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My SM Activities

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Whips

I like to use both floggers (multi-tail whips such as a cat o'nine tails) and single tail whips such as signal whips (a signal whip is short - about 3' to 4' - single tail whip, sometimes called a sled dog whip). Whips can produce a wide range of effects, from a gentle caress to a heavy thud to a searing sting. I like to start very gently and build the intensity gradually.

Clothespins

A clothespin pinched onto the skin causes a tiny amount of pain, almost inconsequential. As more clothespins are applied the intensity increases. Some bottoms can build up to hundreds of clothespins. Removing them is as much fun as putting them on. (evil grin)

CBT

bottoms who think of their genitals only in terms of their own sexual pleasure are forgetting their other use: a nice sensitive area of the body for a Top to play with. While terms like "genitorture" are commonly used when referring to SM in this area, most players are aware that a little can go a long way. Teasing, tickling, and caressing are as much a part of genital play as pain. Some guys have "brass balls", and can take a lot of heavy play. Others have "glass balls", and can take very little. Whichever you are, it is a very special form of submission to expose your genitals for your Master's pleasure. By the way, I don't care what your dick size is.

Abrasion

I get more questions about abrasion than any other activity. People keep sending me messages asking, "What is abrasion?" Imagine being tied (or maybe just commanded to lie still) on a bed or table, then blindfolded. Next, I take objects with many different textures, from fur to pot scrubbers, and stroke, caress, rub, poke, and otherwise torment the surface of your skin. The purpose is not to break the skin, despite the name "abrasion". Rather it is to sensitise the skin. At the end of a long abrasion scene, even the warmth of a hand near but not touching the body can be felt in amplified form. Tickling is a very specialised form of abrasion. (And you thought you were not into SM?!)

Master/slave

This does not mean involuntary servitude. That was made illegal in Canada in 1834. I am talking here about voluntarily submitting yourself to my will. There are no two Master/slave relationships exactly alike, but all involve the slave giving the Master control over some aspect of their lives at certain points in time.

Daddy/boy

The word "boy" in the SM context does not mean a child, any more than "a night out with the boys" means a children's party. I only play with adults. Daddy/boy SM relationships are similar to Master/slave, except that there is more affection involved. Also, a boy can be somewhat more assertive, and may have more privileges than a slave. For example, the last boys I had were allowed to sit on furniture in my home; my slave was not.

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