PLACING AN ADVERT ON Q PALS
Please think carefully. If you are not serious about making new friends and keeping in touch with them, do not apply to place an advert here. For those people trying to come-to-terms with their sexuality, who are looking for contact with other people like them, this may be one of the few options open to them. Please keep this in mind.
I hope that nobody reading the above request will be offended by it. I am sure we all have varying experiences of discovering and accepting our sexuality. For some this may have been a good experience, for others bad or difficult to say the least. For many it can be a time of great trauma and unhappiness. I am sure that if placing an advert for gay penpals were the means you had chosen to make contact with other people who think and feel like you do, you would hope for a warm, considerate and supportive response.
"gay and lesbian youth are two to three times more likely to commit suicide than other youths, and 30 percent of all completed youth suicides are related to the issue of sexual identity."
"According to the results of this study, the single largest
predictor of mental health was self-acceptance." "A general sense of
personal worth, coupled with a positive view of their sexual orientation,
appears to be critical for the youths' mental health."
"This study found that of the gay and lesbian youth participants in their
study, 40.3% had attempted suicide, and 25.8% had seriously thought about
it at least once."
If this is the means you have chosen to make contact with gay, lesbian and bi people for the first time, then you probably have many questions that you are looking for answers to. You might not even be sure if you are gay. Many people will be happy to discuss these things with you, but not everyone will. Believe it or not there are many, many ways you can find the information you are looking for, now more than ever. Take a look at the links page for other resources and web sites that can help you.
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