How to give a handjob...
The Masturbation Manual
One of the secrets of successful mutual masturbation is varying
your hand motions. Here are just a few techniques that are
indispensable:
Switch-Hitter
Use both hands, alternating back and forth in a pattern you
develop to offer him the most arousal. He will notice the
difference. Your less practised hand is more tentative, less firm.
He'll respond to that. But only temporarily. Don't get into a
routine where the strokes are dull and noncommittal; men like to
be handled firmly.
Double Whammy
Bring both well lubricated hands down on his shaft. Some penises
are so big they require two hands. If your partner's doesn't, then
use the other hand to caress and lightly flutter his testicles, or
tighten around the base of his shaft. If both hands fit along the
length of the shaft, move them together, up and down, in the
typical pumping motion. You can also vary the directions of your
hands, one up, one down at the same time.
The Anvil Stroke
Bring one hand down, letting it stroke the penis from the top
all the way to the bottom. When it hits the bottom release it.
Meanwhile you're bringing your corresponding hand down on the top
of the shaft, creating an alternating beating motion, hence the
name anvil stroke.
The Shuttle Cock
Take the penis in both hands, fingers lightly touching the
sides of the shaft. In order to visualise the positio, think of
yourself holding a clarinet. Now flick the penis back and forth
between your two hands by holding on to the loose skin of the
shaft. Shuttling it back and forth in this manner may not seem
incredibly thrilling to him at first, but pretty soon as it builds
up momentum, it will drive him out of his mind.
The Bookends
Place both of your hands side by side against his shaft like a
pair of bookends. Now push hard against his penis. Then lift your
hands up and down. Continue in this manner for a while. The
consant tugging on the skin around the balls and the mons pubis
will do the trick.
The Base Clutch
Tighten your thumb and forefinger around the base of the shaft,
pressing down on the testicles. This will help you steady the
shaft in your hand. If the skin on it is slick and smooth, you can
stroke the penis with more friction, thereby augmenting the
thrilling experience.
The Love Tug
As you are stroking him, lightly pull on the wispy strands of
pubic hair sprouting from his testicles. Don't pull so hard that
you remove them altogether - just tease them gently and lovingly.
The Two-Timer
Tickle his testicles with one hand while the other moves up and
down.
The Thigh Swatter
Use the hand that is currently unemployed to firmly but
lovingly pat his inner thighs.
Best Fist Forward
Place your fist against his perineum as you're stroking him.
He'll probably start opening his legs a little wider, giving you
more space to press against.
The Chestnuts
I call a man's nipples "chestnuts" because they are a primary
erogenous zone that happens to be located on his chest. Massage
one of his nipples while you masturbate him. Spin the little pink
and brown areole between your thumb and forefinger as if you were
trying to find a good station on the radio.
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Well, that's it - and remember, maturbation is one of the safest
forms of sex of all. It has also been suggested to be that placing
two penises on one condom and masturbating is pretty good too.
Best of luck on your new venture!