Dispelling the Myths

I am 19 years old.
No, I don't giggle.

I grew up in Montana.
No, I don't even *own* a pair of cowboy boots.
Yes, I know how to ride a horse.
No, I've never been hunting.
No, I am not planning on marrying my cousin.

I am a vegetarian.
No, I don't hate hunting, nor do I think that *you* necessarily should be a vegetarian.
No, I don't think that being a vegetarian includes eating poultry or fish.
Yes, I could very well be wrong.

I am a pagan.
No, I don't sacrifice children and small barnyard animals to Satan, or any other deity/demon.
No, I don't hate Christianity.
Yes, I've read the Bible.
No, I don't need "saving." Thanks.

I go to Gonzaga, a Catholic University in northwest Washington.
Yes, we have a good basketball team.
No, I don't really care.
Yes, I know some of the players.
No, I don't really care.

I am bisexual
Yes,I am romantically and sexually interested in both women and men.
Yes, I am more or less equally attracted to both genders.
Yes, I've known this since I was young.
No, my parents don't know.
Yes, both most of my friends and my current partner know.
No, I don't want to "cyber" with you.

I am a feminist.
No, I don't hate men.
No, I am not a lesbian (see above).
No, I don't think there's anything catagorically wrong with either being a housewife or being married.
Yes, I would consider getting married, under the right circumstances.
Yes, I could be happy without getting married. Ever.

I am an activist
Yes, for more than just white women.
Yes, I think that patriarchy is inherent in our system.
Yes, I believe in radical changes to the system.
Yes, I'm highly political in my actions.
Yes, I admit it.
Yes, I would probably irritate you.

I am a member of the NAACP (National Association of Colored Persons
Yes, I am white.
No, that doesn't mean that I can't be in the NAACP.
No, I don't want to be African American/Hispanic/Native American/anything but what I am.
Yes, I believe in all kinds of equality.
Yes, I'm willing to dedicate my life to that equality.

I like my parents
No, I'm not crazy.
No, I'm not lying.
Yes, we do fight.
No, we don't agree on much of anything.
Yes, I greatly respect them.
Yes, I think my mother is the most beautiful woman in the world.

I am a geek
Yes, that is self-proclaimed.
Yes, I like computers.
Yes, I have friends.
Yes, I have thick glasses.
Yes, I like school.
No, I don't mind being a geek.

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