The choice is totally up to you weather you want to date, have sex, or anything else. The section here is advice for the sexually active.

Note: You Don't have to have sex with anyone to prove your sexuality to anyone (even yourself). In Today's day it's probably a good idea to save yourself for marriage or a life partner. But if you chose to have sex, I won't stop you.

Always check your partner for signs of STD's or parasites before engaging in sexual activity, and know your partner's sexual history!!!

 

Condoms protect against pregnancy, HIV and other STD's. The pregnancy prevention rate is 80% which means that 20 out of 100 people got pregnant while using a condom. Condoms cannot protect against STD's like Herpes, and Genital warts that occur around the genitals. Lambskin Condoms prevent pregnancy, but not HIV, and some people may be allergic to the lambskin, or the latex.             Spermacides and jellies, do not prevent STD's. There are flavored condoms for the blow job enthusists. you can use regular ones, but they taste bad...and be sure not to use ones with MONOXONIL 9, as it will cause your toung to swell up, and you'd have to tell your parents what you were doing.  Dental dams are for oral sex with a female, you can get thease at pland parenthood, ussualy for free, or you can make your own out of condoms...simply cut off the tip, and slit the side.

 

Most condoms are made with only vaginal sex in mind. A rumor that they are coming out with a special condom for gays is out there, But for now, try to find the toughest condom you can find, because regular condoms may break if used during anal sex. (Trojan is NOT reccomended, but durex is.)      Here's somthing you probably don't know...the female condoms on the market today were first intened for anal sex. They first came out durring the 80's , but AIDS was in full force then, and the attitude was "let them die" so they marketed it as a female condom instead.      All you have to do is take out the ring and insert it into the person's anus. It must be held on durring sex.  There are a few things you need to know regarding anal sex. This is by no means a *complete*       listing.       1. [You KNOW this one] ALWAYS USE A CONDOM!!!  Let me repeat that in case you weren't       listening.... ALWAYS USE A CONDOM!!!  This will help drastically reduce the possibilities of       transmitting HIV.       2. Whenever you use a condom, Use Water Based Lube ONLY.  Oil based lube (salad oil, Crisco,       Vaseline, mineral oil, etc.) will compromise the protective value of the condom.  A compromised       condom is more dangerous than not using one...you feel safe even though you are not. [Two       condoms are NOT safer than one! Friction between two condoms can actually INCREASE the       failure rate.]       3. Condoms can protect the wearer from contracting a few other nasty diseases in addition to HIV.       Remember, the rectum's *Prime* purpose is the elimination of lots of bodily wastes, along with the       resultant bacteria that breaks down said waste.  An enema is a good idea before sex, although not       absolutely needed; it depends on a lot of factors.       4. There are a number of positions that will help your partner accommodate your entry into his       rectum. If the bottom slowly sits down on you, then he can control the speed/depth of penetration,       and can also withdraw if it is too painful.  Also, remember, for most, being entered is a matter of       Trust, you and your partner need to take your time.   Another position is bottom on hands-and-knees;       the bottom can back into you or pull forward to control speed/depth again.       5. Remember pain is the body's way of saying--Excuse Me, Bud! So listen to your body...all good       things take time.... If it hurts, STOP, relax, try again later....       6. Complications can happen...insert NOTHING into your rectum that you don't have an attachment       to...embarrassing is NOT the word to describe going to the hospital ER to remove a "lost"       cucumber...       7. Perforations/tears of the rectal lining are rare, but can happen. These are life-threatening, and       usually due to inserting a sharp object into the rectum.  This includes fingernails.  The lining of the       rectum and further back is expandable, but by no means damage proof.       8. Talk to a reputable health care provider...your doctor is a good bet, esp. if gay. [Obviously] Also       check out the local gay/lesbian support groups for your city/county/state.

 

Always use a dental dam, or plastic wrap when engaging in oral sex. Dental dams are given out by planed parenthood, ussualy for free. they serve as a barrior.  You can also make your own dental dams out of condoms...cut off the tip...slit the side and there you go...just be sure not to use one with MONOXONIL 9, it will cause your toung to swell up...and you'd have to tell your parents what you were doing.... : )

DISCLAIMER: We do not in any way guarantee that you will not become pregnant or get an STD if you follow our advice, These are  general ideas for safer sex..