Safety During an Explosive Incident

24 Hour Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-376-2272
"Peace Begins in the Home"

If an argument seems unavoidable, try to have it in a room or area where you have access to an exit. Try to stay away from the bathroom, kitchen, bedroom, or anywhere else weapons might be available.
Practice how to get out of your home safely. Identify which doors, windows, elevator, or stairwell would be best.
Have a packed bag ready and keep it at a relative's or friend's home in order to leave quickly.
Identify one or more neighbors you can tell about the violence and ask that they call the police if they hear a disturbance coming from your home.
Devise a code word to use with your children, family, friends, and neighbors when you need the police.
Decide and plan for where you will go if you have to leave home (even if you don't think you will need to).
Use your own instincts and judgement. If the situation is very dangerous, consider giving the abuser what he wants to calm him down. You have the right to protect yourself until you are out of danger.
Always remember - YOU DON'T DESERVE TO BE HIT, HURT OR THREATENED!