This page is dedicated to my love or occassional lack of love for men. There will be poetry and pictures, statements and song lyrics. I might even tell you about my personal experiences with men. But that's ify at best. I'm shy you know....oh shut up. There are men who come and men who go. There are men that take your heart. Men who take your stuff. There are men that truley want to stay. Or at least that want to keep you. Sometimes they keep you too long and then hurt you. There are men that can't keep you, that don't want to throw you away but are honest enough to let you know that they aren't able to stay in your life. The ones that hurt the most are the honest ones that come into it wanting to keep you and then realise that they aren't ready for it. Those are the ones that grow from your love and then grow away from your love. The part that's the worst is that they let you know it. Oh yeah it can feel so good to know that someone is having a better life because your heart healed their life. But you hurt because they broke the thing that healed them. And you needed that.

I thought this guy was cute so I decied to put him on this page. Isn't he pretty! I thought you'd like it.

Friendship is constant in all other things save for the offices and affairs of love.

-I think its from Much Ado About Nothin'...Shakespear

I was just thinking that men tend to go through many partners/boyfriends/significant others quite often/quickly. Do you ever wonder why? I certainly do. Not that I'm totally free from that category. I mean I've had several boyfriends and lavoers in the past four years or so. I think it comes from several places. 1) The primal need to move and explore. Men just don't like becoming stagnant. 2) They have a difficult time sharing their emotions but want to feel secure. This translates into getting into relationships and then leaving whent they feel like they are needing someone. They move on to avoid having to feel needed but still get what they need. 3)They are just horny little buggers who have no self control or respect for the fact that they are hurting someone's feelings by just dropping their current boyfriend in order to have cheap meaningless sex with people that don't give a damn about them either. "How do we stop this?" you ask. Well for one thing teaching men that they are allowed to show how they feel is a good start. Teaching them that being happy in a relationship and sharing with someone else is perfectly natural and even rewarding could help. Not to mention teaching men to be honest with their significant others and themselves will help immensely. That way they won't get into a relationship unless they are ready for it and if somene wants into a relationship with them men will tell the other person if they can honestly handle a relationship. Allowing the other person to know what they are dealing with. This way a man will tell the potential suiter that they just want sex or friendship or a relationship before they get emotionally involved.

Fathers, Brothers, Uncles, Grandfathers, Cousins, Husbands, Friends, Sons, Employers, Employees, Enemies, Poloticians, Lawyers, Doctors, Construction Workers, Nurses, Students, Teachers, all things that men are. There's more but I didn't feel like typing any more... You know, men are really confusing. They say one thing and then do another. Maybe its because of that not expressing themselves thing. But I think that that its worth dealing with sometimes. Its not easy to figure them out, but I just can't stop thinking that one of these days I'll meet someone that is just honest and sharing enough for me not to be so confused by them. You know, someone who is just honest enough to let you know that you're doing something that bothers them they'll let you know in private in a direct way so that you can talk about it. That way they don't do those little hurtful jabbs in public settings. I think that if they could be open enough to share how they are feeling about the situations that they aren't happy with that men would have much better relationships. They would also have much happier parteners and friends and family. Not to mention the fact that they would get what they wanted more often thus leading to happier lives in general and probably longer ones at that too.

You know I've been thinking and I do believe that this page thus far has sort of dwelled on a rather bitter note. Well I do believ that, while there are very few things that I have missed, I haven't said what men are good for or what shouldn't be changed about them. For one thing men are really good for companionship; if they're just friends or more (sometimes its the case in friedship more often than the "more" situation. But yeah! They reall aren't all that bad if you really think about it there are only a few men that reall suck...in a bad way. Besides what are you gonna do? Lock yourself in your room and stay on the computer ranting and raving about everything and anyth....Never mind. Some men are descent people and I'm actually coming around to the fact that I know a lot of them...or at least a few of them. But why be greedy in a species has a lacking of descent men. Having a few in my life is good enough for me. Really all I need is one man who gives really good hugs...

Here are my latest thoughts on men inspired by the words of Poe.

Angry Johnny

Johnny, Angry Johnny, this is Jezebel in Hell I wanna kill you, I wanna blow you...away

I can do it you gently I can do it with an animal's grace I can do it with precision I can do it with gormet taste

Chorus: But either way Either (way), either way I wanna kill you I wanna blow you... Away

I can do it to your mind I can do it to your face I can do it with integrity I can do it with disgrace

Chorus

Johnny, Angry Johnny, this is Jezebel in Hell Johnny, Angry Johnny, this is Jezebel in Hell

I can do it in a church I can do it any time or place I can do it like an angel To quiet down your rage

Chorus

I can do it in the water I can do on dry land I can do it with instruments I can do it with my own bare hands

But either way Either way, you know where it stands I wanna kill you I wanna blow you... Away

Johnny, Angry Johnny, this is Jezebel in Hell Johnny, oh my Johnny

Where did your pleasure go When the pain came through you Where did your happiness go This force is running you around now Getting you down now Where is your pleasure now Johnny Where has your pleasure gone now

Johnny, Angry Johnny...

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