Submissive BDSM Play Partner Check List
BDSM Activity List
Abrasion ::::
Age play ::::
Anal sex ::::
Anal plugs (small) ::::
Anal plugs (large) ::::
Anal plug (public, under clothes)::::
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) ::::
Auctioned for charity ::::
Bathroom use control ::::
Beastiality ::::
Beating (soft) ::::
Beating (hard) ::::
Blindfolds ::::
Being serviced (sexual) ::::
Being bitten ::::
Breast/chest bondage ::::
Breath control ::::
Branding ::::
Boot worship ::::
Bondage (light) ::::
Bondage (heavy) ::::
Bondage (multi-day) ::::
Bondage (public, under clothing) ::::
Breast whipping ::::
Cages (locked inside of) ::::
Caning ::::
Catheterization ::::
Cells/Closets (locked inside of) ::::
Chastity belts ::::
Chaueffering ::::
Choking ::::
Clothespins ::::
Collars (worn in private) ::::
Collars (worn in public) ::::
Competitions (with other Subs) ::::
Corsets (wearing) ::::
Cuffs (leather) ::::
Cuffs (metal) ::::
Cutting ::::
Dilation ::::
Double penetration ::::
Electricity ::::
Enemas ::::
Enforced chastity ::::
Examinations (physical) ::::
Exercise (forced/required) ::::
Exhibitionism (friends) ::::
Exhibitionism (strangers) ::::
Eye contact restrictions ::::
Face slapping ::::
Fantasy abandonment ::::
Fantasy rape ::::
Fantasy gang-rape ::::
Fisting (anal) ::::
Fisting (vaginal) ::::
Following orders ::::
Foot worship ::::
Forced dressing ::::
Forced masturbation ::::
Forced nudity (private) ::::
Forced nudity (around others) ::::
Forced servitude ::::
Full head hoods ::::
Gags (cloth) ::::
Gags (rubber) ::::
Gags (tape) ::::
Genital sex ::::
Given away to another Domme (temp) ::::
Given away to another Domme (perm) ::::
Golden showers ::::
Hairbrush spankings ::::
Hair pulling ::::
Hand jobs (giving) ::::
Hand jobs (receiving) ::::
Harems (serving w/other subs) ::::
Harnessing (leather) ::::
Harnessing (rope) ::::
Having food chosen for you ::::
Having clothing chosen for you ::::
Head (giving fellatio) ::::
Head (receiving fellatio) ::::
High heel worship ::::
Homage with toungue (non-sexual) ::::
Hot oils (on genitals) ::::
Hot waxing ::::
Housework (doing) ::::
Human puppy dog ::::
Humiliation (private) ::::
Humiliation (public) ::::
Hypnotism ::::
Ice cubes ::::
Infantalism ::::
Initiation rites ::::
Injections ::::
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage::::
Interrogations ::::
Kidnapping ::::
Kneeling ::::
Leather clothing ::::
Leather restraints ::::
Lectures for misbehavior ::::
Licking (non-sexual) ::::
Manacles & Irons ::::
Manacures (giving) ::::
Massage (giving) ::::
Massage (receiving) ::::
Medical scenes ::::
Modeling for erotic photos ::::
Mouth bits ::::
Mummification ::::
Nipple clamps ::::
Nipple weights ::::
Oral/anal play (rimming) ::::
Over-the-knee spanking ::::
Orgasm denial ::::
Orgasm control ::::
Outdoor scenes ::::
Outdoor sex ::::
Phone sex (serving Domme) ::::
Phone sex (serving Domme's friends)::::
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce)::::
Piercing (permanant) ::::
Prison scenes ::::
Pony slave ::::
Public exposure ::::
Pussy/cock whipping ::::
Pussy worship ::::
Riding crops ::::
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.)::::
Rituals ::::
Religious scenes ::::
Restrictive rules on behavior ::::
Rubber/latex clothing ::::
Rope body harness ::::
Saran wrapping ::::
Scratching - getting ::::
Scratching - giving ::::
Sensory deprivation ::::
Serving ::::
Serving as art ::::
Serving as ashtray ::::
Serving as furniture ::::
Serving as a maid ::::
Serving as toilet ::::
Serving as waitress/waiter ::::
Serving orally (sexual) ::::
Serving other dommes (supervised) ::::
Serving other dommes (unsupervised)::::
Sexual deprivation (short term) ::::
Sexual deprivation (long term) ::::
Shaving (body hair) ::::
Shaving (head hair) ::::
Sleep deprivation ::::
Sleepsacks ::::
Slutty clothing (private) ::::
Slutty clothing (public) ::::
Spanking ::::
Spandex clothing ::::
Speech restrictions (when, what) ::::
Speculums (Anal) ::::
Speculums (vaginal) ::::
Spreader bars ::::
Standing in corner ::::
Stocks ::::
Straight jackets ::::
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on) ::::
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by) ::::
Strap-on-dildos (wearing) ::::
Strapping (full body beating) ::::
Suspension (upright) ::::
Suspension (inverted) ::::
Suspension (horizontal) ::::
Supplying new partners for Domme ::::
Swallowing semen ::::
Swallowing urine ::::
Swapping (with one other couple) ::::
Swinging (multiple couples) ::::
Tattooing ::::
Teasing ::::
Tickling ::::
Triple penetration ::::
Uniforms ::::
Including others ::::
Vaginal dildo ::::
Verbal humiliation ::::
Vibrator on genitals ::::
Voyeurism (watching others) ::::
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others) ::::
Video (watching others) ::::
Video (recordings of you) ::::
Water torture ::::
Wearing symbolic jewelery ::::
Whipping ::::
Wooden paddles ::::
Wrestling ::::
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