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 'Tis a cage you've got me in! Caged pieces of the puzzle

Yes, bondage is a puzzlement!
This page and the pages to follow are my guide for bondage. They are about the scariest part of bondage... Understanding
us
women! 		This is for the guys... Do you guys have ANY idea how caged up us women are? And i mean ALL the time too!
This is about bondage.
W O M E N !Hold cursor over each one to see what we are thinking........
i am sweet! i have parents! i wanna have kids! i wanna do CRAZY things with you!
i feel a bit awkward here. How do i talk to a bunch of guys about bondage? i do see a need though. Forgive a humble slave if she speaks out.
QUESTIONS?
We've got a little to talk about. We'll talk about what the girls are doing later, but for now let's just get some things out in the open.
i'm not going to give you hints about how to turn on a woman or how to talk her into doing some bondage with you. Maybe i'm going to complain a bit here, or put up some warnings. This is difficult for me to talk with you about...

i think i'll get in here - i feel safer. Here goes...

You have no better understanding of me than i have of you. Women and men are just alike, but not. There are some differences. i know we don't look alike, but the biggest difference is kind of a toss up between how we think as compaired to how you think, and the kind of life we live and the kind that you live. All in all it's quite different and also the same.

Clear as mud, huh?

Well i guess i don't have to describe all the differences and simularities between women and men - just the ones that have to deal with bondage. i can't speak for all women so i'm going to go with the assumption that i'm like most women (again this is something that is very true to a degree and false at the same time.)

There IS a lot to tell after all! My mind reals...

Ok, when i was a kid i had an interest in bondage - we didn't call it that back then, just cops and robbers, cowgirls and indians, kidnappers, and knights on white steads that came to your rescue. There was a certain something there, y'know? From the letters i get on the net i now know that guys go through the flip side of the same thing.

As adolescents guys go one way and we girls go another. Gender becomes an issue. We learn about cooking and putting on make up and dream about guys. You seem to learn about cars and football and talk about girls. i was led to believe that i needed to be sweet to meet a guy and i guess you all learned to be strong. i think that was what i wanted in a guy and what i thought a guy wanted in me. Words are hard to find. i was learning to be what a woman is and you were learning how to be men...

In the 70's and 80's the role of a woman wasn't what it is today. It was the 90's before it became ok to ask the guy out. What i had learned to do was to try to attract attract attract a guy that i liked and that wasn't done by being 'easy'. i could wear a short skirt, but not too short. i had to make sure that no one took me as a person "of easy virtue." You get the idea...

So i, like most women was pointed towards believing that the "true" way to win love was to be shy in matters involving sex, bedroom activities. College opened my eyes in more than one way. i was very much interested in sex and at the same time my desire to be tied up was demanding attention. Things almost came to a head until i discovered that i COULD have sex with guys without getting a bad reputation - all i had to do was be a little moderate. That kinda worked against doing any bondage and i really wished the desire would just leave.

"When you drive a Volkswagon you are surprised at how many there are on the road"

What ever kind of car you get it will surprise you that there are so many like yours on the road. Why? Because you look for them. You become Chevette conscious! i was bondage conscious! So i noticed all the little signs around me that this person seemed to act funny when ever something involving a tied up woman was involved or that person talked about it - favorably! Several cars in the parking lot had handcuffs hung over the rear view mirror - and they weren't enrolled for any police officer classes!

i noticed this stuff and eventually got to try out some of my favorite bondage fantasies. i was lucky!

Not all women are as lucky as i am. Some have never tried it. Some are still stuck believing all the stuff their parents taught them in the false belief that they were protecing their daughters.