The Aries/Virgo combination brings together two very different people. The alchemy of their temperment may work very well, or the two may continually be at odds with each other. Fiery Aries plunges into things in a headlong fashion; cautious Virgo wants to think about every detail before she acts. The Virgo woman can be very decisive and efficient once she has analyzed all the facts. But in the meantime, her Aries partner may be at her wit's end with impatience. Virgo approaches life in a cool, detached way, while Aries is hot and passionate.
The question is, can these two women develop a harmonious relationship? The answer is, cautiously, yes, if certain adjustments are made. But first, let's examine more closely how these women tend to interact with each other. The Virgo woman is a stickler for doing things perfectly. Her Aries partner means well, but she can be rather slap-dash in her approach to details. If the Virgo woman can learn to appreciate the creative flair that her Aries partner can add to anything they do together, these two can work very constructively. At the same time, if the Aries woman can grow to understand the need for systematic, thorough-going effort in any task, she will find that her creative inspirations can actually be used for practical applications. Another issue is the Virgo woman's tendency to be critical of her Aries partner. Aries hates criticism, all the more so if she disagrees with the perfectionistic standard that the Virgo may be using to judge her. The Virgo woman's intention is to help the Aries, but her partner will never understand that. If the Virgo woman can learn to exercise more tact and tone down her criticism, she will find she has much more influence on her Aries partner. Aries wants to please those she loves, but criticism must be offered in the right way.
Both women have keen minds and the ability to eliminate in-essentials and get to the heart of an issue. Each should admire this ability in the other. Both women feel most comfortable with simplicity and having an uncluttered environment. This common trait should go far in making them more comfortable. Sexually, there is much to work through since Virgo is cautious and reserved, and Aries is so passionate.
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