Dealt with your own homophobia, your own doubts, fears, uncertainty?

The contradictory pushes and pulls that precedes the incredible proclamation "I'm gay"  does not change the world all that much….
There is more work…

Let's  explore ways that others have successfully dealt, with aspects such as:

	Telling friends, relatives, employers
	Living w/o fear
	'gay puberty' -- that wild crazy period that some of us go (went) through just after proclaiming our gayness

Let's consider questions such as:

When did you realize you were (are/maybe) gay?  Tell your story…

Let's discuss ways of making  sense of some of your coming our stories, asking you questions, dealing with unresolved doubts..
Let's work out strategies for staying out ..