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I am 36 years old, married and live in Hertfordshire, UK. We have three children of school age and have a reasonably happy marriage.
I am 5'8" tall, medium build, blue eyes and short blonde hair. I am not a Tom Cruise look-a-like, but don't consider myself ugly either.
I'm not keen on labels (heterosexual, bi-sexual etc) because just when the rules seem fixed, someone breaks them and doesn't 'fit'. The short answer is that I am bi-sexual. The longer answer follows.......
As I grew up, I considered myself to be heterosexual. Since about 12 years old I've worn womens undies - I go through phases, sometimes the desire is very great, at other times I've gone months without the desire.
About three years ago I started to think about Transsexuals and Transvestites in a sexual way, and this led me to discovering the bi-sexual part of myself. I have had a couple of experiences with other men and enjoyed them. My experiences so far have been oral, but I am looking to extend this experience when I can.
What am I looking for?
You could be:-
You MUST:-
What Do I Offer?
A clean, discreet, honest, what you see is what get sexual partner. I am willing, versatile and un-shockable. I am cautious at first (there's a lot to lose), but quickly learn to trust.
What Is Not On?
Please don't reply if you cannot accommodate daytimes, live too far away or cannot meet the other conditions. I will NOT under ANY circumstances:- accommodate, meet in motels, woods, car parks etc. Sexually I will try ANYTHING safe!
I have pictures available, but haven't posted any on this page - Geocities don't allow nudity and as I'm not ready to come out yet, so the pictures I am prepared to make public aren't worth showing. Email me, and when we get to know each other better I will send you some.
Please send me an email at herts@ndirect.co.uk if you think we could get together. If you just want to email, but can't meet, still write. I will answer all emails!