It's not about how many friends you have or how accepted you are.
Not about if you have plans this weekend or if you are alone.
It isn't about who you are dating, who you used to date, how many people you've dated, or if you haven't been with anyone at all.
It isn't about who you have kissed, it's not about sex.
It isn't about who your family is, or how much money they have or what kind of car you drive or where you were sent to school.
It's not about how beautiful or ugly you are, or what clothes you wear, what shoes you have on, or what kind of music you listen to.
It's not about wether your hair is blonde, red, black or brown
or if your skin is light or dark.
Not about what grades you get, how smart you are, how smart everyone else thinks you are or how smart standardized tests say you are.
It's not about representing your whole being on a piece of paper and seeing who will accept the "written you".
LIFE JUST ISN'T....
But life IS about who you love and who you hurt.
It's about who you make happy or unhappy purposefully.
It's about keeping or betraying trust.
It's about friendship, used as a sanctity or as a weapon.
It's about what you say and mean, wether hurtful or heartening.
It's about what judgements you pass and why, and who they are spread to.
It's about who you've ignored with full control and intention.
It's about carrying inner love as well as hate, letting it grow and spreading it...
But most of all, it's about using your life to touch or poison other people's hearts in such a way that could never have occurred alone. ONLY YOU choose the way those hearts are affected, and those choices are what life is all about......
Thanks Ted =)
