The Third Option:
Marriage, Divorce, Affair?
This website is a book research project examining
the extramarital
affair. It's focus is to provide women with
objective information they need
before they commit to an affair. The project
may seem pro-affair. This is
not the case. The target audience for this
book are women who contemplate
an affair. That requires a very special approach.
This project uses the
experiences, insight and opinions of all
women, not just those who have
had or are having an affair. The goal of
this very difficult project is
to try to make sense out of a devastating,
confusing issue.
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Tough Choices.
Vows. Suppose at age eighteen you took a vow not
to kill. "I will never, never take a
human life, so help me God," you swore
on the Bible. Twenty-six years later, you
are driving a lonely country road and you
come upon a man trying to rape a woman. Because
of the circumstances, the only way to stop
the man is to hit and kill him with your
car. Has the situation changed your vow?
Are vows dependent on matters of degree?
Are some sacred vows worth more than others
and should be kept while others not? Where
is the line drawn between self-sacrifice
and self-interest? Who decides for you?
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Do you base your opinions on your past experience
or what "seems" reasonable. For
instance, if you were hurt because of an
affair your spouse had would you view all
affairs as bad irregardless of contrary evidence?
When you hear of a man who is having an affair
what is your first thought? Is that thought
different if it is a woman who is having
the affair? Does the question WHY (happenings behind the scenes shielded from view) ever enter
into your judgement or is your judgement
based solely on the word "affair"?
