Welcome to my Pink Closet! I don't know if you can see, but I am on a treadmill!

BDSM covers a lot of territory.  Here are 
my thoughts of various aspects I enjoy.

Bondage:  My first true love.  There is so much you can do with 
bondage.  It can create so many effects and sensation.  A few 
thing bondage can be:

Simple: Quick two or four point bondage.
Functional: Ankle and wrist cuff separated with short chance.  
Good for service.  
Heavy: Japanese rope suspension can be a great S&M trip.
Artistic: Body sculpting or a body harness.
Beauty: Betty Page
Predicament: Opposing tension that keep the slave off balance.
Immobilizing:  A fiberglass body case create a very unique 
bondage head space.
Entertaining:  Ever watch some bound in heels trying to hop over 
and deliver drinks without spilling?

I like bondage from both a physical and psychological aspect.  I 
like the feeling of being bound and to pull against the 
restraints.  I enjoy doing scene where I try and escape my 
bonds.  

Bondage has many interesting psychological aspect as well.  You 
surrender so much control when you allow yourself to be bound.  
The feeling of helplessness and vulnerability really taps into 
my submissive head space. 

Sensation Play and Pain:  People outside or new to the scene 
often have a miss conceptions of what is S&M.  Many people just 
don't understand how pain can be pleasure.  In truth it is not.  
Pain is pain.  No fun in and of itself.  What is important to 
know is that pain is a completely subjective!  What a good S&M 
scene is going to do is to raise up the "bar" that distinguishes 
high sensation from pain.  At the end of a good S&M scene you 
will be able experience very intense sensations (some will call 
it pain).  By this time, the endorphins coursing through your 
body will have you perceiving a whole new reality.   

Pain can also be a tool in S&M.  Again this must be consensual.  
Pain may be used as a punishment for a slave.  This is done to 
effect a psychological element within a relationship.  It should 
be done sparingly for a severe breach of slave etiquette.  It is 
not done as S&M play.  

In my four years as a domestic slave I received such a 
punishment once.  I took six strokes from Mistress cane (no warm 
up hear).  Now that was painful!  It took two weeks for the 
marks to fully fade.  I must admit I really enjoy the throb of 
the welts after the punishment was complete.  I wore my welts 
like a badge of courage and enjoyed running my fingers over them 
at night.  It was quit tender for some time. 

S&M:  I do enjoy playing serious sensation play as a bottom.  
There is no big high then an endorphin rush from a good SM 
scene.  To me, S&M is NOT about hurtful pain (which I think is 
many outsiders perception), but rather a slow build up in 
intensity that creates a cascading rush endorphin.  At the end 
of the good scene you may be taking a hard flogging (at a level 
that you could never stand and might be quite hurtful if you 
started out at that intensity), but it is the intermediate build 
up that is S&M play.   Overall good S&M is safe, not some that 
is completely crazy and outlandish.  I may be into this a little 
more than you, but don't let this scare you off.  I'm very 
respectful of peoples limits (both as a dom and sub) so you 
don't have to worry about me pushing you into something you 
don't want.  Remember S&M is ALWAYS CONSENSUAL!

CBT: Cock and Ball Torture (CBT) is one of my favorite past 
times.  Again, don't get all hung up on the word "torture".  A 
whole variety of stimuli fall within this category.  Because you 
are playing with a central pleasure center, this play is highly 
erotic.  I personally find the more stimulation applied in this 
erogenous zone the more pleasure I experience.  The more aroused 
I am, the higher more sensation thresholds become.

I particularly love CBT toys.  Some of my favorites are: a 
studded cock sheath wrapped tightly around my penis; parachute 
harness with some nice ball weights (be sure to make them 
swing!); Various types of clips and clamps attached to my cock 
and balls;  tight CB bondage; a light slapper rapping on my 
shaft.  

Nipple Play:  Nipple play is much like CBT.  Nipple clamps can 
create some interesting tie points for predicament bondage.

Temperature Torture: A few dabs of Icy-Hot, some candle wax and 
Ice can make for a fun temperature torture scenes.  Flash cotton 
and some fire wands can also be very entrancing scenes.

Watersports:  You mentioned watersports in one of your emails.  
This is an area that I have often fantasized about.  
Surrendering bodily control definitely creates a deep submissive 
head space.  It adds a very primordial flavor to a scene.

My fantasies have taken a few different angles on the 
watersports kink.  One set revolves around "gear".  Wearing 
rubber shorts or panties and forces to urinate through tubes and 
hoses.  You can have the urine drain away, flow into a 
collection container, flow back over a bound body or recycled 
through.  These can also take a medical angle with internal or 
external catheters.  

Diaper scene are another angle on watersports that I have found 
myself to enjoy.  It creates a very unique sub space.  I really 
takes all your cares away. 

Enemas can add some interesting elements to a scene.  I have 
never found enema to be particularly pleasurable or erotic.  
They do, however, have a big psychological impact on my 
submissive space.  It really does create a total release of all 
worldly baggage and really always to create a pure submissive 
head space.  It also a surrender of bodily control which is 
profoundly submissive.  Enemas can also be very useful as part 
of a larger, such as preparation for anal play and such.

In the natural progression of the kink, I have had fantasies 
about toilet training.  I find stories of the mistress forcing 
their slave to drink their golden champagne very exciting.  It 
always seemed like the ultimate act of submission.  Again, toys 
can add to the heat of the fantasy (funnels and gags that 
"force" you to drink).  This is one of my few fantasies that I 
have no real experience to compare.  It is such an intimate act 
that I would require something very real between me and the top 
to make work.  A more workable angle to this is being forced to 
drink one's own urine (it is sterile to ones own body).  

Golden showers can also be fun.  They add the nasty element to a 
scene and also an animalistic territorial-marking feel to it.  
The warmth of urine to be very pleasing.  In a way it is a 
sharing of ones inner warmth. 

Role Play:  I have all sorts of fun outfits that can make for 
some fun role-play scenes.  My pink PVC and a satin maids 
uniforms are fun service scenes.  For age play scenes, I have a 
pink plaid skirt and sweeter that make me look like a school 
girl, also, I have a very juvenile looking dress with a petty 
coat and patent Mary Jane's.  A harem looking outfit I have is 
fun for a pleasure slave scene.  I am diversifying into some 
clothes to top in with a couple of more vixen vinyl outfits.  I 
own several ball gowns that can make me look like quite the 
princess.  I also have a satin teddy with fluffy bunny ears to 
match.  I even have a wedding gown hanging in my closet (I have 
never put it on so I don't know how well it fits).  

Sometimes it is fun to play the unwilling captive.  One that is 
first wrestled into submission and then carefully and thorough 
controlled through the scene.  There can be lots of fun verbal 
exchange (at least until you end up with a ball gag or worse in 
your mouth!).  A lot of NO,  You can't do that to me! 

You can do more elaborate scene such as alien abductions.  I can 
dove tail nicely with some medical fetishes.  Now who wouldn't 
want to be gang probed by some hot aliens?  The flip on this is 
some poor alien who falls prey to the evil scientist.  Either 
way there is lots of probing and bodily fluid extraction!

Service space:  I was a service slave for four years so I do 
enjoy playing with service.  My service space manifested itself 
two very different ways.  When I serviced a household as a 
slave, my duties to the household were strictly separated from 
our play space.  We did not play games around service or use 
"punishments" for shortcomings.  I was expected and required to 
do my best at all times.  Having a play to serve and occasional 
play scenes were my reward.  

Once in a great while, we would mixed some traditional maid 
duties with play.  I would be restrained in a manner that would 
make doing chore a challenge and then be punished for an short 
comings.  These were my favorite service moments.

I do enjoy bring service element into play scene.  Helping one's 
top get dressed, put on and lace up her boots or to perform foot 
worship is a lot of fun.  These are the times when the top can 
play the task master that is never satisfied and punish the 
slave for shortcomings.  Often, tasks will be require while in 
some sort of bondage.  Even try to take dictation with your arms 
in a single glove and all you use to hold the pen with is your 
mouth?  

Pet Training:  I have been a Reindeer for Christmas; a bunny for 
Easter; a Mermaid for a Hawaiian luau; ate Thanks Giving dinner 
from a dog dish; and was a pony girl at several events.  Pets 
are always beloved creature and to be considered someone pet is 
always a great honor.  

Enforce Chastity:  The idea of chastity belt and devices have 
always made me HOT!  I have yet to find anything suitable for 
long term confinement  Even the big buck tollyboys and such are 
impractical for more then 3 or 4 days.  Most things out there 
work well for short term and can be fun when used in extended 
scenes.  The fantasy burns strong and I am always on the look 
out for the perfect chastity device.

Penetration:  I love to penetrated by sex toys while playing.  
Forced to wear a butt plug locked deep in my "pussy" can be 
quite an interesting  distraction.  Being tied to a chair that 
has a dildo strapped to it can be very fun!  Electric anal toys 
are quite wonderful too.  They can give a good fucking sensation 
without any movement (the current causes your muscles to 
contract and it feels like you are getting rammed deep).  Being 
pounced on in the middle of the night and rape by "the warden's" 
dildo was a scene I enjoyed over and over. 

Electric Toys:  Electric toys were the best discovery I ever 
made.  TENS units or PSG units create the wildest sensations.  
They can be scary the first few times (we are taught from a very 
young age to fear electricity).  They are very safe devices.  
The sensation they create is like a super vibrator.  It is like 
every nerve is being stimulated individually.  Unlike a 
vibrator, you don't have to worry about friction and reduced 
sensation.  The fun thing is the TENS units always have a higher 
and higher setting.  They can ramp you up into a surreal realm 
of pleasure and sensation.  They are sooooo wild!

Suction Pumps:  There are a variety of toys that use suction to 
stimulate.  The simplest are snake bit kits.  Small plastic cups 
that can be fun for nipple play.  A little more complex is the 
hand vacuum pump.  These usual have cups with valves on them 
which can be attached around the body.  Small ones can be 
attached to nipples as such.  Larger vessel can be used around a 
penis are breast.  They are sometimes advertised organ 
enlargement devices.  I have actually scene some pretty amazing 
results from this procedure.  The most fun device is a sexual 
aid call Venus II.  This is basically a motorized, automated 
jackoff machine.  Lots of fun (at about $1000). 

Playing with Your Food: I have always loved to play with food.  
I think it is because it was one of those childhood taboos.  I 
seem to have particular fun with fruit.  Grapes, strawberries, 
bananas can be so much fun.  Your friend my be bigger than the 
cucumber, but, does he feel as nice?  Food play can be used at 
enhance various other scene such as service, age play, 
penetration and pet training. 

Medical Scenes: Fun, messy, often expensive.  You need a strong 
fetish here to absorb the up front costs of pulling together 
clinic scenes.  There is a lot to say here and I will speak for 
on this in the future.
  

Here are some of the elements that 
I think build a great scene.



Everyone's idea of the ideal scene is going to be different.  
This variety is what makes BDSM so much fun.  Some people like 
scenes the focus on one or two elements that represent their 
"kink".  Other like scenes the are well scripted with everything 
negotiated before anything starts.  Still others like 
spontaneous scenes to are negotiated on the fly.  Personally, I 
love scene the blend together various aspects BDSM.  I love 
scenes that strike a balance between the psychological and 
physical elements of BDSM.  I will outline for you the elements 
I feel make up a good scene.

Setting the mood: Whether this is at a play party or in private, 
it is very important to create the right environment for the 
scene.  People's fetishes work very nicely hear.  Sexy 
provocative outfits are wonderful at creating the energy for the 
scene.  I love putting on something sexy.  It may be an outfit 
made of latex, leather, or PVC or something simple like some 
lingerie, stocking, and heels.  I personally love things that 
make me feel sexy!  

The second thing about setting the mood is the background 
sound.  There is nothing worse than trying to build a scene at a 
dungeon space that have a lot of people yacking away loudly.  If 
you're hosting a party, try to direct these people to a social 
space away from the dungeon!  I personally like to have some 
trance music playing.  Gabrielle Roth or Dead Can Dance are 
great scene music.

Head Trip:  When I bottom, I like to start of with things that 
reinforces my bottom head-space.  This can be some sort of power 
role play scene, where the top will place their collar on and 
tells of all the nasty things they may be in store for the 
evening.  This may also be a physical surrender of being placed 
in bondage.  My favorite is both!  

I love to start of a scene with bondage.  This can be with 
either rope or with restraint devices.  A piece of rope and some 
creativity can make for a hot start.  The bondage can be simple, 
some nice two or four point bondage, or elaborate, Single glove 
attached to a stallion guard wrapped around my balls and legs 
spread by a spreader bar.  Blindfolds, gags, hoods and harnesses 
are wonderful at this point. 

Hear are a list of just a few favorite starters with rope:

Wrist's rope cuffed brought over my head and down my back.  This 
can be then tied off to an ankle thus forcing me to balance on 
one foot (usually in five inch heels) or tied off to my balls 
(where any movement by my arms results in a nice tug. A good 
position for tickling);   

Have in rope and my long hair braided into a pony tail and 
similarly tied off;

Rope body harness.  This can have many wonderful variations (see 
my rope corset I wore for Easter);

Hog tied or tied prostrated with wrist to ankles and butt in the air;  

Tied with elbows touching (I was once turned into a book stand 
at a convention and have been made to run around with trays 
serving tied like this.).  

Now that things have warmed up a bit, things can begin to get 
serious.


Warming Up:  I am a sensation slut.  Things get serious when we 
start play with sensation.  The trick to good sensation play is 
a good warm up.  You need to create a transition from the 
physical world to the world of sensations.  You want to 
sensitize the body, wake up the nerve sensors and generally get 
the juices flowing.

Some favorites: Studded penis sheath tightly attached to my 
cock; Fire play (Very entrancing); Nipple clamps; Spankings; 
Light flogging;  Bondage that causes some body stress 
(Japanese); tickling; Cock and ball bondage (Mistress had a 
fabulous rope corset the she would tie down my scrotum until my 
balls were bound into a very tight place and then she would tie 
the ends around my very erect penis head); electricity play; 
teasing.

Things Get Serious:  This will progress from warming up to 
something with a little more sensational.  This happens as a 
natural buildup of the intensity of play.  I love it when it 
gets intense.  Once the endorphin's get pumping after a good 
warm up, I am ready to dive into some serious sensation play.  
This is where it is also important to know your partner or have 
had some negotiation of boundaries, limits and safe words.  

Some favorites:  Taking hard strokes from the flogger; Japanese 
rope suspension; removing strategically placed clothespins after 
30 minutes; Hot wax; penetrated by dildo; Hot vibrator tease 
(particularly if on nicely bound cock and balls); Cock and ball 
weights; TENS unit turned up.

Sexuality:  BDSM is always something sensuous and erotic for me, 
however, this doesn't mean it has to be sexual.  It can be.  
Some people use BDSM as foreplay leading to sex later.  My 
personal sexuality is very wrapped up in my kinks.  I have not 
had a "vanilla" sexual encounter for several years (and do not 
regret it).  Often times, my top will play out the scene so that 
it will peak with my orgasm.  Other times, we play for the scene 
itself.  This little tease often leaves me hungry for more!

For the most part, my sexuality fulfillment has been through 
toys while playing.  This might be with a vibrator, being 
penetrated by a dildo, or through electric toys suck as a TENS 
unit.  These are all very pleasurable and great ways to finish a 
scene. 


Opening Scene with me as a Domme:
 

I was just imagining how the scene might go.  I would walk and 
my new slave "girl" would be take my coat and kneeling before 
me.  I would site while my slave slips off my winter boots so I 
could slip into something more sexy.  Your eyes would fixate on 
my feet; my polished toenail glistening though the sheer 
stockings I am wearing.  I hand you the boots I wish to wear;  
lace-up fuchsia books with 3 1/2 inch heels.  If you are 
obedient enjoy I may even let you kiss them.  

Ready I can take you into a comfortable room where I will place 
some leather cuffs upon your wrists.  A new slave must always be 
properly restrained.  I will then sit you down and begin to take 
out all the fun toys I have brought.  I will tell you all the 
devious little torments I can lavish on your helpless body.  
I am sure you will need that hard "clit" of your properly 
restrained.  I know you are a slut that needs to be properly 
controlled.  The leather harness will wrap around your cock and 
balls binding them in a tight little package.  It is not painful 
but makes you acutely aware of your plight.  I run my long 
painted fingernails down your hard shaft making it stiffen in 
its confines.  If you are lucky, I will attack a collar around 
your neck showing how you have become mine!...