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Date: Wed, 29 Jan 1997 21:39:28 +0100
From: Christian
Subject: German-speaking-fans
Hallo an alle deutschsprechenden BT-Fans!
Ich bin Chris aus Zuerich und sah BT dreimal im Kino. Vor ein paar
Wochen fand ich in London den Video und kann denn Film nun sooft ich
will anschauen. Auch kann ich Freunde zu BT-Abenden einladen.
Gerne wuerde ich von deutschsprechenden BT-Fans e-mails bekommen.
Schreibt doch, wie der Film auf Euch gewirkt hat. Hoffentlich gibt es
Euch!
Gruesse und Kuesse!
Chris
PS: Sorry, this was a message for german-speaking BT-Fans. I hope there
are some!
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- Date: Wed, 29 Jan 1997 21:20:20 -0800
- From: Bruce
- Subject: U.S. video in April????
-
- David, I checked out the Sony website again and I still couldn't find
- any mention of Beautiful Thing coming out on video in the U.S. in April. I
- looked all over the site and didn't see a thing about this. Where is it?
- Maybe you have 'intimate' sources at Sony that you aren't telling us about?
- =^P
-
-
- Bruce
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- Date: Thu, 30 Jan 97 08:42:01 UT
- From: "Ralf
- Subject: WG: German-speaking-fans
-
- You're not alone :-)
- I will send you an email, "off-line" from the mailing list, so the Non-Germans
- won't be bothered.
- Take care
- Ralf
- Von: Christian
- Gesendet am: Mittwoch, 29. Januar 1997 21:39
- Betreff: German-speaking-fans
- Hallo an alle deutschsprechenden BT-Fans!
- Ich bin Chris aus Zuerich und sah BT dreimal im Kino. Vor ein paar
- Wochen fand ich in London den Video und kann denn Film nun sooft ich
- will anschauen. Auch kann ich Freunde zu BT-Abenden einladen.
- Gerne wuerde ich von deutschsprechenden BT-Fans e-mails bekommen.
- Schreibt doch, wie der Film auf Euch gewirkt hat. Hoffentlich gibt es
- Euch!
- Gruesse und Kuesse!
- Chris
- PS: Sorry, this was a message for german-speaking BT-Fans. I hope there
- are some!
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- Date: Thu, 30 Jan 1997 08:27:31 -0600
- From: JOE
- Subject: Re: WG: German-speaking-fans
-
- Ralf wrote:
- >
- > You're not alone :-)
- >
- > I will send you an email, "off-line" from the mailing list, so the
Non-Germans
- > won't be bothered.
- >
- > Take care
- > Ralf
- >
- >
- > Von: Christian
- > Gesendet am: Mittwoch, 29. Januar 1997 21:39
- > Betreff: German-speaking-fans
- >
- > Hallo an alle deutschsprechenden BT-Fans!
- >
- > Ich bin Chris aus Zuerich und sah BT dreimal im Kino. Vor ein paar
- > Wochen fand ich in London den Video und kann denn Film nun sooft ich
- > will anschauen. Auch kann ich Freunde zu BT-Abenden einladen.
- >
- > Gerne wuerde ich von deutschsprechenden BT-Fans e-mails bekommen.
- > Schreibt doch, wie der Film auf Euch gewirkt hat. Hoffentlich gibt es
- > Euch!
- >
- No, I don't really "speak" German all that well, but I was able to put
- my four years of high school and two years of college German classes to
- use to understand Chris' post just fine. In whatever language, it's
- great to see how BT has reached all around the world.
- Gary
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- From: Reto
- Subject: AW: German-speaking-fans
- Date: Fri, 31 Jan 1997 00:16:58 +-100
-
-
- ----------
- Von: Ralf
- Gesendet: Donnerstag, 30. Januar 1997 09:42
- Betreff: WG: German-speaking-fans
- You're not alone :-)
- I will send you an email, "off-line" from the mailing list, so the Non-Germans
- won't be bothered.
- Take care
- Ralf
- Von: Christian
- Gesendet am: Mittwoch, 29. Januar 1997 21:39
- Betreff: German-speaking-fans
- Hallo an alle deutschsprechenden BT-Fans!
- Ich bin Chris aus Zuerich und sah BT dreimal im Kino. Vor ein paar
- Wochen fand ich in London den Video und kann denn Film nun sooft ich
- will anschauen. Auch kann ich Freunde zu BT-Abenden einladen.
- Gerne wuerde ich von deutschsprechenden BT-Fans e-mails bekommen.
- Schreibt doch, wie der Film auf Euch gewirkt hat. Hoffentlich gibt es
- Euch!
- Gruesse und Kuesse!
- Chris
- PS: Sorry, this was a message for german-speaking BT-Fans. I hope there
- are some!
-
- Hallo Chris!
- Auch ich habe den Film gesehen, zwar nur einmal, aber ich war dennoch total begeistert.
Ich wäre froh, wenn die im Film gezeigte menschliche Wärme öfters im Alltag anzutreffen
wäre! Doch ich möchte hier keine Schwarzmalerei betreiben, denn eigentlich geht es mir
sehr gut, und nun nach "Beautiful Thing" natürlich noch besser. Jetzt ist es
Donnerstag Abend, am Montag war ich im Kino - und ich bin noch immer gerührt, fasziniert,
begeistert von diesem Abend.
- Eigentlich sollte ich mich zuerst einmal kurz vorstellen: Ich heisse Reto, bin bald
einmal zwanzig, habe gerade meine Matur hinter mir und geniesse das Leben in vollen
Zügen. In der nächsten Zeit werde ich öfters auf meinem Snowboard anzutreffen sein, da
ich glücklicherweise, dank meiner leichten Stauballergie, nicht ins Militär gehen muss
und darum viel Zeit habe. Im Frühling möchte ich meiner zweiten Lieblingsbeschäftigung
nachgehen, dem Reisen. Zuerst möchte ich für einige Tage nach Finnland, danach noch kurz
nach Manchester und auch nach London. Tja, was soll ich noch von mir erzählen? Ah ja, ich
höre sehr gerne Musik, am liebsten höre ich Massive Attack, EbtG, George Michael,
Tricky, Portishead, Madonna, M People und vieles mehr, bin aber sehr flexibel. Auch gehe
ich oft ins Kino, aber ich sehe nicht so gerne diese Mainstream-Filme, mehr solche sachen
wie eben das, oder sonstige kleinere, interessante Projekte. So genug geschwafelt.
- Ich hoffe, dass Du mir zurückschreibst! Ich würde mich auf jeden Fall sehr freuen.
Vielleicht wäre es auch möglich, "Beautiful Thing" bei Dir nochmals anzusehen,
denn ich wohne nicht weit weg von Zürich.
- Also bis bald ;-)
- Reto
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- Date: Thu, 23 Jan 1997 07:19:42 -0600
- From: Kyle
- Subject: Re: Merchandise -Reply
- At 06:10 PM 1/30/97 -0500, you wrote:
- >At 10:21 AM 1/30/97 -0800, you wrote:
- > I'd like something
- >>from the chase/kiss in the woods scene. I get the impression that that
- >>aspect was played down by Sony publicity here in the States.
- >>
- >>I agree, except for advertizing aimed at the gay community. I rented
- >"Celluloid Closet" and it had the BIT trailer which showed the kiss scene
- >cut just a nanosecond before liplock!
- >
- >Simon.
- >
- >
- What? Is this an updated version of Celluloid Closet? I remember it being
- shown on Cable here in the US, but I don't remember any scenes from BT being
- shown...were a few other nice scenes from a few other movies tho :)
- Kyle
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- Date: Fri, 31 Jan 1997 10:13:07 -0800
- From: "Scott
- Subject: Re: U.S. video in April????
-
- Hi Bruce et. al.
- Check out David's and Andi's web page at:
- http://www.zzapps.demon.co.uk/beautiful-thing/Video.htm
- This page lists the release dates.
- Scott
- [please, please, please, please, be released in April (or sooner:)]
-
- Bruce wrote:
- >
- >David, I checked out the Sony website again and I still couldn't
- >find any mention of Beautiful Thing coming out on video in the U.S.
- >in April. I looked all over the site and didn't see a thing about
- >this. Where is
- >it? Maybe you have 'intimate' sources at Sony that you aren't telling us about?
- >
- > Bruce
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- Date: Fri, 31 Jan 1997 11:14:40 -0600
- From: JOE
- Subject: Re: Merchandise -Reply
- Kyle S wrote:
- >
- > At 06:10 PM 1/30/97 -0500, you wrote:
- > >>I agree, except for advertizing aimed at the gay community. I rented
- > >"Celluloid Closet" and it had the BIT trailer which showed the kiss
scene
- > >cut just a nanosecond before liplock!
- > >
- > >Simon.
- > >
- > >
- > What? Is this an updated version of Celluloid Closet? I remember it being
- > shown on Cable here in the US, but I don't remember any scenes from BT being
- > shown...were a few other nice scenes from a few other movies tho :)
- >
- > Kyle
- Simon was referring to the "trailer" or preview clip on the videotape.
- Most rental videos have these previews, usually of upcoming videos but
- also sometimes of movies coming to theaters.
- I taped Celluloid Closet the night it was on HBO before it opened in
- theaters. I showed it to my Media and Society class last spring and will
- show it again this spring. But now, learning that there is a trailer for
- BT on the commercial video, I may just have to rent it. :)
- Gary
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- From: "David
- Subject: Web site finally updated
- Date: Thu, 30 Jan 1997 18:31:56 -0000
-
- You'll all be pleased to know I finally managed to update the site this
- afternoon.
- The LED ticker has been substantially edited, there are several interesting
- new items on the Latest News page, the front-page itself has been altered
- slightly.
- There are additions to the International Screenings and Releases pages, and
- a two new pages: International Box Office figures, and Table of Contents.
- Davie.
- Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
- PGP public key at http://www.zzapps.demon.co.uk/Davie/
- Beautiful Thing web http://www.zzapps.demon.co.uk/beautiful-thing/
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- Date: Fri, 31 Jan 1997 19:08:11 -0500
- From: Simon
- Subject: Re: Merchandise -Reply
-
- At 07:19 AM 1/23/97 -0600, you wrote:
- >At 06:10 PM 1/30/97 -0500, you wrote:
- >>At 10:21 AM 1/30/97 -0800, you wrote:
- >> I'd like something
- >>>from the chase/kiss in the woods scene. I get the impression that that
- >>>aspect was played down by Sony publicity here in the States.
- >>>
- >>>I agree, except for advertizing aimed at the gay community. I rented
- >>"Celluloid Closet" and it had the BIT trailer which showed the kiss
scene
- >>cut just a nanosecond before liplock!
- >>
- >>Simon.
- >>
- >>
- >What? Is this an updated version of Celluloid Closet? I remember it being
- >shown on Cable here in the US, but I don't remember any scenes from BT being
- >shown...were a few other nice scenes from a few other movies tho :)
- >
- > Kyle
- >
- Whoops! I didn't mean to meslead anyone. Beautiful Thing was advertized as
- coming soon to video among the trailers preceding the film. Celluloid Closet
- is to old to feature BIT.
- Simon.>
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- From: "Shaun
- Subject: A story
- Date: Sun, 2 Feb 1997 23:15:34 -0500
-
- good day all-
- I was just wondering what all of you on this wonderful list thought of
- something I was curious about. I am working on a story for an honors
- project at my college. I can't really tell about the story (stupid writer's
- quirk) except that it is a coming out story. If anyone's interested, I'll
- post it on my page when it's done. Anyway, I was wondering if it breaks any
- sort of copyright laws or anything to include a scene in my story (in case
- someone likes the story and wants to publish it <grin>) where my two main
- characters go to a viewing of "Beautiful Thing." I just thought that so
- many people loved BT and it was such an inspiration, that it would be kind
- of a neat tribute to show those kinds of feelings in my story. So anyway, I
- was just wondering if there was anything against that.
- Thanks all
- Shaun
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- Date: Mon, 3 Feb 1997 22:41:41 +0000
- From: Rupert
- Subject: A story too
-
- In message , Shaun writes
- >good day all-
- >
- >I was just wondering what all of you on this wonderful list thought of
- >something I was curious about. I am working on a story for an honors
- >project at my college. I can't really tell about the story (stupid writer's
- >quirk) except that it is a coming out story. If anyone's interested, I'll
- >post it on my page when it's done. Anyway, I was wondering if it breaks any
- >sort of copyright laws or anything to include a scene in my story (in case
- >someone likes the story and wants to publish it <grin>) where my two main
- >characters go to a viewing of "Beautiful Thing." I just thought that so
- >many people loved BT and it was such an inspiration, that it would be kind
- >of a neat tribute to show those kinds of feelings in my story. So anyway, I
- >was just wondering if there was anything against that.
- >
- >Thanks all
- >
- >Shaun
- Hiya everyone!
- In answer to Shaun's question: there's nothing to stop you from
- referring to "Beautiful Thing" in your story, but if you quote directly
- from the film, you need permission from the copyright holder. Presumably
- the rights are owned by Channel Four, or perhaps the publishers Methuen.
- I think that's the case anyway. So go for it Shaun!
- I too have written a story about the effect of BT on a boy's life. It's
- kind of wierd though, as it's also about fantasies. If anyone's
- interested, it's on my web site at http://www.rupeworld.demon.co.uk
- It's pretty short, so don't expect too much!
- Bye!
- Rupert
- --
- Rupert
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- Date: Mon, 03 Feb 1997 19:46:47 -0500
- From: Drake
- Subject: My Beautiful Experience, and Movie grabs...
-
- Hi all! I've been reading along and enjoying all the banter about
- Beautiful Thing, a film which changed my life as well! It came into my
- life about a week or so after the breakup of my three-year relationship,
- and brought me some hope in an otherwise depressing period. I'll never
- get over the incredible feelings I experienced that magical first time I
- saw BT!!! I've been in love with it, the characters, and the actors
- ever since.
- Anyway, add me to the list of Americans who just CANNOT wait until the
- NTSC video release on this side of the Atlantic! I was just wondering
- if any of you lucky stiffs who have the video have done any decent video
- grabs from some scenes other than the ones available at the websites?
- Would you be willing to share? I've got the closeup of Ste and Jamie
- dancing as my Windows wallpaper, but want more jpg's if anyone has them,
- maybe of the *kiss*?
- Thanks for the ongoing dialogue and fellow admiration of one wonderful
- film!!!!
- Sincerely,
- Drake
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- From: "Shaun
- Subject: Re: A story too
- Date: Mon, 3 Feb 1997 20:27:04 -0500
-
- > Hiya everyone!
- >
- > In answer to Shaun's question: there's nothing to stop you from
- > referring to "Beautiful Thing" in your story, but if you quote directly
- > from the film, you need permission from the copyright holder. Presumably
- > the rights are owned by Channel Four, or perhaps the publishers Methuen.
- > I think that's the case anyway. So go for it Shaun!
- >
- > I too have written a story about the effect of BT on a boy's life. It's
- > kind of wierd though, as it's also about fantasies. If anyone's
- > interested, it's on my web site
- > It's pretty short, so don't expect too much!
- >
- > Bye!
- >
- > Rupert
- > --
- > Rupert
- Thanks much. I just thought that it would be a great way to kind of thank
- everyone for BT.
- and by the way. If anyone gets a chance, you should check out Rupert's
- writing. I just got done reading it and he's very talented. :o) and very
- inspiring.
- Bye all
- Shaun
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- From: "David
- Subject: Problems with the list server
- Date: Tue, 4 Feb 1997 11:05:12 -0000
-
- Hi everyone,
- While it looks like the server is behaving, I want to let you know that I
- am aware of problems with the server. I'm trying to identify the cause and
- let the authors know so the bugs can be fixed.
- Another cause for you lossing access to the list is if mail from the list
- to you is bounced back. I've had so many spoof subscriptions that as soon
- as I get an email from a mailer deamon telling me an address is
- uncontactable, I delete the address from the list to stop an endless loop
- of "I don't know you" emails between the list server and the mail daemon.
- If you think this happens to you at any time, email me personally and I'll
- check your address is still in the list.
- Andi and I will try to post at least one mail a day to the list so that
- there is always some traffic - rather like a Ping I suppose :-)
- David.
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- Date: Tue, 04 Feb 1997 07:07:04 -0600
- From: Kyle
- Subject: Re: Screenplay
- At 08:03 PM 2/3/97 -0600, you wrote:
- >Kyle,
- >I saw the screenplay at both the Lewisville and N. Richland Hills Barnes
- >and Noble and Lewisville Borders. (The Borders just opened right before
- >Christmas and is very well stocked. See if they can have a copy sent to
- >your local store.)
- >Has anyone had luck finding the play in Dallas?
- >Dennis
- >--
- >
- Well, that gives me hope for our Barnes & Noble. It opened in my area not
- long ago, and I finally found the screenplay section--only no Beautiful
- Thing...going to check one more time before ordering from Amazon...
- Kyle
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- Date: Tue, 04 Feb 1997 07:35:28 -0600
- From: Kyle
- Subject: Re: A story too
-
- At 10:41 PM 2/3/97 +0000, you wrote:
- >Hiya everyone!
- >
- >In answer to Shaun's question: there's nothing to stop you from
- >referring to "Beautiful Thing" in your story, but if you quote directly
- >from the film, you need permission from the copyright holder. Presumably
- >the rights are owned by Channel Four, or perhaps the publishers Methuen.
- >I think that's the case anyway. So go for it Shaun!
- >
- >I too have written a story about the effect of BT on a boy's life. It's
- >kind of wierd though, as it's also about fantasies. If anyone's
- >interested, it's on my web site
- >It's pretty short, so don't expect too much!
- >
- >Bye!
- >
- >Rupert
- >--
- >Rupert
- >
- >
- Just read your story Rupert---BRAVO!!!
- <hugz>
- Kyle
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- Date: Tue, 4 Feb 97 16:29:04 UT
- From: "Ralf
- Subject: B.T. in Internet Movie Database top 10 list
-
- Hi,
- just wanted to let you know that Beautiful Thing is among the top 10 from the
- IMDb top 250 movies as voted by their users.
- Check out http://us.imdb.com/top_250_films (takes some time to load).
- Ralf
- P.S.: Rupert, I just read your story at work. I loved it. My office-mates
- probably wonder why I have this sunny smile on my face while staring on my
- monitor...
- P.P.S.: Once again thanks to David who spends so much effort maintaining this
- great web site plus the mailing list and keeping the B.T. community together
- P.P.P.S.: Excuse my bad English
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- Date: Tue, 4 Feb 1997 10:29:44 -0800
- From: Mike
- Subject: RE: Problems with the list server
-
- I posted several messages to the list yesterday that didn't get through so
- I'm going to be reposting them now.
- Thanks to David and Andi for their hard work!
- Mike
-
- >Hi everyone,
- >
- >While it looks like the server is behaving, I want to let you know that I
- >am aware of problems with the server. I'm trying to identify the cause and
- >let the authors know so the bugs can be fixed.
- >
- >Another cause for you lossing access to the list is if mail from the list
- >to you is bounced back. I've had so many spoof subscriptions that as soon
- >as I get an email from a mailer deamon telling me an address is
- >uncontactable, I delete the address from the list to stop an endless loop
- >of "I don't know you" emails between the list server and the mail daemon.
- >
- >If you think this happens to you at any time, email me personally and I'll
- >check your address is still in the list.
- >
- >Andi and I will try to post at least one mail a day to the list so that
- >there is always some traffic - rather like a Ping I suppose :-)
- >
- >David.
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- Date: Tue, 4 Feb 1997 10:38:29 -0800
- From: Mike
- Subject: Re: My visit to Thamesmead
- On Wed Jan 22, Jay wrote:
- >Beautiful Thing played for 3 months at the Lumiere Theatre in San
- >Francisco, <snip> I saw it
- >12 times, and each time was fresh, new. <snip>
- Yep, that was my experience too.
- >
- >Now that BT isn't playing here any more, I am sort of going cold turkey.
- ><snip>
- Funny That. My experience too!
-
- To Jay and everyon on the list: What is it, do you think, that makes us
- want to see this film over and over again? My guess: we REALY ARE THAT
- STARVED for positive, loving, passionate gay images of ourselves.
- Mike
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- Date: Tue, 4 Feb 1997 10:45:39 -0800
- From: Mike
- Subject: Re: My own private Thamesmead (2)
-
- Thu, 23 Jan, wrote:
- >Back in October, when I saw "Beautiful Thing" here in Toronto, I found
- >myself:
- > - in love with the movie
- > - going back to see it whenever I could (someone described in a posting
- >their "pathological" fixation on the movie. Yeah, that was me, too.)
- Me Three
- > - very confused about my own relationship
- I share some of this, although I wouldn't say "confused" so much as concerned.
- >At first I appreciated my partner, glad that I'd found love, even though it
- >was fairly late along compared to Jamie and Ste (I'm 28, and we've been
- >together for about four years). Then I got to feeling that my relationship
- >had none of the spark I was so drawn to in the movie. Now, January, it looks
- >like we're splitting up. Now, I wouldn't be so foolish as to blame the
- >movie; it just shone a light on the situation, helping me realize that a
- >relationship should be fun, exciting, and (go figure) romantic.
- <snip>
- Beautiful Thing has come at a very important point in my life. I just
- turned 49 in January; hey, I'm not exactly young any more. One of the
- things I love about the film is it has brought me back in touch with
- feelings I'd almost forgotten about. Suddenly I remember, oh, yeah, I felt
- like that once upon a time. It was very powerful and very important. How
- can I have that now in my life?
- IMHO a relationship that is "fun, exciting and romantic" doesn't just
- happen. Well, it may just happen in the beginning when you and your partner
- are just getting to know one another. But then the relationship shifts.
- Relationships are living things and, like all living things, they go
- through cycles of development. Once you've passed through the innitial
- "dating/honeymoon" phase, you have to see what the next step is going to
- be. Further committment and intimacy? Maybe. Maybe not. But to keep the
- "fun, excitement and romance" alive, well, that takes work -- co-operation
- -- on everyone's part. It has to be CREATED.
- >All that said, I find myself still coming back to this movie. And now
- >there's this group of us all responding to it. Has anybody else had an
- >experience like this?
- You BET! I love Davie and we've been together for seven years. Yet, like
- you, this movie reminded me of something I'm not getting that I want. How
- to get it, that's the question? Does it mean working it out within the
- relationship I have, or does it mean letting go of that and oppening myself
- to the possibility of finding something more fitting for who I am now?
- These are hard questions that have to be lived through. No amount of
- talking will save us from the experinece of living through these dificult
- choices.
- >God, I can just picture it now: me, single, going to "Beautiful Thing"
- >conventions, a bunch of Klingons gathered just down the hall.
- I don't think THAT's going to happne. BUT, if people are interested we can
- create something else, something more . . . BEAUTIFUL! :-)
- Mike
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- Date: Tue, 4 Feb 1997 11:41:47 -0800
- From: Mike
- Subject: Valentines Day Gift Suggestions:
-
- I've been thinking about gifts for Davie and my frineds for Valentines.
- I wish there were more BT Merchandise more readily available; they'd
- rank high on my list. I've also seen some other things I'll share with
- you. If YOU have some ideas, why not share them with us?
-
- Here's my list:
-
- COUPLES, by John Gettings, University Press of New England, 1996, ISBN:
- 0-87451-791-5 This is a photographic essay of gay and lesbian couples
- of all ages. I didn't read much of the text but it was interesting to
- look at these different, extra-yet-ordinary folks.
-
- THE GAY GUYS GUIDE TO LOVE: The Dos Don'ts and Definite Maybes of
- Dating and Mating, by Ken Haner. (I may not have the last name right, I
- can't read my hand writing). Crown Trade Paperbacks. (Sorry, forgot to
- get the ISBN on this one)
- This book consists of a list of several hundred fun things you can do
- to get and/or keep romance in your life. Just flipping through it I got
- some neat ideas to spring on Davie. Maybe I should get him this book
- for Valentines? Yep.
-
- RECENT ISSUE OR SUBSCRIPTION TO XY MAGAZINE: Hey, I know I'm plugging
- these folks but, honest, its only because I think they're headed in the
- right direction. I've been reading their February/March "Love" issue
- and it is the best yet. Yeah, yeah, there are lots of cute young things
- in various stages of undress (so, what's wrong with that?!); but there
- are also some interesting and provocative articles. Here's a highly
- shortened excerpt from Peter Ian Cummings' (the publisher) opening
- statement for this issue:
-
- <paraindent><param>right,left</param>"I've been having some
trouble
- finding a boyfriend. I wonder why...[so do I, he's truly cute--MW]
-
- "The problem is, simply, that there isn't enough emphasis on love in
- the gay community: we're all so busy dancing and sending email (and
- getting off) that we, as a community, have pushed love to the bottom of
- our priority list.
-
- "This is a terrible conclusion to reach, for what is the point of being
- gay without love?...
-
- "Look, the reason I go to clubs and hang out on the Internet is because
- I am looking for love. My main motivation is *love*, and it isn't
- dancing of listening to hip-hop or even sex (though I dance and have
- sex a lot more than I find love)...
-
- "We need new and creative solutions to this love-deficit...looking for
- closeness requires admitting that it's missing, and that we want it...
-
- "Look I don't have the answers. I don't know how to change the gay
- scene, or exactly how to make people act honestly or caringly on the
- gay Internet... But I figure if all of you think about the points I've
- mentioned, somebody might be spurred...into making some improvements we
- can all benefit from."
- </paraindent>
- Hey, I think we should invite Ian to join our BT list, what do you
- think?
-
- Much Love to all,
-
- Mike
-
- (PS: This is my last post for today, honest!) ;-)
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- Date: Tue, 4 Feb 1997 23:11:50 +0000
- From: Rupert
- Subject: Thanks! :o)
-
- Hiya all!
- Just a quick note to say thanks for all the kind comments about my
- story. I was really touched - and I mean that sincerely. I'm looking
- forward to reading Shaun's story, to see what sort of approach he takes
- to the subject. By the way, I'll get back to those of you who've written
- to me personally as soon as I can (when I'm a little less tired - erk)!
- *Hugs* to everyone!
- Rupert :o)
- PS: Ralf, there's no need to apologise for your English. It's better
- than that of a lot of English people I know!
- --
- Rupert Sliwa
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- Date: Tue, 4 Feb 1997 10:48:23 -0800
- From: Mike
- Subject: Re: A story
- Shaun -- wrote:
- >good day all-
- >
- >I was just wondering what all of you on this wonderful list thought of
- >something I was curious about. I am working on a story for an honors
- >project at my college. I can't really tell about the story (stupid writer's
- >quirk) except that it is a coming out story. If anyone's interested, I'll
- >post it on my page when it's done. Anyway, I was wondering if it breaks any
- >sort of copyright laws or anything to include a scene in my story (in case
- >someone likes the story and wants to publish it <grin>) where my two main
- >characters go to a viewing of "Beautiful Thing." I just thought that so
- >many people loved BT and it was such an inspiration, that it would be kind
- >of a neat tribute to show those kinds of feelings in my story. So anyway, I
- >was just wondering if there was anything against that.
- >
- I can't imagine that this would break any copy right laws. I'd be very
- interested to read your story when its complete.
- Thanks,
- Mike
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- From: "Andi
- Subject: The Story Band Wagon
- Date: Wed, 5 Feb 1997 19:35:40 -0000
-
- Well here I go!
- As a few guys on the list have been putting stories up on
- the web, I thought that I might as well jump on the
- bandwagon. I've be threatening to put a story that I've
- been writing on the web for a few months now, it's only in
- rought draft, there are typos and the like all over it, but
- it's quite good, from what I have been told by the few who
- have read it.
- There is a link from the url below, the FTP links on the
- page don't work, so you'll have to use your browser to pull
- it in and read. It's quite long so unless you get free web
- access, I recommend that you pull it in and save it to
- file, for further perusal. Alternatively you can mail me
- and I can forward you a copy either in .doc (MS Word) or
- txt format.
- Either way, enjoy it, as I enjoy writing it still. Any bits
- you have suggestions on improving or expanding drop me a
- line to my personal email, (not the list!) as constructive
- critism is greatefully received! :-)
- Laters
- Andi
- xx
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- Date: Wed, 5 Feb 1997 22:38:54 +0000
- From: Rupert
- Subject: Dream a Little Dream...
-
- Heyas all!
- Just a quick note to say I've spent the evening scouring the web for BT-
- related MIDI files... and I haven't come up with much :o(
- All that I found was an extremely dodgy version of "Dream a Little Dream
- of Me", which sounds pretty appalling through my FM soundcard.
- Nevertheless, I've put it in the "jukebox" on my web site just in case
- anyone's interested. If somebody with a Wavetable soundcard has a listen
- to it, could you let me know how it sounds? Also, if anyone has any MIDI
- files of Mama Cass songs, I'd love to hear them!
- See yas!
- Rupert
- --
- Rupert
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- Date: Thu, 6 Feb 1997 10:58:44 -0800
- From: Mike
- Subject: Boy friend in hospital
-
- Hi BT friends:
- My boy friend, Davie (David ) was hospitalized last night after being
- taken to the emergency room. He has been disoriented and feverish. They've
- run tests but I do not know the results as of this time. I do know the
- blood tests were "negative."
- I'm feeling okay. Alarmed, of course, but I find keeping busy with my work
- helps. I will be seeing Davie later this evening and hopefully will find
- out more from the Dr.s at that time. Davie and I have been lovers for seven
- years and I'm also friends with his brother, who is helping me monitor this
- situation. (I also receive considerable support from our many friends.)
- Life is real, folks. Sometimes it is overwhelmingly so. One of the things I
- love about Beautiful Thing is that the two characters are PRESENT for one
- another. Life was not perfect, but at least they had each other. This, to
- me, is the core of this movie and what speaks to our depths. That they are
- gay characters, of course, is important to US.
- The final scene with Jamie and Ste dancing in the plaza with the rest of
- the world watching on with its opinions and prejudices is an archtype. A
- symbol with many many levels of meaning to be felt. Within each of us there
- is a place where we can go, a place where we are solid and real and whole
- for ourselves and one another, despite all the chaos that surrounds us and
- permeates our lives from day to day. In that place, everything is a
- Beautiful Thing.
- Dance with me?
-
-
- Much love to you all,
- Mike
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- Date: Thu, 06 Feb 1997 22:49:03 +0100
- From: Christian
- Subject: Re: Boy friend in hospital
-
- Dearest Mike,
- thank you for your beautiful e-mail you've sent to all of us. It touched
- me deeply and I hope your boyfriend will be soon better. I'm thinking
- here in Switzerland of you two.
- Take care! With all my love,
Chris
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