Some people tend to focus on thier GIFTS, that promotes good self image. Too much of that is a bad thing and EGO starts to take over.
Others focus on thier EQUALIZERS, that promotes low self esteme and in extreme cases loathing.
Get the balance right.
Its Italian, I often joke in chat that Grandpa Lost an I at Ellis Island. It is a true pun. Prior to his immigration the name was Stangstoni. He dropped the "I" to fit in better in his new country. Grandpa was lost during Korea. My Uncle died in Nam. And my father Lt. Commander Stangston Senior is MIA since I was 13. All NAVY men. Dad didnt disappear in the Line of duty. He divorced mom 8 years ago. After college I might join, if they get over this "dont ask, dont tell", phase they are currently stuck in. Being a navy brat I have been all over.
Disclaimer, all links with skulls infront and behind are not intended for mass consumption. Enter the twisted mind of Stangston