Dear Sister C: If God in His providence
has established a school among our own people in -----, and if
in place of sending your daughter where she would be in the society
and under the influence of those who love the truth, you place
her in ----- Seminary, where she will be associated with a worldly
class who have no respect for God or His law, I ask you how you
expect the Lord will work to counteract the evil influence that
must surround her and which you have voluntarily chosen. Will
He commission His angels to do the work which He has left for
you to do? God does not work in that way; He expects us to follow
the light He has given in His word.
When God was about to smite the first-born
of Egypt, He commanded the Israelites to gather their children
from among the Egyptians into their own dwellings and strike
their door posts with blood, that the destroying angel might
see it and pass over their homes. It was the work of parents
to gather in their children. This is your work, this is my work,
and the work of every mother who believes the truth. The angel
is to place a mark upon the forehead of all who are separated
from sin and sinners, and the destroying angel will follow, to
slay utterly both old and young.
God is not pleased with our inattention
and trifling with His blessings placed within our reach. Neither
is He pleased to have us place our children in worldly society,
because this best suits their tastes
and inclinations. If the souls of your children are saved, you
must do your work with fidelity. God has not been wholly pleased
with your course in regard to worldly associations, and now the
peril is revealed. You have also encouraged the reading of storybooks;
these, and papers with continued stories, lying upon your table,
have educated the taste of your daughter until she is a mental
inebriate and needs a stronger power, a firmer will than her
own, to control her.
The enemy has had his way with your daughter
until his toils have bound her about like bands of steel, and
it will require a strong, persevering effort to save her soul.
If you have success in this case, there must be no halfway work.
The habits of years cannot easily be broken. She should be placed
where a steady, firm, abiding influence is constantly exercised.
I would advise you to put her in the college at -----; let her
have the discipline of the boardinghouse. It is where she ought
to have been years ago. The boardinghouse is conducted upon a
plan that makes it a good home. This home may not suit the inclinations
of some, but it is because they have been educated to false theories,
to self-indulgence and self-gratification, and all their habits
and customs have been in a wrong channel. But, my dear sister,
we are nearing the end of time, and we want now, not to meet
the world's tastes and practices, but to meet the mind of God;
to see what saith the Scriptures, and then to walk according
to the light which God has given us. Our inclinations, our customs
and practices, are not to have the preference. God's word is
our standard.
So far as your daughter's health is concerned,
right habits will secure to her health, while wrong habits will
ruin her for this life and for the future, immortal life. There
is a heaven to gain, a perdition to shun; and when you in the
fear of God have done all that you can do on your part, then
you may expect that the Lord will do His part.
Decisive action now may save a soul from death.
Your daughter needs a strong influence
to counteract that of the society she loves. It will take just
as decided efforts to cure her of this mental disorder as it
does to cure the drunkard of his craving for liquor. You have
a work to do which no other can do for you, and will you fail
to do it? Will you in the name of the Lord deal with your child
as with a soul in danger of eternal ruin? Were she a girl who
loved God, one who could exercise self-control, her peril would
not be so great. But she does not love to think of God, of her
duty, or of heaven. She persists in having her own way. She does
not daily seek strength from God, that she may resist temptation.
Will you, then, place her in connection with influences calculated
to lead her thoughts away from God, away from the truth, and
from righteousness? If so, you place her on the enemy's battleground,
with no strength to resist his power or to over come his temptations.
If she were situated where there were heavenly
and divine influences, her moral sensibilities, which are now
paralyzed, might be aroused, and her thoughts and purposes, by
the blessing of God, might be changed to flow in the heavenly
channel, and she be restored. But she is now in danger through
inward corruption and outward temptation. Satan is playing the
game of life for her soul, and he has every advantage for winning
the game.
In my dreams I have been talking to you
as I have here written. My heart yearns over you with intensity.
Trying as your case now is, do not despond. You need cheerfulness
and decision. Seek for help from God. God is your friend. You
are never alone. The Bible is your counselor. It is a light to
them who are in darkness. Be steadfast in the hour of trial,
for you will have new trials to meet. But cling to Jesus, and
make Him your strength.