BDSM Chat Terms




Thwack
The noise made by the keys as they are tapped to spell out 'whip'.

Kneeling quietly
What subs post to remind their Masters or Mistresses that they are still online.

RTI
What is posted when one is bored and wants to go peruse the their mailbox or
When there is no one to talk to and you have other things to do.


12" shaft of Blue Steel
A 6" hard-on.

sister
The competition.

toys
May range from an eggplant to a 9' bullwhip.

safeword
What one uses when one is tired of typing.

Mmmmmmm
I'm cumming too hard to hit any other keys.

Lurker
Someone who is waiting for someone they know to come online.

"Not acting very submissive"
"Hmmm...this sub has both a brain and an opinion...could be dangerous... she might figure out I don't have a clue as to what the fuck I'm doing."

"greedily lapping up the drop of precum glistening on the tip of Your little head...wanting more.. "
"Hurry up and cum already."

sex, or sEx, or seX
Used to refer to female anatomy when someone really wants to say c*nt, but it pretending to be a Lady.

"Oh, I see"
"You're completely nuts, how can I get away from you?"

Bonded
"She/he is mine, so piss off...."

"Would you serve me a drink"
"I really want to see your ass wobble seductively."

"pokes out my tongue"
"Damn I'm desperate for a whippin..."

Admiring gaze
"Oh God, I want a piece of that ass..."

pout
"C'mon, I'm really sexy, please tie me up..."

collaring
Having to tell your Mistress the pw to all your rooms.

"Hi, I'm new here!"
You've been here for a few years but are trying out a new persona.

"Would you like to chat sometime?"
"I really want to get into your pants."

"Yes, I'd love to chat with you!"
You're going to score.

"A wannabe Dom"
A term that subbies apply to males they are not interested in or those who have rejected them.

Dom/mes
The people who get to sit in chairs or sofas

subs
The ones who have to kneel on various items. (eg. rugs, floorboards, pillows)

"are you spoken for?"
"If I make a move on you will I get flamed?"

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