The Virgo/Libra combination is an interesting match, even though the two women are very different. Virgo is an earth sign concerned with the open exchange of ideas and balance. The Virgo woman approaches life from the point of view of detail and perfection; the Libra woman is more interested in the balance of parts within a whole and she becomes impatient with the Virgo's concern with detail.
The main reason why these two women disagree is around their approaches to other people's needs. The Virgo woman is concerned about being of service in a structured environment and a loyal way. The Libra woman is concerned about the harmony and ease among women, and wants to please others, and not necessarily to do what is "right" or expected. To the Virgo woman the Libra may appear to compromise too much in order to please, and Virgo may feel she can't always completely trust the Libran's motives. To the Libra woman, her Virgo partner may seem overly obsessed with doing the right thing, without concern for creating a harmonious flow.
There are differences, but the similarities are especially plentiful. Both women are extremely concerned about the comfort of others and are willing to go to any length to take another's needs into consideration. These women will be very concerned about the well-being of others. The Virgo woman can learn to be more tolerant and open to others through her Libra partner, and the Libra woman can learn more attention to specifics and to be more honest and direct.
Sexually, these two may need to trust each other's needs more before they can feel open to sharing their own personalities. The Virgo woman must learn not to mistake Libra's approach and to stay warm and openly loving.
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