Kandie Speaks!
Sweeties! Thanks for thinking what I have to say is interesting! This page is to let you know a little about myself. First, I am 32 and from East Tennessee. I have lived here my whole life.
I started out being a fag basher! Of all things! Then, my world changed when I met my friend at the time Stormi. She made sure that my mind was wide open as the wild blue yonder. So, she made sure I went to the gay bar and saw her in a drag show. Boy was I in for a surprise!! She was just flawless and beautiful.
After that, I started hanging out there for the ever popular beer bust and started building my circle of friends. I found that the gay men there were accepting of me and my wide-eyed straightness. They were the most loveable and sweet people that I ever met. My ideas about gay people started changing drastically. My mind started opening. I even became involved in promoting AIDS awareness (something I considered JUST a gay disease! Boy was I wrong!!!)
Anyway, now 7 years later, I am a whole lot wiser and a whole lot more mature. I am shocked that I ever thought ill of the gay community! I am embarassed at my closed mindedness! But, the moral of the story is, if I can overcome predjudice, then ANYONE can do so! I can't believe I judged a person simply because of a sexual prefrence. I did not judge straight people on their sexual prefrences. I look back on it all and I think that it is the same.
But, I do not think I am the fag hag some gay men think of. I am not a psycho as the book Fag Hag makes us look! I do not break up the romances of my gay male friends. I support them 100%. I have rescued more than one queen from her abusive boyfriend and been the shoulder to cry on for many a jilted lover. So, I consider myself a friend more than a Fag Hag. I am tired of my straight "friends" telling me that I am strange for liking the company of my gay male friends. I am here to tell everyone (something that all of us know) GAY MEN MAKE THE BEST FRIENDS!
I have learned and owe so much to my Fag (TNCowboy8) and my online queen Cheeta. They have taught me wonderful things about myself that I could have never discovered about myself. They have helped me see the beauty within as well as without! Without Mark (TNCowboy8), I would be the emotional wreck that I was the day he met me now. I owe him so much. More than words can state.
Well, enough of the Klenex theater, sweeties! I just wanted to share a bit about myself. Pardon me if I got long winded! I just wanted you to know about this 'lil ole Fag Hag\Drag Hag that keeps this page. And, a lady has the right to babble on her own web page! :)
Toodles! xxxoooxxxoo
Just a pic of Lil Ole Me!
After that, I started hanging out there for the ever popular beer bust and started building my circle of friends. I found that the gay men there were accepting of me and my wide-eyed straightness. They were the most loveable and sweet people that I ever met. My ideas about gay people started changing drastically. My mind started opening. I even became involved in promoting AIDS awareness (something I considered JUST a gay disease! Boy was I wrong!!!)
Anyway, now 7 years later, I am a whole lot wiser and a whole lot more mature. I am shocked that I ever thought ill of the gay community! I am embarassed at my closed mindedness! But, the moral of the story is, if I can overcome predjudice, then ANYONE can do so! I can't believe I judged a person simply because of a sexual prefrence. I did not judge straight people on their sexual prefrences. I look back on it all and I think that it is the same.
But, I do not think I am the fag hag some gay men think of. I am not a psycho as the book Fag Hag makes us look! I do not break up the romances of my gay male friends. I support them 100%. I have rescued more than one queen from her abusive boyfriend and been the shoulder to cry on for many a jilted lover. So, I consider myself a friend more than a Fag Hag. I am tired of my straight "friends" telling me that I am strange for liking the company of my gay male friends. I am here to tell everyone (something that all of us know) GAY MEN MAKE THE BEST FRIENDS!
I have learned and owe so much to my Fag (TNCowboy8) and my online queen Cheeta. They have taught me wonderful things about myself that I could have never discovered about myself. They have helped me see the beauty within as well as without! Without Mark (TNCowboy8), I would be the emotional wreck that I was the day he met me now. I owe him so much. More than words can state.
Well, enough of the Klenex theater, sweeties! I just wanted to share a bit about myself. Pardon me if I got long winded! I just wanted you to know about this 'lil ole Fag Hag\Drag Hag that keeps this page. And, a lady has the right to babble on her own web page! :)
Toodles! xxxoooxxxoo
Just a pic of Lil Ole Me!