But sometimes let's face it, very few people not even us ourselves can do to the state that is being mentioned above. I believe that a friend is good enough as long as he or she qualifies for 70% of the above. Let's learn to give and take as I am myself and this will allow us to be happier people ourselves.

On a more quiet note, friendships between opposite genders is a controversy matter. Is there really such a thing as plutonic friendship? Or it might be, initially and end up with feelings of love and liking. What would you do if a girl or guy who has been your good friend for over a year comes in and tells you that she or he has been liking you for sometime? What would be your initial response especially when you treat her or him as a good friend all the time and has never seen her as the opposite sex. Will the friendship come to an end? Or will you try to give a chance for the "thing" to happen?

What if you know that it will never happen? Plutonic relationships have happened plentifully in many people's lifetime. Whether it develops is a very unpredictable thing. The best relationships start from friendships and slowly develop. Lucky, it may develop to brotherly, sisterly feelings. Yet being such confused creatures as we are, we might misinterpret our feelings and end up thinking that it is True Love between couples. What should be done then? I have no idea too.

But definitely, friendship is the best relationship to start with and develop from. For a parent to get close to the children, it is often the case of :"My child treats me as a close friend." Wouldn't that be the best? To have a close friend that would be MOST unlikely to hurt you or harm you. Perhaps if that is the case for everyone, the world would be a better place.

Definitely, the way to break and build a person is definitely through friendship....

The Comedy show Friends' theme song.

LINKS TO MY FRIEND'S PAGES.

My Church Friend James' homepage on Chatting

My Church Friend - Jonathan's site on Games, Midi, Scouts Currently not working

My Neighbor Grace's very Adorable Homepage.

Daniel C. K. Tan's Home Site

More stuff will be coming in...