I was in Auckland in September 1999 and these are pictures of 2 of the nights I went out. The picture on the left was when I went out with Michelle, a really cool friend of mine up there. We went into a straight bar and played pool, it was fun because no one could get the table off us.
I am sure some of the guys were just leaving the ball in the middle of the table so I would have to lean over the table and as you can see the skirt was short.
The right hand one was 2 nights later and this time I was with my wife. We went into a gay bar and had a ball.  The worst part was that we were in a gay bar and she was the only one who got asked to dance, I don't know who should have been more offended me or her.

Another of my favourite outfit.

So now back to the story.
When my little secret came out a lot of things changed for me. Some people treated me the same but there were a few who I could tell were now very uncomfortable being around me, even to the point of not wanting to be in the same room alone with me. Another thing was that people made up there own stories about me, I heard that I was gay and that I was having an affair with someone (a man) from work. I was suppose to be leaving my job because of what had happened. It was just amazing what people were making.
After about 3 weeks things went quiet and I thought things were going to be ok, but then I got a call from one of the bosses who told me that there were 2 complaints about me, these 2 people wouldn't say who they were and had no foundation to what they were saying and I couldn't understand why they did it, but nothing was done about it as they wouldn't put it in writing (gutless is one thing that comes to mind) so I never found out who they were. Maybe one of them is you and now you are in here reading about what you complained about.

I hope you are not too bored reading all this. If not then move on to the next page.