Rick's Pipe Dream

Is it too much of a pipe dream in hoping to find a guy who:

 -wants to be a friend, a pal, a buddy, a confidante first and foremost?

 -wants to engage in the fine art of conversation to include truly listening and processing what you say?

 -wants to share common interests and is willing to teach you new things as well as learn new things from you?

-has the wherewithal to get away from wife, family, job, etc. on occasion to spend some time with you?

-who has come to terms with who he is and accepts himself and is able to manage his guilt and doubts?

-who is sensitive, passionate about life in general, introspective, yet out-going, with a good sense of humor?

-is easy on the eye (not necessarily an Adonis or drop dead good looking)? 

-wants a man-to-man "monogamous" sexual relationship? 

-knows what another man wants sexually and is not afraid to explore; who is willing to please and be pleased? 

-doesn't live half a continent away?  

Of course what is not listed is "love".

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