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- Date: Sun, 29 Jun 1997 21:10:38 +0000
- From: John
- Subject: Re: Ste gay or not
- Robert wrote:
- >
- > Hi BTians,
- >
- > I haven't read my e-mail for a long time- so going through 1000 mails
- > is hard work.
- >
- > I don't really understand why some people think Ste is straight- the
- > critria being that Ste does't like the Gloucester and likes sports.
- > Everybody is of course different (thank god) and I know a
- > lot of gay guys who love sport- basketball/football - also a
- > lot that hate gay bars. I don't particularly like gay bars- it
- > seems such a contrived way of meeting gay people- I just wished
- > it was easier to meet people in other places like in
- > the hectro sexual world.
- >
- > Straight people can't believe that I'm gay because 'I don't look
- > or 'act' gay'- I'm very glad to destroy the stereotypes. I think it
- > is a shame that some gay people have stereotype views as well.
- >
- > Conclusion: You can't conclude that Ste is straight.
- >
- > Love
- >
- > Rob
- Amen to that!!! mmm Hmmm!!!!!!
- John
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- Date: Sun, 29 Jun 1997 21:15:48 +0000
- From: John
- Subject: Re: BT errors
- Jeff wrote:
- >
- > Well, to love a movie is to realize it has faults. There are others I can
- > recall from previous critiques we've had on here. Like Tony wearing socks
- > in one part of a scene and not in another. Can't recall exactly where.
- >
- > As for no. 2, no, Ste picks up plates and moves them, he doesn't remove the
- > bubble and squeak from the stovetop. I used to think he was moving the pan.
- > But listen to the sound (yes, I am a BT freak), it's a stack of plates
- > clattering.
- >
- > Jeff
- >
-
- Hmmm, you're the second person to say that since I started reading
- these today. And I just returned the darned video. Are your sure about
- that?!
- I have a distinct memory (or at least I think I do) of Ste turning to
- the counter with the pan in his hand- the one that has the food in it.
- Now I'm going to have to rent it again to check this out!
- All in good fun....
- John
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- Date: Sun, 29 Jun 1997 22:37:00 -0400 (EDT)
- From: HeadDr
- Subject: Meeting Scott Neal..
- OK
- Who met Scott Neal!!???
- And please give me details......!!!!!
- I'm green with jealousy!!!!
- Jim
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- Date: Sun, 29 Jun 1997 22:51:39 -0400 (EDT)
- From: HeadDr
- Subject: Saundra....
- I think Saundra deals with tough situations with humor and sarcasm. Its
- kinda a defense mechanism for her. And I also think that Jamie knows that.
- But, I do think sometimes she goes overboard. (ie. when she makes the
- comments to Ste about going to the boxing) And honestly, I do not think that
- she considered the effect that her comments had on him. But I must say, she
- is very understanding especially when Jamie tell her about him and Ste. Even
- then, she uses humor to deal with the situation. (ie doing the 70 minus 1)
- As for Ste, I think that Saundra cares for him too. This is evident when
- she allows him to stay with her and Jamie. Also, when she comforts him when
- he finds out she knows about him and Jamie. Her apparent love for him is
- what convinces me that Ste will come live with them above the Anchor.
- Just my thoughts.
- Jim
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- Date: Mon, 30 Jun 1997 02:32:34 -0400
- From: Froggy
- Subject: Re: unsubscribe
- You have to send a message to unsub yourself. Maybe someone will tell you
- how. If not, go to the web site.
-
- At 09:08 AM 6/30/97 -0700, you wrote:
- >For the SECOND time.. Please unsubscribe me from the list!!! it is
- >bogging down my mailbox with useless stuff!
- >
- -Jake
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- Date: Sun, 29 Jun 1997 22:41:28 -0800
- From: Mike
- Subject: Re: unsubscribe
- At 9:08 AM -0700 6/30/97, The NewsBoy Dylan wrote:
- >For the SECOND time.. Please unsubscribe me from the list!!! it is
- >bogging down my mailbox with useless stuff!
-
- No one can un-subscribe you. You must do it yourself:
- Send email to:
- in the body of the email message, type:
- leave Beautiful-Thing
- Mike
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- Date: Sun, 29 Jun 1997 22:36:22 -0800
- From: Mike
- Subject: Re: BT errors
- At 9:45 PM +0200 6/29/97, jmcs wrote:
- >Have you noticed that when Ste and Jamie are kissing in the forest Ste wears
- >his shirt buttoned to his neck? But when they come back home and bump into
- >Leah, the first button is open.
- >
- >Hmmmm, well, on second thoughts maybe itīs not an error, after all. ;)
- >
- Hi guys and gals,
-
- Just had a wonderful Pride Day Celebration here in San Francisco. Spent
- most of the day hanging out with Jay and friends. Naturally one of the
- things we talked about was BT.
- A friend of mine pointed out that British pubs close at 11:00 PM (is that
- right?). Well, folks, this means TWO AND A HALF TO THREE HOURS elapsed from
- the time Jamie and Ste Left the Gloucester to where Sandra confronts Jamie
- for having gone to the Gloucester. ("Leah, it's two o'clock in the
- morning!) The only part of that we see is them running in the woods and
- then makeing out.
- Hmmmmmmmm... indeed! ;->
-
- Mike
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- Date: Mon, 30 Jun 1997 02:39:07 -0400
- From: Kevin
- Subject: Re: Music
- Regarding the music (and going back to a previous e-mail from weeks ago
- regarding an American version...) what about the Carpenters being
- "Leah's" group to follow - there's a great tragedy to add to Leah's
- life. I don't mean to rehash our old conversation, it's just that this
- only hit me a couple of nites ago and I wanted to share it with you all
- - even if they don't do an Americanized version, perhaps a sequel will
- have this GREAT group!?!
- Comments???
- Kevin
- _____
-
- Beautiful-Thing wrote:
- >
- > I think the music and the volume is just perfect. As someone said, its
- > volume is representative of the scene. (ie first kiss, and the kissing
- > scene in the park). And I also think that the "Sixteen going on
Seventeen"
- > scene alludes to a transition for both Ste and Jamie. A kinda of maturing of
- > sorts...
- >
- > My thoughts of the day,
- >
- > JIM
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- Date: Sun, 29 Jun 1997 22:57:11 -0800
- From: Pat
- Subject: Re: unsubscribe
- At 8:08 AM -0800 on 6/30/97, The NewsBoy wrote:
-
- > For the SECOND time.. Please unsubscribe me from the list!!! it is
- > bogging down my mailbox with useless stuff!
- Geez, RTFM!! to leave the list send the line
- leave beautiful-thing
- to ftlist
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- From: Spank
- Subject: Re: Motivations/Sandra & Leah
- Date: Mon, 30 Jun 1997 18:53:11 +1000
- Hi all,
- No, I don't want to criticise Sandra either - although I think I started
- that little thread about her treatment of Tony.
- Eric Perkins eperkins@ziplink.net wrote:
- > If anyone might have cause to dislike Sandra, it would probably be Leah.
- > They don't seem to get along, but really they do in their own way. Sandra
- > invites her over for beer on the terrace (well, at least Leah is there),
- > and they are always trading quips. I think deep down, under it all they
- do
- > like each other. Certainly by the end they do. So really, everybody likes
- > Sandra! Me too. :-)
- Yes, Sandra's rather vicious with Leah throughout most of the film. Why?
- Perhaps Leah has FORM for tripping with Mama Cass blasting at 2am? What do
- residents in UK council estates think about having neighbours living in
- such close proximity? Is it difficult to get along with neighbours?
- Despite their differences and disagreements, (and the peculiarly English
- habit of mercilessly sledging each other), I find it impossible to dislike
- ANY ONE of the core characters, but then, I don't have to live next door to
- Ste's old man.
- I think we all hope Ste's old man has starved to death because he couldn't
- cope with making his OWN bloody bubble & squeak after Ste leaves.
- I'd also like to get a floppy wet trout and slap those nasty lads who made
- li'l Jamie's life hell. I'm lucky; I escaped that kind of treatment at
- school. I saw lots of it though, and I regret I didn't offer support to
- those who suffered.
- Iain
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- Date: Mon, 30 Jun 1997 02:15:28 -0400
- From: Darek
- Subject: Re: Sandra...Ste's guardian.
- For Ste's own safety, I think your last comment is a definite
- possibility.
- Ste and Jamie danced in front of the whole neighborhood. Its only a
- matter of time before his dad or brother
- find out, and when they do...I can not bare to think about it.
- Sandra knows this, which is why she'll take Ste in (not to mention how
- much Jamie will try to convince her).
- It may be hard bringing them both up, but Ste does have that job at the
- pool.
- Guess Sandra will have to wait for a little while before she can get her
- 'pair of shoes that don't let the rain in'.
- Warmest regards,
- Darek
- HeadDr wrote:
- > I think Saundra ...she uses humor to deal with the situation. (ie
- > doing the 70 minus 1)
- >
- > As for Ste, I think that Saundra cares for him too. This is evident
- > when
- > she allows him to stay with her and Jamie. Also, when she comforts
- > him when
- > he finds out she knows about him and Jamie. Her apparent love for him
- > is
- > what convinces me that Ste will come live with them above the Anchor.
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- Date: Mon, 30 Jun 1997 02:58:25 -0400
- From: Kevin
- Subject: Re: Ste gay or not
- Can I add, too, that I just watched the movie again the other nite (at
- 2am - so maybe it dulled my senses?!?) but the kiss in the park didn't
- look very "real" (God, I'm gonna get e-mail for this one!?) I was
- watching very intently (thru my sleep-induced haze?) and the kiss looked
- "passionate", but not loving - I will probably have to watch it again -
- because the first 5 or six times I saw it, it seemed real enough to me -
- but for some reason, the other nite, it looked like two guys getting the
- job done...on to the next scene. Has anyone else dared to pick apart the
- scene at length?!? I apologize (in advance) if I upset anyone with this
- comment - just voicing my opinion - and when I get a free moment I WILL
- watch the park scene again, but after viewing it the last time, I found
- it left me lacking...fulfillment!?
- IMHO
- Kevin
- _____
- beautiful-thing wrote:
- >
- > >I don't really understand why some people think Ste is straight- the
- > >critria being that Ste does't like the Gloucester and likes sports.
- > >Everybody is of course different (thank god) and I know a
- > >lot of gay guys who love sport- basketball/football
- >
- > I was one of the people who thought Ste could be Straight, but it was for
- > NONE of the reasons you just listed. I too know many Gay guys who love
- > sports, and any and all things that Straight people like (perhaps with the
- > exception of women as sexual partners!)
- >
- > My reasons for thinking Ste was Straight was really just in the way that
- > Scott played the role. It certainly is not in the screenplay, and I know JH
- > meant him to be Gay. I just thought Ste *could* have been Straight and
- > still done the things that he did in the film. I do certainly know Straight
- > guys who have sex with men. That breaks a lot of stereotypes too.
- >
- > Best,
- >
- > Eric
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- From: Spank
- Subject: Re: Ste gay or not/The Queer Commandments
- Date: Mon, 30 Jun 1997 19:23:53 +1000
- I have to agree with Robert . Ste is just as queer as
- Jamie.
- There are just so many gay people out there, and its only a fraction of
- them that actually fit perfectly into the Queer Commandments lifestyle (in
- itself another stereotype) such as:
- Thou shalt not admit listening to anything but dance, opera and show tunes.
- Thou shalt ignore everyone over 30.
- Thou shalt not enjoy sports (except synchronised swimming and gymnastics).
- Thou shalt not wear garments without CK prominently emblazoned upon them.
- (Okay, I'm having a laugh, but you know what I mean: straights don't have a
- monopoly on discrimination).
- Luckily, for every square peg trying to fit into a pink triangular hole
- (ooh) there are others like them. The trick is in finding them.
- Thousands of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender sports fans will
- converge on Amsterdam next year for the Gay Games; in the process proving
- that gays and sport do mix.
- At least Ste has the sense to realise he Is gay and drops the deadly denial
- trip which traps so many square peg gays.
- Iain
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- From: "Peter
- Subject: RE: Ste gay or not
- Date: Mon, 30 Jun 1997 16:06:01 -0700
- Well ya know they were all out of breath from trapsing about in the
- park.
- Peter
- > -----Original Message-----
- > From: Kevin
- > Sent: Sunday, June 29, 1997 11:58 PM
- > Subject: Re: Ste gay or not
- >
- > Can I add, too, that I just watched the movie again the other nite (at
- > 2am - so maybe it dulled my senses?!?) but the kiss in the park didn't
- > look very "real" (God, I'm gonna get e-mail for this one!?) I was
- > watching very intently (thru my sleep-induced haze?) and the kiss
- > looked
- > "passionate", but not loving - I will probably have to watch it again
- > -
- > because the first 5 or six times I saw it, it seemed real enough to me
- > -
- > but for some reason, the other nite, it looked like two guys getting
- > the
- > job done...on to the next scene. Has anyone else dared to pick apart
- > the
- > scene at length?!? I apologize (in advance) if I upset anyone with
- > this
- > comment - just voicing my opinion - and when I get a free moment I
- > WILL
- > watch the park scene again, but after viewing it the last time, I
- > found
- > it left me lacking...fulfillment!?
- > IMHO
- > Kevin
- > _____
- > beautiful-thing wrote:
- > >
- > > >I don't really understand why some people think Ste is straight-
- > the
- > > >critria being that Ste does't like the Gloucester and likes sports.
- > > >Everybody is of course different (thank god) and I know a
- > > >lot of gay guys who love sport- basketball/football
- > >
- > > I was one of the people who thought Ste could be Straight, but it
- > was for
- > > NONE of the reasons you just listed. I too know many Gay guys who
- > love
- > > sports, and any and all things that Straight people like (perhaps
- > with the
- > > exception of women as sexual partners!)
- > >
- > > My reasons for thinking Ste was Straight was really just in the way
- > that
- > > Scott played the role. It certainly is not in the screenplay, and I
- > know JH
- > > meant him to be Gay. I just thought Ste *could* have been Straight
- > and
- > > still done the things that he did in the film. I do certainly know
- > Straight
- > > guys who have sex with men. That breaks a lot of stereotypes too.
- > >
- > > Best,
- > >
- > > Eric
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- From: JOE
- Subject: Peppermint Foot Lotion works :)
- Date: Mon, 30 Jun 1997 20:20:55 -0500
- Just returned this afternoon from Hot'lanta where I had a great
- extended weekend with friends during Atlanta's Pride celebration. It
- began on Friday evening and lasted through Sunday night, with over
- 300,000 participating.
- I took my copy of BT along and watched it with the friend I was
- staying with. Then I found that another friend there is also a big BT
- fan, but has only seen it once and desperately wants to get a copy
- when the price comes down. We had a lot of things to talk about, as
- we are really just getting to know each other, but BT was at least
- one common thing we could make reference to, both how much we liked
- it and how much it affected our lives.
- Saturday afternoon, I checked out Lenox Square, Atlanta's largest
- mall, and found a Body Shop! Of course, I had to purchase peppermint
- foot lotion <G> and I even got a Body Shop mouse pad with it!
- I tried the stuff after walking all day around the Pride festival
- (the Pride market had over 200 booths) and it works. Smells neat
- too.
- One other bit of news - not BT, but internet related: I picked up a
- copy of OUT Magazines Guide to the Web and my Skippy's Queer World
- web site was listed (page 16) and with a glowing review! Was I
- surprised! I'm going to have to do like movies do and post the blurb
- on the web site!
- Well, it's been an eight-hour interstate drive (386 miles) from
- Atlanta to Jackson, TN, so I'll put off my responses to the gazillion
- posts I've scanned through until I can close my eyes again and not
- see a steering wheel and interstate highway in front of me. Hope
- those of you whose cities has Pride festivals this past weekend had a
- great time and hope you Brits have a great one coming up!
- Gary
- who is still laughing over the car that passed me and honked its horn
- over my rainbow flag decal - the license plate on the car that passed
- was from Tennessee and read: IM1RU :)
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- Date: Mon, 30 Jun 1997 21:49:18 -0400 (EDT)
- From: J W
- Subject: Re: Ste straight, 70 -1& the party
- At 11:33 PM 6/26/97 -0400, you wrote:
- > Ok, saw the topic(s) and just HAD to join the fun! :)
- >
- >Is our Ste straight? To quote Whoopi Goldberg "I dunno, it's
- >like...uh...like uh...sanitary napkins. If it fits...."
- >
- John,
- I think you're right on. Ste has to switch sides, so to speak.
- When Jamie asks him, "Can I come up to that end with you?" Ste replies,
- "You stay right where you are!" In the alegorical sense (?), I have taken
- this to mean "Jamie, you know where you are with this, but give me time to
- catch up. You are going in the right direction and I have to catch up with
- you. I have to make the switch to your end. You wait for me because I'm
- going to meet you on your terms and in your direction." "I love you, Jamie,
- and I will come to you!" Ste fits your straight arrow description; one who
- denies it for so long and then has to come to the realization sooner or later.
- John
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- Date: Mon, 30 Jun 1997 21:49:14 -0400 (EDT)
- From: J W
- Subject: Re: My personal homage to "Beautiful Thing"
- At 12:26 AM 6/27/97 +0200, you wrote:
- >Hi John!
- >
- >Here it is.
- Sandra,
- What an imagination you have! You could write this stuff for the
- screen. I think the fantasy of living a fantasy is interesting. I don't
- know how it would play out on the screen, but I would give it a try.
- I think the key thing for Ste in his relationship with the Gangel
- family is that for the first time in his life, or at least as far back as he
- can remember, he is given tenderness and love. Sandra encountering Ste on
- the steps by the lake crying, consoles Ste, starts rubbing his back (instead
- of beating it as Ronnie does) and then Sandra places her hand gently on
- Ste's head (probably the first in a long time for this, too) and turns Ste's
- head into her shoulder. This tenderness is something drastically missing
- from his homelife. I've asked the question before: If Ronnie gets custody
- of Trevor and Ste, what was the mum like? Unless she died, she must have
- been really messed up for Trevor and Ste to end up with Ronnie.
- The first night Jamie and Ste top 'n toe says it all. After Jamie
- turns the lights off, he settles in and then raises up on one elbow. He
- asks Ste if he's oright. Ste says, "Yeah". Jamie says, "Right. "
There is
- a pause and then Jamie says "Ste." Ste says, "What?" as if he
expects a
- conversation to follow. Jamie, very affectionately, but matter-of-factly
- says, "Night." Next, just to hear Ste say, "Night, Jamie" makes my
heart
- melt every time. This is Ste going to sleep in a room with another person
- (akin to his brother) who has just said the simple, "Night." Ste's
"Night,
- Jamie" is said with such feeling. Ste knows that this is the way it's
- supposed to be with a "brother;" not the interminedable beatings and
- terrorism he faces at the hands of Trevor. Ste has not gone to bed feeling
- this warm coziness, this feeling of safety and security and that life is
- going to be all right in a long time. It is these first feelings of safety
- and security that leads Ste to realize that this "misfit" living next door
- is a boy who can provide Ste with he's been missing in his life.
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- Date: Mon, 30 Jun 1997 16:59:10 -0800
- From: Mike
- Subject: Re: Ste gay or not
- At 2:58 AM -0400 6/30/97, Kevin wrote:
- > but after viewing it the last time, I found
- >it left me lacking...fulfillment!?
- >IMHO
- >Kevin
- >_____
- Get over that 'big water,' mate, and I'll make you happy! ;-)
-
- Mike
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- Date: Tue, 01 Jul 1997 06:54:18 -0700
- From: Jim
- Subject: Re: Music
- > I think the music and the volume is just perfect. As someone said, its
- > volume is representative of the scene. (ie first kiss, and the kissing
- > scene in the park). And I also think that the "Sixteen going on
Seventeen"
- > scene alludes to a transition for both Ste and Jamie. A kinda of maturing of
- > sorts...
- I haven't heard anyone mention my favourite part of "Sixteen"'s
- appearance yet: it's one of the funniest jokes in the movie! This is a
- song that is so totally inappropriate for a serious seduction/discovery
- scene, being associated with the squeaky clean seduction/discovery scene
- in _The Sound of Music_, that I, and the audience in the theatre most of
- the times I saw it, laughed out loud, even though we were mesmerised by
- Jamie and Ste at the *exact same time*. This was one of the moments
- that told me I'll go see *anything* Hettie directs from now on.
- Juxtaposition like that is art.
- Jim
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- From: David
- Subject: Sound of Music, and Sixteen Going On Seventeen
- Date: Tue, 1 Jul 1997 22:41:17 -0000
- As those of you who use IRC know quite well by now - Sixteen Going On
- Seventeen is my favourite track.
- The Sound of Music has always been associated, in my mind at least, with
- some kind of gay image - I dunno why, but I think it has to do with Julie
- Andrew!
- Regards, Davie
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- Date: Tue, 1 Jul 1997 12:25:28 -0500 (CDT)
- From: sean
- Subject: Re: Ste gay or not
- I call what they did a "movie kiss" looks sort of real but you know it
- isn't , this is closely related to the "tv kiss" which is even less real
- (no open mouth). I think it all stems from the idea that many people
- don't want to see it (gay or straight) so directors are weary to show it
- any better.
- Sean
- On Mon, 30 Jun 1997, Kevin wrote:
- > Can I add, too, that I just watched the movie again the other nite (at
- > 2am - so maybe it dulled my senses?!?) but the kiss in the park didn't
- > look very "real" (God, I'm gonna get e-mail for this one!?) I was
- > watching very intently (thru my sleep-induced haze?) and the kiss looked
- > "passionate", but not loving - I will probably have to watch it again -
- > because the first 5 or six times I saw it, it seemed real enough to me -
- > but for some reason, the other nite, it looked like two guys getting the
- > job done...on to the next scene. Has anyone else dared to pick apart the
- > scene at length?!? I apologize (in advance) if I upset anyone with this
- > comment - just voicing my opinion - and when I get a free moment I WILL
- > watch the park scene again, but after viewing it the last time, I found
- > it left me lacking...fulfillment!?
- > IMHO
- > Kevin
- > _____
- > beautiful-thing wrote:
- > >
- > > >I don't really understand why some people think Ste is straight- the
- > > >critria being that Ste does't like the Gloucester and likes sports.
- > > >Everybody is of course different (thank god) and I know a
- > > >lot of gay guys who love sport- basketball/football
- > >
- > > I was one of the people who thought Ste could be Straight, but it was for
- > > NONE of the reasons you just listed. I too know many Gay guys who love
- > > sports, and any and all things that Straight people like (perhaps with the
- > > exception of women as sexual partners!)
- > >
- > > My reasons for thinking Ste was Straight was really just in the way that
- > > Scott played the role. It certainly is not in the screenplay, and I know JH
- > > meant him to be Gay. I just thought Ste *could* have been Straight and
- > > still done the things that he did in the film. I do certainly know Straight
- > > guys who have sex with men. That breaks a lot of stereotypes too.
- > >
- > > Best,
- > >
- > > Eric
- >
- >
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- Date: Tue, 1 Jul 1997 17:28:15 +0200
- From: jmcs
- Subject: Re: My personal homage to "Beautiful Thing"
- At 21:49 30/06/97 -0400, you wrote:
- > I think the key thing for Ste in his relationship with the Gangel
- >family is that for the first time in his life, or at least as far back as he
- >can remember, he is given tenderness and love. Sandra encountering Ste on
- >the steps by the lake crying, consoles Ste, starts rubbing his back (instead
- >of beating it as Ronnie does) and then Sandra places her hand gently on
- >Ste's head (probably the first in a long time for this, too) and turns Ste's
- >head into her shoulder. This tenderness is something drastically missing
- >from his homelife. I've asked the question before: If Ronnie gets custody
- >of Trevor and Ste, what was the mum like? Unless she died, she must have
- >been really messed up for Trevor and Ste to end up with Ronnie.
- > The first night Jamie and Ste top 'n toe says it all. After Jamie
- >turns the lights off, he settles in and then raises up on one elbow. He
- >asks Ste if he's oright. Ste says, "Yeah". Jamie says, "Right. "
There is
- >a pause and then Jamie says "Ste." Ste says, "What?" as if he
expects a
- >conversation to follow. Jamie, very affectionately, but matter-of-factly
- >says, "Night." Next, just to hear Ste say, "Night, Jamie" makes
my heart
- >melt every time. This is Ste going to sleep in a room with another person
- >(akin to his brother) who has just said the simple, "Night." Ste's
"Night,
- >Jamie" is said with such feeling. Ste knows that this is the way it's
- >supposed to be with a "brother;" not the interminedable beatings and
- >terrorism he faces at the hands of Trevor. Ste has not gone to bed feeling
- >this warm coziness, this feeling of safety and security and that life is
- >going to be all right in a long time. It is these first feelings of safety
- >and security that leads Ste to realize that this "misfit" living next door
- >is a boy who can provide Ste with he's been missing in his life.
- WOW!!! BEAUTIFUL POST, JOHN!!!
- And thank you.
- Take care.
- Sandra.
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- Date: Tue, 01 Jul 1997 11:52:28 -0500
- From: Keith
- Subject: Re: Ste gay or not -Reply
- Kevin,
- I kinda got that feeling too, but then it could also be because they were
- both new to this "kissing" thing, so hadn't gotten it quite right. After all,
- first times (for anything) always appear clumsy.
- Keith
**************************************************************
- Date: Tue, 1 Jul 1997 15:53:04 -0400 (EDT)
- From: Todd
- Subject: Sandra and other things
- First off: Sandra
- She is the perfect character in this film. She's strong, independent,
- loving, caring and has a remarkable relationship with her son. I don't
- think she was being rude to Jamie with her comment about him not having
- any mates. It was just banter between the two. Sometimes she does go
- everboard with it (her comment to Ste on the balcony) but she doesn't mean
- anything evil about it. I think it may be a form of 'defense' but for
- what I'm not sure. Many people use humor to cover up their low self
- esteems but I don't think that is the case with Sandra. She knows what
- she wants out of life and is bound and determined to achieve that. Yet
- underneith all that hard shell is a caring, nurturing mother.
- As for the music debate, I didn't take much notice of it being either too
- loud or too soft. To me it just seemed to fit in to all that was going on
- around. Not distracting at all. Everytime I hear the songs now I think
- of the scenes. I think that is a good sign of a great sound score.
- Todd
**************************************************************
- Date: Mon, 27 Aug 1956 21:12:32 +0000
- From: Duncan
- Subject: Re: Ste gay or not
- Mike,
- In the play, Jamie said "Get over that river mate, I'll make you happy!
- on the close captions on my t.v. I read the same phrase.
- Beautiful Thing-The Play, Act Two, Scene Three, p.p. 53
- Luis
**************************************************************
- Date: Wed, 2 Jul 1997 01:21:24 +0200
- From: jmcs
- Subject: Re: Ste gay or not
- At 02:58 30/06/97 -0400, you wrote:
- >Can I add, too, that I just watched the movie again the other nite (at
- >2am - so maybe it dulled my senses?!?) but the kiss in the park didn't
- >look very "real" (God, I'm gonna get e-mail for this one!?) I was
- >watching very intently (thru my sleep-induced haze?) and the kiss looked
- >"passionate", but not loving - I will probably have to watch it again -
- >because the first 5 or six times I saw it, it seemed real enough to me -
- >but for some reason, the other nite, it looked like two guys getting the
- >job done...on to the next scene. Has anyone else dared to pick apart the
- >scene at length?!? I apologize (in advance) if I upset anyone with this
- >comment - just voicing my opinion - and when I get a free moment I WILL
- >watch the park scene again, but after viewing it the last time, I found
- >it left me lacking...fulfillment!?
- >IMHO
- >Kevin
- Buf! How can I explain this?
- The first time I saw the movie I knew exactly how and when they were going
- to kiss because I had read the screenplay in advance. But I had no idea what
- my reaction was going to be or if the kiss was going to be shy, passionate,
- both... you know?
- Well, my reaction was unexpected to say the least. The music captivated me.
- Seeing Ste and Jamie chasing each other with such happiness and abandonment
- and Mama Cass at full volume (it was the first time I heard the song) made
- me literally jump from my seat. I was expecting them to kiss because I KNEW
- they were going to kiss but when they slow down and Ste goes to Jamie my
- heart stopped. The first two kisses were shy as I expected them to be but
- after that everything went too fast. The kiss was over before I knew. That
- was my first impression. A blur of lips, arms...
- After two million wiewings (some of them slow motion) I think that was
- exactly the way Hettie wanted the kiss to be. After all, they could have
- shot it again and again until they kissed 'correctly'. <G>
- A big plus for me is the fact that it was the first time Glen and Scott
- kissed, which makes the scene even more innocent and pure, IMO.
- Now, I donīt believe the kiss is 'fast' anymore. In fact, I consider it has
- a certain rhythm, a cadence (maybe itīs because of the music, I dunno).
- Sometimes I even think itīs really slow. It has a hurried clumsiness that I
- love. They want to do everything at once. The way they sometimes bump their
- noses when they turn their heads, that light caress to Steīs neck, that
- moment when they embrace each other and their arms entangle... beautiful.
- I do believe itīs a very passionate kiss. They want to please the other but
- they donīt know how. Itīs not just a smooch, itīs a very
- loving-sweet-passionate kiss. [And Iīve seen it at every possible moment and
- mood: in the morning, in the afternoon, in the evening, at night, in the
- living room, in my room, in my bed (I still remember the earthquake in the
- middle of the kiss!), angry, sad, happy, sleepy...] but every time I find it
- delightful and beautiful to see. (sigh)
- Excuse me, I must to see it for two million and one time. īNight, everybody.
- Take care.
-
- Sandra.
**************************************************************
- Date: Tue, 01 Jul 1997 21:11:03 -0400 (EDT)
- From: daviscj
- Subject: Re: Ste gay or not
- It probably also has something to do with the fact that Jamie and Ste
- are really Glen and Scott, two straight guys who most likely have never
- kissed another man before and are probably not quite as into at as most
- of us around here might be:
- Later,
- Chris
- On Tue, 1 Jul 1997, sean wrote:
- > I call what they did a "movie kiss" looks sort of real but you know it
- > isn't , this is closely related to the "tv kiss" which is even less real
- > (no open mouth). I think it all stems from the idea that many people
- > don't want to see it (gay or straight) so directors are weary to show it
- > any better.
- >
- > Sean
- >
- > On Mon, 30 Jun 1997, Kevin wrote:
- >
- > > Can I add, too, that I just watched the movie again the other nite (at
- > > 2am - so maybe it dulled my senses?!?) but the kiss in the park didn't
- > > look very "real" (God, I'm gonna get e-mail for this one!?) I was
- > > watching very intently (thru my sleep-induced haze?) and the kiss looked
- > > "passionate", but not loving - I will probably have to watch it
again -
- > > because the first 5 or six times I saw it, it seemed real enough to me -
- > > but for some reason, the other nite, it looked like two guys getting the
- > > job done...on to the next scene. Has anyone else dared to pick apart the
- > > scene at length?!? I apologize (in advance) if I upset anyone with this
- > > comment - just voicing my opinion - and when I get a free moment I WILL
- > > watch the park scene again, but after viewing it the last time, I found
- > > it left me lacking...fulfillment!?
- > > IMHO
- > > Kevin
- > > _____
- > > beautiful-thing wrote:
- > > >
- > > > >I don't really understand why some people think Ste is straight- the
- > > > >critria being that Ste does't like the Gloucester and likes sports.
- > > > >Everybody is of course different (thank god) and I know a
- > > > >lot of gay guys who love sport- basketball/football
- > > >
- > > > I was one of the people who thought Ste could be Straight, but it was for
- > > > NONE of the reasons you just listed. I too know many Gay guys who love
- > > > sports, and any and all things that Straight people like (perhaps with
the
- > > > exception of women as sexual partners!)
- > > >
- > > > My reasons for thinking Ste was Straight was really just in the way that
- > > > Scott played the role. It certainly is not in the screenplay, and I know
JH
- > > > meant him to be Gay. I just thought Ste *could* have been Straight and
- > > > still done the things that he did in the film. I do certainly know
Straight
- > > > guys who have sex with men. That breaks a lot of stereotypes too.
- > > >
- > > > Best,
- > > >
- > > > Eric
- > >
- > >
- >
- >
**************************************************************
- Date: Wed, 02 Jul 1997 02:02:05 +0100
- From: Gavin
- Subject: Re: Sound of Music, and Sixteen Going On Seventeen
- At 22:41 7/1/97 -0000, David wrote:
- >The Sound of Music has always been associated, in my mind at least, with
- >some kind of gay image - I dunno why, but I think it has to do with Julie
- >Andrew!
- Victor/Victoria you're thinking of?
-
- Gav.
**************************************************************
- From: David
- Subject: Re: Sound of Music, and Sixteen Going On Seventeen
- Date: Wed, 2 Jul 1997 03:08:42 -0000
- Gavin commented...
- At 22:41 7/1/97 -0000, David wrote:
- >The Sound of Music has always been associated, in my mind at least, with
- >some kind of gay image - I dunno why, but I think it has to do with Julie
- >Andrew!
- Victor/Victoria you're thinking of?
- ----------------
- Thats it babes, show me up in public! *smooch*
- Regards, Davie
**************************************************************
- From: JOE
- Subject: Re: Sound of Music, and Sixteen Going On Seventeen
- Date: Tue, 1 Jul 1997 21:50:02 -0500
- >
- > At 22:41 7/1/97 -0000, David wrote:
- > >The Sound of Music has always been associated, in my mind at
- least, with
- > >some kind of gay image - I dunno why, but I think it has to do
- with Julie
- > >Andrew!
- >
- > Victor/Victoria you're thinking of?
- >
- >
- > Gav.
- >
- I loved the "Sixteen going on seventeen" bit for its sheer irony.
- The lyrics sung to a "little girl" as two _boys_ are getting
- intimate, the brightness and lightness of the song at such a
- _serious_ moment, and the fact that we see two couples experiencing
- the song at the same time in different ways (Sandra and Tony glued to
- the TV, Jamie and Ste getting "glued" to each other <G) all made it a
- delightful moment for me.
- Ironically, "The Sound of Music" is my _least_ favorite film ever
- made - I even walked out on it in the theater. But then I would
- really love musicals if only no one would sing. <G> Yet it seemed
- a perfect, ironic and fitting choice here.
- Gary
**************************************************************
- From: Todd
- Subject: RE: Sound of Music, and Sixteen Going On Seventeen
- Date: Tue, 1 Jul 1997 23:31:18 -0400
- I loved it for pretty much the same reasons. Everything EXCEPT the hating
- The Sound of Music part. Next to Beautiful Thing, that's my favorite movie.
- I was enjoying the bedroom scene incredibly, but as soon as that music
- started playing, I smiled from ear to ear. That was when I knew that B-T
- was something incredibly special.
- ----------
- From: JOE
- Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 1997 11:28 PM
- Subject: Re: Sound of Music, and Sixteen Going On Seventeen
- >
- > At 22:41 7/1/97 -0000, David wrote:
- > >The Sound of Music has always been associated, in my mind at
- least, with
- > >some kind of gay image - I dunno why, but I think it has to do
- with Julie
- > >Andrew!
- >
- > Victor/Victoria you're thinking of?
- >
- >
- > Gav.
- >
- I loved the "Sixteen going on seventeen" bit for its sheer irony.
- The lyrics sung to a "little girl" as two _boys_ are getting
- intimate, the brightness and lightness of the song at such a
- _serious_ moment, and the fact that we see two couples experiencing
- the song at the same time in different ways (Sandra and Tony glued to
- the TV, Jamie and Ste getting "glued" to each other <G) all made it a
- delightful moment for me.
- Ironically, "The Sound of Music" is my _least_ favorite film ever
- made - I even walked out on it in the theater. But then I would
- really love musicals if only no one would sing. <G> Yet it seemed
- a perfect, ironic and fitting choice here.
- Gary
**************************************************************
- From: David
- Subject: YOUR SEXUALITY AND YOU=?iso-8859-1?Q?=A0_-=A0?= Do you need treatment?
- Date: Wed, 2 Jul 1997 07:33:30 -0000
- 1) What do you think is the cause of your heterosexuality?
- 2) When did you first realise you might be heterosexual?
- 3) Have you told your parents? What do they think of it?
- 4) Are there any others like you in your family?
- 5) Would you say that you had an inadequate father or mother figure?
- 6) Don't you think that heterosexuality might just be a phase you're
- going through?
- 7) Are you afraid of members of your own sex?
- 8) Isn't it possible that what you need is a good gay lover?
- 9) What do actually do in bed?
- 10) You put what where?
- 11) But how can people of the opposite sex really please each other
- when there are such vast emotional and biological differences between
- them?
- 12) Society gives considerable support to the institution of marriage, but
- the divorce rate is spiralling. Why are there so few stable relationships
- among heterosexuals?
- 13) Is it because they are so promiscuous?
- 14) There seem to be very few happy heterosexuals. Have you
- considered aversion therapy?
- 15) Why do you feel compelled to seduce others into your sexual
- practices?
- 16) Why do you insist on making such a public spectacle of your
- heterosexuality? Can't you just keep it to yourself?
- 17) More than 90% of child molesters are thought to be hetersexual. Would
- you feel comfortable entrusting your children's education to heterosexuals?
-
- 18) Why do people like you emphasise the heterosexual qualities of famous
- people such as film stars? Is it because you need to validate your own
- condition?
- 19) Penetrative sex is most common amongst heterosexual couples. Are you
- worried about the risk of getting AIDS?
- 20) If everybody were heterosexual like you, what would happen to the
- world's population? Don't you think it's rather unreasonable of you to
- insist on sleeping with members of the opposite sex?
-
- Regards, Davie
**************************************************************
- From: Kenneth
- Subject: =?ISO-8859-1?Q?Re:_YOUR_SEXUALITY_AND_YOU=A0_-=A0_Do_you_need_treatmen?=
- =?ISO-8859-1?Q?t=3F?=
- Date: Wed, 2 Jul 1997 07:55:32 -0400
- Huh? What has this to do with BT. Although I think it is funny and makes a
- statement (several actually) I don't get it. Sorry for the inadequacy
- Ken
- ----------
- > From: David
- > Subject: YOUR SEXUALITY AND YOU - Do you need treatment?
- > Date: Wednesday, July 02, 1997 03.33
- >
- > 1) What do you think is the cause of your heterosexuality?
- >
- > 2) When did you first realise you might be heterosexual?
- >
- > 3) Have you told your parents? What do they think of it?
- >
- > 4) Are there any others like you in your family?
- >
- > 5) Would you say that you had an inadequate father or mother figure?
- >
- > 6) Don't you think that heterosexuality might just be a phase you're
- > going through?
- >
- > 7) Are you afraid of members of your own sex?
- >
- > 8) Isn't it possible that what you need is a good gay lover?
- >
- > 9) What do actually do in bed?
- >
- > 10) You put what where?
- >
- > 11) But how can people of the opposite sex really please each other
- >
- > when there are such vast emotional and biological differences between
- > them?
- >
- > 12) Society gives considerable support to the institution of marriage,
- but
- > the divorce rate is spiralling. Why are there so few stable relationships
- > among heterosexuals?
- >
- > 13) Is it because they are so promiscuous?
- >
- > 14) There seem to be very few happy heterosexuals. Have you
- >
- > considered aversion therapy?
- >
- > 15) Why do you feel compelled to seduce others into your sexual
- > practices?
- >
- > 16) Why do you insist on making such a public spectacle of your
- > heterosexuality? Can't you just keep it to yourself?
- >
- > 17) More than 90% of child molesters are thought to be hetersexual.
- Would
- > you feel comfortable entrusting your children's education to
- heterosexuals?
- >
- >
- > 18) Why do people like you emphasise the heterosexual qualities of
- famous
- > people such as film stars? Is it because you need to validate your own
- > condition?
- >
- > 19) Penetrative sex is most common amongst heterosexual couples. Are you
- > worried about the risk of getting AIDS?
- >
- > 20) If everybody were heterosexual like you, what would happen to the
- > world's population? Don't you think it's rather unreasonable of you to
- > insist on sleeping with members of the opposite sex?
- >
- >
- > Regards, Davie
**************************************************************
- Date: Wed, 02 Jul 1997 11:16:55 +0000
- From: John
- Subject: Re: Beautiful Thing
- I was thinking about the first time Ste actually began to have feelings
- for Jamie. I think the first night in the bedroom, he may have felt
- *something* but was basically unaware of his feelings at that point.
- For me, the first time Ste actually feels something for Jamie is in
- the scene where he is playing soccer with his friends. The two glances
- that Ste gives him while kicking the ball isn't what I'm talking
- about.
- When the ball goes into the water?
- "....my ball back?" Jamie says (I really haven't a clue as to
- what he really says. It's sounds to me like "garble garble my ball
- back?")
- All the guys jump in, and after Jamie is thrown in (by that McBride
- fellow) they all seem more concerned with teasing him and splashing him
- with water. They have all forgotten about the ball- all except for Ste
- that is.
- It is this point for me that Ste realizes he has feelings for Jamie.
- Notice the affectionate way he grabs the ball, puts his whole body
- around ensuring that he has it. Then he gets up and looks over toward
- Jamie and sees the other guys splashing him with water. As Ste looks at
- him he smiles with an affectionate look. It's very subtle.
- What do the rest of you guys think about this.
- John
**************************************************************
- Date: Wed, 02 Jul 1997 15:20:55 -0400
- From: Eric
- Subject: Re: Beautiful Thing
- At 11:16 AM 7/2/97 +0000, you wrote:
- >Ior me, the first time Ste actually feels something for Jamie is in
- >the scene where he is playing soccer with his friends. The two glances
- >that Ste gives him while kicking the ball isn't what I'm talking
- >about.
- > When the ball goes into the water?
- >
- > "....my ball back?" Jamie says (I really haven't a clue as to
- >what he really says. It's sounds to me like "garble garble my ball
- >back?")
- If I'm not mistaken, Jamie says "Get us me ball back."
-
- > All the guys jump in, and after Jamie is thrown in (by that McBride
- >fellow) they all seem more concerned with teasing him and splashing him
- >with water. They have all forgotten about the ball- all except for Ste
- >that is.
- >
- > It is this point for me that Ste realizes he has feelings for Jamie.
- I don't think this is the first time that Ste has feelings for Jamie. He
- smiles at Jamie in the opening scene too. It's obvious that they like each
- other from the get-go. I think there is some affection there, tho Ste
- doesn't recognise it for what it is. I think it would be really hard to pin
- down an exact moment. If I had to, I would say the first time Ste really is
- AWARE that he has SPECIAL feelings for Jamie is when Jamie is massaging his
- back, or very shortly thereafter.
- Of course, that's just my opinion.
- -Eric
**************************************************************
- Date: Wed, 2 Jul 1997 15:14:04 -0400 (GMT-0400)
- From: "luiriver
- Subject: Re: Beautiful Thing
- Hi,
- What Jamie said is "Get me ball back"
- Luis
- On Wed, 2 Jul 1997, John wrote:
- > I was thinking about the first time Ste actually began to have feelings
- > for Jamie. I think the first night in the bedroom, he may have felt
- > *something* but was basically unaware of his feelings at that point.
- > For me, the first time Ste actually feels something for Jamie is in
- > the scene where he is playing soccer with his friends. The two glances
- > that Ste gives him while kicking the ball isn't what I'm talking
- > about.
- > When the ball goes into the water?
- >
- > "....my ball back?" Jamie says (I really haven't a clue as to
- > what he really says. It's sounds to me like "garble garble my ball
- > back?")
- >
- > All the guys jump in, and after Jamie is thrown in (by that McBride
- > fellow) they all seem more concerned with teasing him and splashing him
- > with water. They have all forgotten about the ball- all except for Ste
- > that is.
- >
- > It is this point for me that Ste realizes he has feelings for Jamie.
- > Notice the affectionate way he grabs the ball, puts his whole body
- > around ensuring that he has it. Then he gets up and looks over toward
- > Jamie and sees the other guys splashing him with water. As Ste looks at
- > him he smiles with an affectionate look. It's very subtle.
- > What do the rest of you guys think about this.
- >
- > John
- >
**************************************************************
- Date: Wed, 02 Jul 1997 15:53:32 -0500
- From: Keith
- Subject: Re: Beautiful Thing -Reply
- John write:
- I was thinking about the first time Ste actually began to have feelings
- for Jamie....
- John,
- I think you may be right, but I think there is a continual development of
- Ste's feeling for Jamie throughout the movie, albeit in a slow, subtle way.
- I think this is a credit to the actors, and the writer.
- When the movie opens, the guys are teasing Jamie, and he even pleads
- with Ste to stop it. The scene is too quick to see much on Ste's face, but
- I get the idea he isn't paying much attention to Jamie.
- There is the first night in Jamie's bedroom, where Jamie calls Ste, who
- answers hesitantly, but also expectantly. He also makes the comment to
- Jamie about how he looks good with glasses.
- The look Ste gives Jamie when he gets his ball out of the water is one of
- hopeful love for Jamie.
- In the backrub scene, the look on Ste's face says this is the first time he
- has been loved, and he is blissfully content. He is keeping all the
- happiness to himself here, but is also realizing his love for Jamie is being
- returned.
- I think all these subtle (and not so subtle) things throughout the movie
- are one of the reasons BT is so beautiful. It reflects how many
- relationships develop - slow at first, subtle, but picking up momentum. I
- also think this is why the line from Mama Cass "...keeps growing
- stronger every day..." is so appropriate.
- Just my rambling thoughts, and not necessarily in the right order...
- Keith
**************************************************************
- Date: Wed, 2 Jul 1997 06:36:08 -0800
- From: Bruce
- Subject: Re: YOUR SEXUALITY AND YOU - Do you need treatment?
-
-
- Oh my, Davie! Aren't WE being provocative today???? =^P
-
- cheers!
- Bruce
-
- --
**************************************************************
- From: Todd
- Subject: RE: Beautiful Thing
- Date: Wed, 2 Jul 1997 16:06:07 -0400
- I agree wholeheartedly. And notice that later, on the balcony with Sandra, Tony and
- Leah, Ste stands close to Jamie and sort of tries to impress him with his humor. It's
- subtle, but I think it's there.
- Todd
- ----------
- From: John
- Sent: Wednesday, July 02, 1997 4:02 PM
- Subject: Re: Beautiful Thing
- I was thinking about the first time Ste actually began to have feelings
- for Jamie. I think the first night in the bedroom, he may have felt
- *something* but was basically unaware of his feelings at that point.
- For me, the first time Ste actually feels something for Jamie is in
- the scene where he is playing soccer with his friends. The two glances
- that Ste gives him while kicking the ball isn't what I'm talking
- about.
- When the ball goes into the water?
- "....my ball back?" Jamie says (I really haven't a clue as to
- what he really says. It's sounds to me like "garble garble my ball
- back?")
- All the guys jump in, and after Jamie is thrown in (by that McBride
- fellow) they all seem more concerned with teasing him and splashing him
- with water. They have all forgotten about the ball- all except for Ste
- that is.
- It is this point for me that Ste realizes he has feelings for Jamie.
- Notice the affectionate way he grabs the ball, puts his whole body
- around ensuring that he has it. Then he gets up and looks over toward
- Jamie and sees the other guys splashing him with water. As Ste looks at
- him he smiles with an affectionate look. It's very subtle.
- What do the rest of you guys think about this.
- John
**************************************************************
- Date: Wed, 02 Jul 1997 17:35:22 -0500
- From: JOE
- Subject: Re: YOUR SEXUALITY AND YOU - Do you need treatment?
- Bruce wrote:
- >
- > Oh my, Davie! Aren't WE being provocative today???? =^P
- >
- > cheers!
- >
- > Bruce
- Actually, I suspect Davie is getting primed for Pride. :) I was part
- of Atlanta's Pride weekend this past weekend and one thing it does for
- you is bring out the "militant" spirit.
- I think it's also part of the spirit of BT. The film is so affirming is
- the "rightness" and downright goodness of gay love that it has the
- ability to empower.
- Gary
- --
**************************************************************
- Date: Wed, 02 Jul 1997 19:40:00 -0400 (EDT)
- From: daviscj
- Subject: RE: Beautiful Thing
- I don't really think Ste is doing too much in the way of trying to
- impress Jamie on the balcony, but Jamie sure is reacting like he's in
- love. He jump all over his mom when she's making fat jokes about Mama
- Cass, but as soon as Ste cracks one, he's all smiles.
- Secondly, something I've been wondering about since I first saw the
- movie: what is that look Sandra gives Louise on their way home from work
- as Louise walks away? Any thoughts
- Later,
- Chris
-
-
- On Wed, 2 Jul 1997, Todd wrote:
- > I agree wholeheartedly. And notice that later, on the balcony with Sandra, Tony and
Leah,
- Ste stands close to Jamie and sort of tries to impress him with his humor. It's subtle,
but I think it's there.
- >
- > Todd
- >
- > ----------
- > From:
- > Sent: Wednesday, July 02, 1997 4:02 PM
- > Subject: Re: Beautiful Thing
- >
- > I was thinking about the first time Ste actually began to have feelings
- > for Jamie. I think the first night in the bedroom, he may have felt
- > *something* but was basically unaware of his feelings at that point.
- > For me, the first time Ste actually feels something for Jamie is in
- > the scene where he is playing soccer with his friends. The two glances
- > that Ste gives him while kicking the ball isn't what I'm talking
- > about.
- > When the ball goes into the water?
- >
- > "....my ball back?" Jamie says (I really haven't a clue as to
- > what he really says. It's sounds to me like "garble garble my ball
- > back?")
- >
- > All the guys jump in, and after Jamie is thrown in (by that McBride
- > fellow) they all seem more concerned with teasing him and splashing him
- > with water. They have all forgotten about the ball- all except for Ste
- > that is.
- >
- > It is this point for me that Ste realizes he has feelings for Jamie.
- > Notice the affectionate way he grabs the ball, puts his whole body
- > around ensuring that he has it. Then he gets up and looks over toward
- > Jamie and sees the other guys splashing him with water. As Ste looks at
- > him he smiles with an affectionate look. It's very subtle.
- > What do the rest of you guys think about this.
- >
- > John
- >
**************************************************************
- Date: Wed, 02 Jul 1997 21:31:31 -0400
- From: Kevin
- Subject: Re: Ste gay or not
- Not to be a real-sh*t,
- but I have to admit, after seeing the movie that night, I kept
- remembering how everyone was slobbering over the kiss and how beautiful
- it was - I got the impression that "everyone" thought it was the
- "perfect kiss", and it wasn't - as you say, it's got rhythm, it's does
- move - it is very "real" in the sense that NOTHING is perfect, but that
- doesn't mean we can't try to attain perfection, right?
- Well, my whole point in writing, as I said was to get others to think
- about that too - too many times I have gone back and thought, "God, if I
- had only done that differently..." whereas if someone had been observing
- me from an objective point of view, they may have considered my actions
- (words, etc) "poetry in motion"...or not!?! But the point I am trying to
- make is that no matter what we each may think about a certain thing, we
- can choose to see it positively or negatively, in a dream or in reality
- - well, I guess you said it best: "Well, my reaction was unexpected to
- say the least." Sorry if this sounds very confusing (long story), but I
- have gotten back alot of responses (like I thought) and most have them
- have encouraged me...no matter how bad or good something LOOKS like, it
- can still be a Beautiful Thing.
-
- Kevin
- _____
-
- jmcs wrote:
- >
- > At 02:58 30/06/97 -0400, you wrote:
- > >Can I add, too, that I just watched the movie again the other nite (at
- > >2am - so maybe it dulled my senses?!?) but the kiss in the park didn't
- > >look very "real" (God, I'm gonna get e-mail for this one!?) I was
- > >watching very intently (thru my sleep-induced haze?) and the kiss looked
- > >"passionate", but not loving - I will probably have to watch it again
-
- > >because the first 5 or six times I saw it, it seemed real enough to me -
- > >but for some reason, the other nite, it looked like two guys getting the
- > >job done...on to the next scene. Has anyone else dared to pick apart the
- > >scene at length?!? I apologize (in advance) if I upset anyone with this
- > >comment - just voicing my opinion - and when I get a free moment I WILL
- > >watch the park scene again, but after viewing it the last time, I found
- > >it left me lacking...fulfillment!?
- > >IMHO
- > >Kevin
- >
- > Buf! How can I explain this?
- >
- > The first time I saw the movie I knew exactly how and when they were going
- > to kiss because I had read the screenplay in advance. But I had no idea what
- > my reaction was going to be or if the kiss was going to be shy, passionate,
- > both... you know?
- >
- > Well, my reaction was unexpected to say the least. The music captivated me.
- > Seeing Ste and Jamie chasing each other with such happiness and abandonment
- > and Mama Cass at full volume (it was the first time I heard the song) made
- > me literally jump from my seat. I was expecting them to kiss because I KNEW
- > they were going to kiss but when they slow down and Ste goes to Jamie my
- > heart stopped. The first two kisses were shy as I expected them to be but
- > after that everything went too fast. The kiss was over before I knew. That
- > was my first impression. A blur of lips, arms...
- >
- > After two million wiewings (some of them slow motion) I think that was
- > exactly the way Hettie wanted the kiss to be. After all, they could have
- > shot it again and again until they kissed 'correctly'. <G>
- >
- > A big plus for me is the fact that it was the first time Glen and Scott
- > kissed, which makes the scene even more innocent and pure, IMO.
- > Now, I dont believe the kiss is 'fast' anymore. In fact, I consider it has
- > a certain rhythm, a cadence (maybe its because of the music, I dunno).
- > Sometimes I even think its really slow. It has a hurried clumsiness that I
- > love. They want to do everything at once. The way they sometimes bump their
- > noses when they turn their heads, that light caress to Stes neck, that
- > moment when they embrace each other and their arms entangle... beautiful.
- >
- > I do believe its a very passionate kiss. They want to please the other but
- > they dont know how. Its not just a smooch, its a very
- > loving-sweet-passionate kiss. [And Ive seen it at every possible moment and
- > mood: in the morning, in the afternoon, in the evening, at night, in the
- > living room, in my room, in my bed (I still remember the earthquake in the
- > middle of the kiss!), angry, sad, happy, sleepy...] but every time I find it
- > delightful and beautiful to see. (sigh)
- >
- > Excuse me, I must to see it for two million and one time. Night, everybody.
- >
- > Take care.
- >
- > Sandra.
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- Date: Wed, 02 Jul 1997 22:11:07 -0400
- From: Eric
- Subject: RE: Beautiful Thing
-
- >Secondly, something I've been wondering about since I first saw the
- >movie: what is that look Sandra gives Louise on their way home from work
- >as Louise walks away? Any thoughts
- I thought it was a mix of feelings. Louise is fantasizing about the money
- she could spend if she managed a pub. Sandra has been through too many hard
- knocks to buy into that fantasy - money comes from hard work - but still it
- sounds nice. So I always thought the look was "you're getting carried away
- Louise, but wouldn't it be nice?"
- -Eric
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- Date: Wed, 02 Jul 1997 22:49:53 +0000
- From: John
- Subject: Cheese & Salad- Bang on food!
- Hello all!
- Perhaps someone can help with some dialogue that nobody has yet
- mentioned (at least since I've been connected)
- It's the scene in the bedroom where Jamie asks about Ste's sandwhich
- and Ste replies, "Cheese and salad- bang on food"
- Now that I understand.
- But what does it mean when he says it's good for your spots?
- At first when Ste said it I thought he was talking about weightlifting-
- but then it sounds like Jamie says, "...something garble .......spots?
- Then Ste mumbles something I didn't quite understand to which Jamie
- responds,
- "Cheers"
-
-
- ???
- ??? ???
- ???
- ???
- ???
- ???
- ???
- ???
- ???
- ??
-
-
- I don't get it.
-
-
- John
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- From: David
- Subject: Re: Cheese & Salad- Bang on food!
- Date: Thu, 3 Jul 1997 04:07:12 -0000
- >But what does it mean when he says it's good for your spots?
- >
- >At first when Ste said it I thought he was talking about weightlifting-
- >
- > but then it sounds like Jamie says, "...something garble .......spots?
- The first word is SPORTS, not spots...
- Ste: Cheese and salad. Bang-on food.
- Jamie: Good for your sports, that.
- Ste: That's right. Good for your spots an'all
- Scene 33, Beautiful Thing screenplay, copyright Jonathan Harvey.
- This kind of sandwich is filling and good for building muscles for swimming
- :)
- Regards, Davie
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- Date: Wed, 02 Jul 1997 22:44:02 -0500
- From: Kyle
- Subject: RE: Beautiful Thing
- At 07:40 PM 7/2/97 -0400, you wrote:
- >I don't really think Ste is doing too much in the way of trying to
- >impress Jamie on the balcony, but Jamie sure is reacting like he's in
- >love. He jump all over his mom when she's making fat jokes about Mama
- >Cass, but as soon as Ste cracks one, he's all smiles.
- >
- >Secondly, something I've been wondering about since I first saw the
- >movie: what is that look Sandra gives Louise on their way home from work
- >as Louise walks away? Any thoughts
- >
- >Later,
- >
- >Chris
- My interpretation has always been that Sandra is just pondering the
- possibilities that open up from running her own pub. I don't think the
- look is specifically directed at Louise, though it is in her general
- direction :) I get that same look sometimes :)
- Kyle
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- Date: Thu, 03 Jul 1997 07:16:29 +0200
- From: Meinolf
- Subject: Re: Cheese & Salad- Bang on food!
- Hello John,
- > It's the scene in the bedroom where Jamie asks about Ste's sandwhich
- > and Ste replies, "Cheese and salad- bang on food"
- >
- > Now that I understand.
- I go with David here.
- > But what does it mean when he says it's good for your spots?
- >
- > At first when Ste said it I thought he was talking about weightlifting-
- >
- > but then it sounds like Jamie says, "...something garble .......spots?
- >
- > Then Ste mumbles something I didn't quite understand to which Jamie
- > responds,
- > "Cheers"
- Here they both mean spots, or pimpel if you like. The dialog was (I am
- not sure of the correct words but of the meaning):
- Jamie says: You have no spots.
- Ste replys: Yours geting better.
- And than Jamie not much happy: Cheers!
- <g> Jamie is not verry happy then. Thats normal who of us likes the one
- he falls for remark our own defects. I don't. I am sure.
- I understand it this way after seeing the dubted german version.
- It is an play upon words not posible in german. So here they are alwys
- talking about pimpels.
- The translation is.
- Ste: Good against pimpel and anyway.
- Jamie says: You have no pimpels.
- Ste replys: Yours geting better.
- And than Jamie not much happy: Hurrah!
- :-( not so funny like the english version.
- But we have jokes the original does not have. :-)
- Draw Level!
- Regards
- Meinolf
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