To Die With Honor
In THE CATCHER IN THE RYE, the author, J.D.
Salinger, has one of his characters, Mr. Antolini, say, "The the
mark of the immature man is that he wants to die nobly for a cause, while
the mark of the mature man is that he want to live humbly for one."
This was actually written by Wilhelm Stekel, a psychoanalyst. People often
"die nobly for a cause" because they want fame, or because they
want to be remembered, or even because they don't want to labor to reach
their goal.
Many people are willing to die for the cause
they're defending. During the war, many young men are asked to become
soldiers. They know that many of them won't come back. Yet they go. Why?
Because it is an honor to die for their country. Wouldn't it have been
better if they had worked for peace instead of fighting? Maybe not. Maybe
it would have made the situation worse. But those people didn't understand
that most of the great victories have been achieved far from the lines
of battle, by individuals who only wanted to make mankind's future a little
better. You don't make a country better by dying, you can only make it
worse because people are sad that you died. But you can make your country
better if you try to make the future better, by doing small gestures every
day.
Some people found that they were
mature enough to work in the shadows. Galileo Galilei discovered that
the Earth was not the center of the Universe. But this was against the
Church's vision of the world, and they thought that they would lose their
control over the population if it was known that they had been wrong.
So they forced Galileo to make a public declaration that what he had discovered
was not true, and they kept him away from the world for the rest of his
life, under constant scrutiny. Galileo was afraid of torture, and he was
afraid of death, so he didn't want to die nobly for his cause, but he
finished his book, the "Discorsi", that told the world of what
he had discovered, while in the Church's custody and managed to get it
published, out of the country. He accomplished more in living humbly than
if he had been condemned to death by the inquisitor.
Most people want to be famous,
and many want to be famous in order to be remembered after their death.
What better way to be remembered than to die for a great cause. People
will admire your sacrifice and devotion. It is easy to be admired, but
it is hard to really change things and to be modest. It's very hard to
sacrifice fame in order to make something progress. It takes a lot of
maturity to decide not to be famous, to work backstage and do whatever
is necessary to reach your goal. Most of the people who did a lot of good
did it in silence. Mother Theresa is a good example. She didn't want to
be famous, she didn't shout "Wake up, people are suffering here!"
on the market place until policemen came and made a spectacular arrestation
for disturbing the peace, and hope that it would make someone realize
that there were people that needed help. She went on the streets, with
what little means she had, and did a lot of good by living humbly and
simply.
Mr. Antolini said, "The whole arrangement's
designed for men who, at some time or other in their lives were looking
for something their own environment couldn't supply them with. Or they thought
their own environment couldn't supply them with. So they gave up looking.
They gave it up before they ever really even got started." (p.187)
Those people gave up looking for a way to change things or find what they
were looking for when they decided to die for what they were looking for,
instead of working to try to find it. It takes a lot of maturity to accept
to look wihout finding, without getting discouraged. Those people followed
what their environment had to offer, without trying to make it produce more
or offer more.
To "live humbly for a cause"
may be harder than to "die nobly" for one, but it is the way
most of the people who made a lot of good chose, even if it meant that
they wouldn't be famous or remembered. In the end, we admire them more
than those who chose to die. Giving your life for a cause doesn't mean
to die for it. It means working hard, maybe sacrificing a way of life
you could have had. In a way, it means giving your life, because you change
the way you're living, but isn't it worth the sacrifice to know that you
succeeded in making things just a little better?
Essay written for my English course
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