.net/Wellesley/Garden/3206
My Email:thelxepeia@hotmail.com
How did you get to the Haven?: Scanning Blocks:)
Do you think dissociation is normal? Scary? Or just something that lonely people do to get attention?: Normal
Do you believe in God?: Yes
Have you hugged your inner child today?: No, but I should:)

Comments:
I liked your page a lot:) You did a very nice job. I'm your CL so if you ever need any help with anything feel free to contact me. I must say though you did great:)

Lorretta Woodbury - 10/31/98 05:05:15
My URL:http://www.woodburybydesign.com/lorretta1.html
My Email:lawoodbury@aol.com
How did you get to the Haven?: Web Ring
Do you think dissociation is normal? Scary? Or just something that lonely people do to get attention?: I think some lonely people may take advantage of it... I have a friend or two that gets everything wrong with them that is suggested. But for the most part I believe that it was a gift given to me to survive... When I figured it out it was sure scary. I stayed in denial an additional 5 years. Now I am starting to work hard on the integration process and have been working hard on my MPD for 3 years now.
Do you believe in God?: Yes I do. There is a spiritual page on my website.
Where do you hope to be in 100 years? What plans have you made to get there?: I hope I will have left something behind that will help others have to suffer less...
Have you hugged your inner child today?: Yes, today I have, but in being honest I don't always give them thier fair share of time.

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Thanks for this wonderful website!!!! With your permission I would like to link to this site. Hope to hear back from you

Mythago - 09/28/98 16:21:26
My Email:mythago1@iinet,net.au
How did you get to the Haven?: Looking for help for sister
How many people live inside your head?: Only one ...but my sister is a multiple.
Do you think dissociation is normal? Scary? Or just something that lonely people do to get attention?: I think it is remarkable and oh so tragic ...my heart cries tears with the gods for all of you who have had such suffering. I am unable to read much that is written because it is too painful.
Do you believe in God?: I am a Buddhist
Have you hugged your inner child today?: Yes...I am an artist..my 'inner child' is always loved and loving.

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Tankyou Corrie and Maggie and all...this site has helped me enormously ...I hope it will help my sister. regards, Dawn (Mythago)

Maggie - 08/18/98 11:43:09
How did you get to the Haven?: Someone told me about it. Thought I'd check it out.
How many people live inside your head?: N/A
Do you think dissociation is normal? Scary? Or just something that lonely people do to get attention?: Geez, Cor, what're you tryin to do here?
Do you believe in God?: Is the Pope Catholic?

Comments:
Okay, Cor. I liked what you've done here, but I don't like these stupid questions here. Why can't you just keep it light? Why do you always have to get so melancholy? Anyways, keep up the good work. Luvyalikeasistercosyouare XXXXXXXXXXXX

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