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Unaccompanied Spouses

"The Unofficial" Guide to KOREA

Current as of May 1998


Hello from the "Land of the Morning Calm." If you're reading this, your spouse has probably either received orders for Korea or is expecting them. Well, lucky for you, I have the information you need to decide for yourself whether or not to go. Coming to Korea unaccompanied has it's share of frustrations and difficulties, but I can take the guess work out of the process for you. If you decide to come, not only will you be with your spouse, but you will also find a lot of support and be able to offer support during a very challenging time in your spouse's life and career. Being here is an experience you will never forget. The key to a successful tour here in Korea is to get involved and venture out. (The shopping in Korea is fabulous!) This site has been put together by me, a spouse in Korea, containing the things you should think about before coming to live in Korea, and it has the information you need to make the best of your tour here. If you have any questions, please e-mail me, I'd love to hear from you! This was developed in the fall/winter of 1997-98. My tour in Korea ended in May '98.

Good Luck!

If you'd like to get in touch with me, you can reach me at sesa@aol.com

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GETTING READY

"… for whither thou goest, I will go…"

Ruth 1:16

ON YOUR MARK…

The Army Community Services (ACS) Relocation Office is a great place to start researching your next tour. There you can order a Welcome packet, and many ACS offices have videos about Korea and other overseas assignments.

If the time draws closer and your spouse has still not heard from his/her sponsor in Korea, they can contact the gaining unit and request a sponsor.

Look for travel guides in discount bookstores. The AAFES Book Marks carry many titles, but selections of Korean guide books can be scarce. Language translation books are hard to come by also. The Book Marks also rarely offer discounts on books.

GET SET…

With any move there are many details to handle in advance. Here are a few of the things we have thought of to help you with pre-move packing:

Address book - Pack this in your carry-on luggage. Don't forget to copy all the Yellow Page address you usually use at home, doctor's addresses, or former school addresses, these will come in handy. (Also, you never know if you'll be stranded in an airport for a few hours, and you'll have all the addresses you need to send off postcards.)

Employment Records - If you plan to find employment you will need your employment records and a resume. There are a few employment opportunities. (See "Employment" later in the packet.)

Eye Exam - If you wear glasses or contact lenses bring your prescription with you! If you wear contacts get your eye exam before you leave the States! The eye doctors here can not fit the lenses for you. They can update your prescription, but can not fit the lenses. You may also have to buy the lenses on the Korean economy. Many people who wear the disposable type leave a copy of their prescription with family in the States and have them mail the new lenses to Korea for them. Many long-term wears of contacts find that due to the high level of air pollution they are unable to wear their lenses. Regular eye glasses are very inexpensive in Seoul, so a good prescription can get you what ever you like.

Immunizations - It is not required for adult family member to get any shots prior to arriving in country, however check with your immunization clinic for a list of recommend shots. Start early, the Hepatitis B shots take six months to complete the series. The immunizations clinic can give you a list of the recommended shots.

Insurance - Check with your insurance companies to make sure they cover you living abroad. Proper insurance of your household goods (renter's policy) and for your automobile while you are in Korea is essential and will make for less headaches when you return or if something happens.

Legal Documents - Make sure you had carry these items with you to ensure they are not misplaced. Bring documents such as birth certificates, marriage licenses, wills, divorce decrees, adoption papers, etc. If you choose not to bring some of these, make sure they are in a safe place, where someone in the States can get to them; maybe left with a parent and not in storage with your household goods.

Mail - Be sure you fill out a change of address form before you leave. The mail system here takes a little longer to go through.

Medical Records - Make sure your records are up to date. Have your International Certificate of Vaccination (you can get this from Immunizations if you do not have one) with you when you go through Customs and Immigration.

Orders - Always have copies of your spouse's orders. You will need these at Korean Immigration in Kimpo Airport. You will not see your spouse until after you clear immigration and customs so have these with you before you leave the States.

Passport/Visa - These are clearly vital items. The government will only provide free passports to command sponsored dependents, otherwise you need to pay for it your self. You must have an A-3 Visa or a 9-3 Visa. (see Passports/Visas later in this packet for more information.)

Pets - Many people choose to bring their pets with them to Korea, however there are VERY specific rules and restrictions that must be followed. For current information contact your local veterinarian, or US Department of Agriculture's Animal and Plant Health Inspection Service (APHIS) in your state. A federal certificates of examination is required. Along with the necessary paperwork to get your animal to Korea, you must also arrange for transportation. This can be very expensive, as much as $500 for airfare. (Call and ask detailed questions ahead of time from the airline and have the pets weight and size of carrier on hand when you call) If you plan to have the animal fly on the same aircraft as you, be sure to plan ahead and make arrangements with the airline at the time your flight plans are made. I strongly recommend you to check with your Stateside veterinarian about an immunization for "Kennel Cough" before you leave the States. The Republic of Korea does have a 10 day quarantine for all animals arriving by air freight. The per day cost of this depends on the size of your pet, up to $30 per day. You will need 1. a Certificate of Excess Baggage or Bill of Lading for animals arriving by air freight, 2. a copy of the Health Certificate no more than 10 days old, 3. a copy of the owner's military orders, 4. proof of identification, and 5. a Power of Attorney if you are acting as the owner's representative. After clearing customs at Kimpo Airport, the animal will be transported, at the owner's expense to the National Quarantine Facility for up to 24 hours. From there it will be moved, at the owner's expense to the Yongsan Quarantine Facility. There is a per day charge for this boarding included with the cost of the quarantine. In order to have it moved to the on-post quarantine facility at Yongsan you must go to the Yongsan Pet Care Facility within 24 hours of arriving and fill out the necessary paperwork. You can go and visit your pet during visitation hours at the Yongsan Pet Care Facility.

Power of Attorney - You will be an expensive 17 hour flight from the East coast. Remember to leave someone you trust a Power of Attorney to handle your affairs while you are away. It is also recommended that you have a power of attorney for your spouse. They will be in the field often and you will need it.

GO!!

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HOUSING
"When the MacArthurs arrived at Fort Wingate, Arizona, Mary MacArthur found 'the cramped quarters offered little privacy, and few were the luxuries that women love and find so necessary to their morale. The primitive adobe buildings, the worn pieces of furniture, the patched dresses, the dust from the drill ground which crept into every nook of the quarters - such depressing sights must have made her feel she was trapped at the far edge of nowhere.'"

From The Years of MacArthur , by Clayton James


WHAT'S AVAILABLE

Whether or not you are permitted to live on-post is at the discretion of the installation commander. Don't arrive and expect to live on post because it is sometimes rare. Also, while most soldiers get permission to live off post with their spouse, some actually must live on post while their spouses live off post. This is at the discretion of the commander. Be prepared for this possibility. In most cases, you will live on the Korean economy. Apartments available near the posts in 2ID range from tiny one-room studios, with no indoor bathroom or indoor plumbing, to three bedrooms with complete indoor plumbing. Most apartments do not have bathtubs or stoves, and some have no air-conditioning. Some posts, especially smaller ones, have very minimal housing only. Camp Casey, the biggest post in 2ID, has a lot of off post housing available. Most spouses say they did not have a lot of trouble finding housing, although some are living in sub-standard housing. Korean standards of living are very different from American. I recommend your spouse arrive before you, check things out and make arrangements for housing before you fly over.

RENT AND UTILITIES

Rent begins at under $200 a month and can get as high as $1000 a month. You will also have to pay for phone, (putting down a $200-$300 deposit), water, electricity, kerosene and oil (used for heat and hot water in many places). People pay an average of $50 a month for these expenses, and up to double in the winter. Many apartments require a large "key deposit," which is typically refunded when you leave. Key deposits can range from a few hundred dollars to a few thousand dollars. If the key deposit is large, usually rent is low. Often you can negotiate with the landlord to pay a reduced and sometimes no key deposit. I have what I consider to be one of the "nicer" ville apartments and I pay 450,000 won a month which come out to be around $300-$400 depending on the won rate.

CONVERTING POWER

Apartments off post require converters to change the Korean 220 volts to the American 110 volts. Generally, you will need large converters (about shoebox size) for most appliances - the small voltage converter kits sold in luggage stores and Wal-Mart type stores will only work with small appliances. The large converters can be bought from other spouses or on the Korean economy, and cost about $40 new. Most people are able to buy used converters from leaving spouses. Sometimes the local ACS (Army Community Services) Lending Closet has converters you can borrow.

AMENITIES

Most apartments do not have air conditioning, so you might want to buy a one once you get here, or at least a fan. Korean summers are very hot and humid!! Some places may be furnished, especially if another military family lived there before you. If the apartment is not furnished, you can find inexpensive furniture on the economy, from the thrift store in Yongson Garrison, and from other spouses. Most people have no problem finding inexpensive furniture from others who are leaving. Some spouses recommend bringing furniture over, such as an air mattress, folding card table, and chairs. However, if you are non-command sponsored, you already know that your spouse cannot ship much to Korea. Shipping furniture out of your own pocket may be more expensive than picking up something cheap once you get here. The best thing is to just be prepared to live with as little as you can throughout the year. It sounds a lot harder than it is. Something else to look into, is getting a small household goods shipment sent with your spouse. They will need to make arrangements for it when they make the arrangements for their hold baggage. It can give you up to an extra 1,000 pounds.

The good news is that some posts have a Pear Blossom Cottage for spouses and families to use. They all have washers and dryers, and other creature comforts (see below).

FINDING AN APARTMENT

Finding an apartment is relatively easy near the larger posts. However, in some of the smaller places appropriate housing may not be available. Some spouses come here directly with their soldier-spouses. This sometimes works, but is a risk. If your spouse has a room to himself or herself on post, then you are usually allowed to stay for up to thirty days with them. However, this is not always the case and you may get here and discover that you have no place to stay. Call ahead to find out what the housing will be like. If possible, have your husband or wife find an apartment before you arrive in country. They can ask around to see if anyone else has their family in Korea, or if someone knows of a room for rent. Most posts have a few Korean dependents living on the economy; they may be able to help you communicate with the Korean landlords and help you find an apartment. And ask around, many people will be happy to recommend their landlords to you.

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GOVERNMENT SERVICES

AVAILABLE TO

NON-COMMAND SPONSORED SPOUSES

"Bloom where you're planted!"

Anonymous

POST EXCHANGES

The largest PX in 2ID is at Camp Casey. Other posts have small PXs that are more like mini-marts and sell only the most basic items. Most people travel to Yongsan (in Seoul - about two hours from most 2ID camps) to shop at the PX there, which is larger and more like what you are used to seeing in the States.

COMMISSARIES

Again, the main commissary for the area is at Camp Casey. Some of the other installations have very small commissaries, which can order items for you from the larger store. The commissary in Yongsan is huge and carries just about everything. At Camp Stanley the commissary is small and has only three isles, but it has most of the necessities. Some of the smaller posts do not even have a commissary, they must travel to Stanley, Casey or Yongsan for one.

MEDICAL AND DENTAL

Dependents can use the medical and dental services in Korea, but usually only on a space-available basis. You won't have any trouble seeing a doctor when you need to, or getting prescriptions filled. Scheduling regular check-ups or non-emergency appointments usually requires a wait of at least a week or two. All posts have a small health clinic, but the smaller posts usually do not allow spouses to use these clinics unless it is an emergency. Therefore, you will likely have to travel an hour or so to the larger posts for regular medical and dental needs.

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SCHOOLS

Non-command sponsored spouses bringing their children to Korea have three basic schooling options:

DOD SCHOOLS (YONGSAN)

NCS families are put on a waiting list for spaces in these schools and the wait can be very long. Even if a child gets into a school at Yongsan, the commute can be very long. For example, from Camp Casey, the ride is over two hours each way. Although military buses do travel to and from some posts to Yongsan, they often do not run at convenient times and children must take the Korean bus system. Families using the DOD schools in Korea report that the quality of education is high, but do not count on getting in if you are non-command sponsored.

PRIVATE ENGLISH SPEAKING SCHOOLS

There are several of these schools in the 2ID area. Two popular ones re located in Tongduchon, right outside Camp Casey. The Indianhead School is an elementary school (address USAG Unit 15541, APO AP 96224-0453) which cost about $200 a month. International Christian Schools has locations near Camp Casey, Uijongbu (Camp Stanley and Camp Red Cloud) and in Seoul. They cost between $150-$200 a month, depending on your child's grade. Families using private schools in Korea report that the quality of education is usually mediocre.

HOME SCHOOLING

This is another option. If you are interested in home schooling your children, you should get information about it before you leave the States, probably from your local board of education. Failing to learn the proper procedures and curriculum for home schooling may result in your child's education falling behind by a year. Many families however, are happy and successfully home schooling in Korea!

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EMPLOYMENT AND VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES
"One can never pay in gratitude; one can only pay 'in kind' somewhere else in life."

Ann Morrow Lindburgh

Finding a job in Korea is not easy, and takes preparation and persistence. It is especially difficult to find good-paying jobs, and many people must settle for lower-paying jobs than they would normally accept. The best way to get a good job is to do research before coming over, and possibly apply for jobs from the States.

CIVILIAN PERSONNEL OFFICE (CPO)

The CPO is a source of government jobs for civilians. Applicants usually must submit an SF171 or other employment form, often with school transcripts and a resume. The system is usually a few months behind, so getting a job this way can be a lengthy process. Applying for jobs through the CPO is something you can do before you leave the States. You can contact your local CPO for more information.

CONTRACTING POSITIONS (CCK)

There are several contracting jobs available for dependents in Korea. Army Community Services (ACS) often has positions available, including Pear Blossom Cottage manager jobs. CCK is separate from CPO and requires a slightly different application. The process is a lot faster, so you can usually be hired in a few weeks. Once you get to Korea, you can call the CCK and request job listings, or go to any ACS office for the listings.

OUTSIDE COMPANIES

There are several companies in Korea that hire Americans. It is best to research these before coming over; there are many good books in the library that can help. You can also look up Korean branches of American companies on the Internet.

TEACHING ENGLISH

There are many jobs available teaching English at schools, but a lot of wives have complained about the conditions. If you are interested in teaching at a school, there are several companies in the US that can help you get a job before you arrive or you can contact the schools as soon as you arrive. You can also teach English to private students. Finding private students can be difficult if you live near a smaller installation. The English language newspapers, the Korean Herald and the Korean Times, frequently carry job advertisements. It is important to remember when you respond to these to use a local post office so that your correspondence is not delayed. Also, make sure you check with Legal Aid to make sure your teaching is legal; some teaching should be avoided and can possibly cause you to be deported. NOTE: If you accept employment on the Korean economy, you may have to obtain a work visa and forfeit your SOFA status. Check the pros and cons carefully before accepting any position. All in all, teaching English can be a good opportunity to make money and learn about Korea. Legal Aid can give you more information.

VOLUNTEER POSITIONS

These are readily available, even on smaller posts. Once you register with ACS, you can volunteer pretty much wherever you want. Some of the options are AFTB, the Red Cross, the USO, ACS, the Recreation Centers, Pear Blossom Cottages and much more! Some volunteer programs offer training, and some can lead to a paying job either in Korea or once you get back home. Volunteers are welcomed at every post for the contributions they make to the Army Community.

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ITEMS OF INTEREST &

HELPFUL HINTS
"…every Citizen who enjoys the protection of a free Government,

owes…his personal service to the defense of it…"

George Washington


BANKING/ CHECK CASHING: NationsBank (operating under the name Community Bank) operates the banking facilities on all military posts and bases in Korea. They offer full service banking, to include an automatic teller and won conversion. Many people who open checking accounts here may also elect to keep their checking accounts at a US bank or credit union since cashing checks is really not a problem. You can cash a check for up to $500 on a US account, or more with the manager's approval.

Checks can also be cashed at the PX ($150) and at the various clubs if you are a member.

HAND OVER HEART: When the National Anthem is played outdoors and the flag is displayed, place your rights hand over your heart and face the flag. Indoors, it is not necessary to put your hand over your heart. When the American flag passes in front of you at a parade or review, you may place your hand over your heart. During Reveille and Retreat you should also stand quietly, facing the flag, with your hand over your heart.

JUDGE ADVOCATE GENERAL: Get a Power of Attorney and draw up your will as soon as possible. This service is free and very helpful.

MILITARY ID CARDS: Always carry your ID card with you in a secure place. You will need it for almost every service on post, and to re-enter post.

NEO PACKET: Noncombatant Evacuation Operation (NEO) is the very important save-your-life evacuation program for dependents. You will need to fill out some forms in your NEO Packet and register with your spouse's unit NEO warden within two weeks of your arrival. This is your responsibility to do. It is your responsibility to remain in contact with the NEO warden, be sure the NEO warden has current information, know the locations of assembly points and to participate in the NEO drills. Participation in NEO exercises is mandatory.

PASSPORT
: If you do not already have one, you need to get a passport before coming to Korea. It can take up to two months for a passport application to be processed, so plan ahead. You can go the Post Office to receive an application. The cost is $65 for an adult passport valid for ten years. If you get into a rush and need to get your passport soon, you can pay an extra fee, around $60 extra, and have it expressed to you. You will also need a visa and a SOFA stamp (see below).

PUBLIC TRANSPORTATION: Public transportation in Korea is very good. Buses run often and are cheap (under $1). The subway system is clean, safe and easily accessible. Military buses run from every post, but most do not run very often. Most military buses are free, but the longer routes cost from $3-$5. Usually you can get anywhere you need to by using the Korean bus and subway system.

RATION CONTROL PLATE (RCP): In Korea, dependents need a ration control plate to get into and make a purchases at the PX, commissary, and other AAFES facilities. You will need to visit the RCP office on your post and bring a copy of your marriage certificate and your husband's orders. Your spouse will also have to sign the form they give you. It is a very easy process. The RCP office will give you a temporary card until your permanent one arrives. You must turn your card in before you leave Korea. You should also know that NCS dependents have limits on what they can buy. Dependents cannot buy alcohol and are restricted from a few ration-controlled items. There is also a limit on the amount of goods a family can buy at the commissary in a month. Currently the limit is $350 for a family of one. Some posts do not increase the ration amount for non-command sponsored families. Major purchases (i.e., stereos, TVs, VCRs) made at the PX are tracked to make sure you take the item with you when you leave. Black marketing is a large problem in Korea, and steps are continuously being taken to reduce the problem.

SOFA (Status of Forces Agreement): This is a stamp on your passport that is required of all military dependents. Again, your local ACS can assist you with receiving this. Make sure you have it done as soon as you arrive. You should also get a SOFA card from your spouse's unit. Keep this card with your passport; it can be used in case you get in trouble while in Korea. It requires the Korean authorities to turn you over to the US military. If you do not receive this stamp after arrival, you can be deported; so be punctual.

SPONSOR'S SOCIAL SECURITY NUMBER: This information will be asked for constantly. "Last four" refers to the last four digits in your sponsor's social security number.

VEHICLES: NCS spouses in 2ID are generally not allowed to have cars. Soldiers in this area cannot have cars either. Some jobs allow dependents to get cars. To get a driver's license, you can visit the appropriate agent on your post or at Yongsan or Casey, or you can get a Korean license. In some places, it is difficult and time-consuming to get a license. If you are thinking about getting a license, remember that in Korea all individuals operating motor vehicles are subject to Korean traffic laws (American laws while driving on post). This can mean that even if you are not at fault in an accident, you can end up paying a lot of money. Also, traffic in Korea can be bad and driving can be dangerous, especially in Seoul. Most spouses and soldier in 2ID do not have cars.

VISA: Everyone who comes to Korea needs a visa. You can get a visa before you leave the US, or you can get one once you arrive in Korea. If you have time while you are in the US, get one through the Korean Embassy - there is no cost if you give them a copy of your spouse's orders. This kind of visa (A-3) is good for five years and is a multiple re-entry visa. Meaning you can leave and return to Korea as much as you want within the five years without renewing your visa. You can get a 90-day tourist visa from any Korean Embassy in the US. If you arrive in Korea without a visa, you will be given a 15-day visa at the airport. You then need to go to ACS and apply for a longer visa; usually valid until your spouse leaves Korea. Make sure that you apply for the multiple re-entry visa.

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TRANSPORTATION

Bring comfortable walking shoes, because your feet will be your number one means of transportation while in Korea.


ON POST

Shuttle Bus - Some of the larger posts have a free shuttle bus provided primarily for the convenience o active duty personnel.

AAFES Taxis - A few of the posts have AAFES taxi service available. This is available to ID card holders. AAFES taxis are the only taxis permitted on post. Most of the drivers speak some English and US dollars are accepted. The cost of these taxis is determined by mileage and time, a meter is used.

Military Buses - A bus system referred to as the Myung Jin offers shuttle service between the posts. There is a fare for some of the locations.

OFF POST

Local Taxis - These are medium sized cabs, usually gray or white in color and recognizable by a blue sign on the roof. Hold on and use your seat belt. These drivers tend to dart in and out of traffic at high rates of speed. They are usually quite reliable though, as long as you know where you are going, and knowing it in Korean (or having someone write it out in Han-gul) is helpful. Be advised that Koreans typically do not use a meter for fares, so find out in advance the cost. Usually cab drivers only accept Won. As a Westerner it can be difficult to hail a taxi after dark, so give yourself plenty of time.

Deluxe Taxis - The somewhat larger taxis, seen in the city that are black with a yellow sign on the roof , are more expensive. Make sure you decide on a price before you get into the taxi.

Tips for traveling by taxi - Tipping cab drivers is not necessary, unless they help with bags, groceries, luggage, etc. Local taxis are not permitted on post. As of 1993, it is necessary to add a word of caution for foreigners, especially women, about potential problems with local taxi drivers. It is recommended to travel with a companion, and not to travel late at night. If you feel you are not traveling in the right direction or you feel uncomfortable with the driver, make him stop and GET OUT OF THE CAB!

City Buses - Korea is served by an excellent bus system. The buses are plainly numbered and run frequently. The fare is cheap, but the buses are often very crowded.

Subway - Korea has an extensive subway system connecting most of the peninsula easily. The fare is reasonable, as low as 400 Won (about 50 cents) for a ticket. You simply go to the ticket window and state you destination and pay the given amount. Be aware, Koreans do not know the meaning of waiting in line. They will push and shove and step in front of you if you do not pay attention. After you go through the turnstile save you ticket. DO NOT DESTROY OR LOSE YOUR TICKET BECAUSE YOU WILL TURN IT IN AT THE TURNSTILE AT YOUR DESTINATION. Carry a map with you so you do not miss your stop. The stops are all identified in both Han-gul and English, and some trains have an announcer to tell you where you are.

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JOIN IN THE FUN
"The cultivation of friendships is perhaps the most worth-while thing you can do."

Eleanor Roosevelt

2ID SPOUSES GROUP: The third Wednesday of each month the spouses of 2ID meet at 1900 in Yongasan. This meeting is a great way to meet people from other areas of 2ID and receive valuable information.

AMERICAN RED CROSS: Volunteers are always need to staff hospital positions; CPR classes, and caseworker positions. The Red Cross also offers classes in CPR, First Aid, disaster training and more!

AMERICAN WOMEN'S CLUB (AWC): Regular membership is open to all US citizens and associate membership to all other persons. Annual dues are currently $25. Monthly coffees are held each month at the Seoul Club, which is off post near Yongsan Garrison. AWC provides many social and cultural activities and also operates The Thrift Shop (Bldg. 4289, Tel. 738-5181) on Camp Coiner. The proceeds are used to support AWC charities in both the American and Korean communities. AWC also publishes ARIRANG, an outstanding quarterly magazine containing articles on Korea and other Asian countries. For more information call the American Embassy: 397-4114 or check the English speaking newspapers.

ARMY COMMUNITY SERVICES (ACS): Army Community Services has something for everyone. Among the programs offered are the lending closet, a Newcomer's Welcome Packet, Army Emergency Relief, financial management classes, information and referral services, employment information, family advocacy, and assistance in obtaining a SOFA stamp. Volunteers are always welcome.

ARTS & CRAFTS CENTER: Various posts offers Arts & Crafts Centers whose services include a ceramic shop, where you pour, paint and fire your own pieces. The woodworking shops have a variety of equipment to complete your projects. The photography shop lets you develop your own pictures and learn to take better snapshots. The Moyer Arts & Crafts Center in Yongsan also offers painting, matting and framing, and "fantasy fotoes" -- fabric art drawing, leather crafts, flea markets, helium balloon services for special occasions, flower arranging classes, calligraphy and a variety of other classes.

ENLISTED WIVES' CLUB: Located in Yongsan, the EWC is open to all military branches. E-1 through E-9. This group meets monthly in Building 1682 on Main Post, Yongsan for business and social functions. For more information contact the Yongsan ACS, Tel. 725-5022.

FOCUS (Foreigners' Community Service): A non-profit community service organization founded to assist foreign residents living in Korea and to offer a professional counseling service. Services include monthly forums on life in Korea, printed materials, and a referral service. FOCUS currently operates out of the International Lutheran Church in Hannam-Dong, 798-7529.

PEAR BLOSSOM COTTAGES: The cottages, located at Camp Casey, Camp Howze, Camp Gary Owen, Camp Page and Camp Stanley, invite the spouses and children to visit. The cottages are an American-style home with a kitchen, living room, laundry room, playground, picnic area and much more! At the cottages you will find an opportunity to meet other spouses living in the area, learn cross cultural customs, crafts, and cook meals to name a few. The cottages also offer educational classes of benefit to you and your family. They are a great place to hang out, and for whatever their reason, the "powers that be" don't seem to want you to know it's here.

PHYSICAL FITNESS CENTER: Activities vary from post to post, many have aerobics, nautilus, free weights, tennis, racquetball, basketball, and more.

RELIGIOUS ACTIVITIES: There are many activities that take place on post, from worship services to Bible studies, counseling and special classes.

SEOUL AREA AMERICAN OFFICERS' WIVES CLUB (SAAOWC): Located in Yongson, the SAAOWC luncheons are held on Tuesdays (Sept. through May), normally at the Dragon Hill Lodge. A welcome coffee is held in early Fall, but new members are welcome throughout the year. SAAOWC volunteers operate and staff the CHOSUN GIFT SHOP. The Chosun proceeds fund the club's Korean and American Welfare Projects. The CHOSUN CHATTER is a monthly publication of SAAOWC. Membership forms are available at the monthly socials and at the Chosun Gift Shop (738-5058). The SAAOWC office is in Building 1535, Tel. 138-5630.

SEOUL INTERNATIONAL WOMEN'S CLUB (SIWA): Meetings are held monthly to provide opportunities for international exchange of cultural and social activities for women residing in Korea. A wide variety of special interest groups are offered. SIWA sponsors a large pre-Christmas bazaar with proceeds going to welfare assistance programs. Meetings are published in the local papers.

USO: The USO has been in Korea since 1954. It has locations in Seoul, beside Camp Kim; and at Camp Casey. It provides a lounge, snack bar, gift shop, inter-cultural understanding program, language classes, and information/referral/outreach services. It is an excellent source for wonderful tours not only around Seoul, but also overnight package tours to many popular areas in and out of Korea. The USO usually has a comprehensive group of helpful guide books and maps. Camp Casey 730-4813, Seoul, 724-3301 on post, 795-3063 off post.

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SERVICE ETIQUETTE

REVEILLE

Reveille comes from the French and is the signal for the soldiers to rise and begin their workday. As Reveille is played, the National Flag is raised briskly. At 0600 each day Monday through Friday, Reveille is observed. If you are outdoors, you should stop and stand quietly with your hands at your sides. Face the flag or stand in the direction of the music if the flag is not visible.

RETREAT

At 1700 each day Monday through Sunday, Retreat is observed. This signals the retiring of the colors and the close of the official work day. When the cannon is fired you should face in the direction of the cannon and when the music starts, place your hand over your heart. This is to show respect of the flag.

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FAMILY ASSISTANCE PROGRAM
"As wives, if we do not know one another, how will we be able to support one another,

and stand together in time of need?"

Alma Powell (Mrs. Colin Powell)


From time to time, all military families need assistance, whether it be a family crisis, emergency financial assistance, the loan of household items, or just to get a welcome packet for a new assignment.

There are several agencies on post available to help military families. Each of these agencies are not available at every post, so you may have to travel to some of the larger posts to use them, but it is not difficult to do. They include, but are not limited to:

ARMY COMMUNITY SERVICES (ACS): Bi-cultural services, emergency food locker, information and referral program, loan closet program, budget classes, and volunteer program.

CONSUMER AFFAIRS/FINANCIAL ASSISTANCE PROGRAM: Debt liquidation, budget preparation, checkbook maintenance classes, financial counseling, consumer education and complaints. (Camp Casey 730-3108)

EXCEPTIONAL FAMILY MEMBER PROGRAM (EFMP): Information, referral and placement services for sponsors with exceptional family members (EFM). EFMs are children or adults having special emotional, physical or mental needs. Conducts family-find activities and advocacy services in support of eligible family members with special needs. (Camp Casey 730-3142)

FAMILY ADVOCACY: Education and training for the prevention of child and spouse abuse. Offers workshops in parenting and child safety. (Camp Casey 730-3142)

FAMILY MEMBER EMPLOYMENT ASSISTANCE PROGRAM: Assistance to family members seeking employment by providing job information and listings and application forms. Referral to the One Stop Job Information Center at the CS office in Yongson, Bldg. 4100 -- 738-5628

PEAR BLOSSOM COTTAGES: There are currently PBCs at Camp Casey, Camp Howze, Camp Gary Owen, Camp Stanley and Camp Page. The cottages are similar small houses with stoves, laundry facilities, showers, TVs and other amenities. They are located on post. They are for dependents only, although some allow soldier-spouses to visit at lunch-time. A cottage manager, who is usually a dependent, runs each cottage. The cottages have toys and facilities for children. They sponsor educational activities and social events, including Army Family Team Building (AFTB) classes, Holiday Open Houses and more! AFTB reaches out to spouses to teach the fundamentals of military life, coping with separation, and useful management skills like leadership, team-building, public speaking, organization and more! We highly recommend that you seek out AFTB classes at your current post or when you arrive in Korea!

RELOCATION PROGRAM: Provides personnel with information about 2ID and its posts, and about posts world wide; Welcome Packets; Standard Installation Topic Exchange Service (SITES), a computerized relocation program with printout available; Newcomer's Orientation; Bi-cultural family support; Sponsorship assistance; and Passport/Visa/SOFA stamp services.

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A CHECKLIST FOR MILITARY SPOUSES

During your time in Korea, you will find that your spouse is often away on Temporary Duty (TDY) or Field Training Exercises (FTX), and you will need to be able to handle the family affairs. The following checklist may be helpful in getting you organized to handle any situation:

  1. Are all immunizations for the family up to date? These are required to enroll children in school.
  2. Are my children's and my ID cards up to date?
  3. Do I know where and how to obtain new ID cards?
  4. Do I have access to the family checking account on a continuing basis in the event my spouse departs for an extended period of time?
  5. Do I know the account numbers and the name & address of the bank accounts my spouse and I have and the type of accounts?
  6. Do I know the location of the bank books?
  7. Do we have a safe deposit box? Do I know the location of the key?
  8. Do I have a list of all credit cards and the addresses to report the loss of a credit card?
  9. Am I prepared to take complete control of the checking account, know how to balance it and know how to ensure I never write a check without sufficient funds in the bank to cover it?
  10. Am I familiar with all the bill payments, to whom they are made out, where to send them and when?
  11. Do I know the location of the following and are they properly safeguarded?
  12. THREE COPIES OF ALL POWERS OF ATTORNEY
  13. BIRTH CERTIFICATES FOR MYSELF AND MY FAMILY
  14. MARRIAGE CERTIFICATES
  15. DIVORCE DECREE (S) FROM PREVIOUS MARRIAGES -- YOU AND/OR YOUR SPOUSE
  16. ADOPTION PAPERS
  17. SOCIAL SECURITY CARD (S)
  18. STATE AND FEDERAL TAX RECORDS
  19. ALL INSURANCE POLICIES
  20. US SAVINGS BONDS, STOCKS SECURITIES
  21. DEEDS, MORGAGES OR LEASES
  22. Am I familiar with the responsibilities of owning an automobile?
  23. WHEN AND WHERE TO REGISTER
  24. STATE INSTECTION REQUIREMENTS
  25. PAYMENTS
  26. INSURANCE
  27. Do I know the name and address of the company holding the lien on our automobile?
  28. Do I understand the following about contracts and powers of attorney?
  29. Not to sign anything without reading it first-EVER!
  30. To ask a legal assistance officer to read a contract if I do not understand it.
  31. Not to believe oral promises that are not written into the contract.
  32. Not to buy unless I am sure my spouse would agree to the purchase.
  33. I will be prudent and careful when using the power of attorney. To understand that my actions may reduce my spouse to poverty, ruin their reputation and credit, jeopardize their career, and ruin our marriage unless I am careful about the way in which I use it.
  34. Do I know how to reach a legal assistance officer?
  35. Do I know what the Army Community Services offers and how to use it?
  36. Is my NEO packet in order?
  37. Do I know where to go in the event of a NEO drill or action?
  38. Do I know what to bring and pack in the event of a NEO drill or incident?
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THINGS TO BRING

One word of advice: UNDERPACK! There are so many things to buy on the local economy that most everyone goes home with more than they brought.

Clothes: It is hot and humid in the summer and cold in the winter. You will be walking everywhere so bring comfortable shoes. You probably will not have to dress up very often, unless you get a job that requires dressing up. Clothing is inexpensive in Korea, but sometimes sizes are hard to find, especially if you are larger that the average Korean woman (who looks to wear a size 1) or taller than the average Korean man (and most of the American women are!).

Paperwork: Bring certified copies of your marriage certificate, your spouse's orders (you should have at least ten copies of them reserved for yourself), medical and dental records, shot records, school transcripts and resumes on the plane with you. Immigration may need to see the orders and your household good shipment may not arrive until long after you need transcripts, marriage certificates (you will need it, trust me!) etc. Bring all of your medical records!!

Miscellaneous: Some items to consider shipping over are a TV, VCR, radio, and tape or CD player. Most areas have cable TV either for free or for a small charge. Bring any special spices (such as Cajun, Indian, etc.) which you routinely use. These may not be available here or they may be VERY expensive on the local economy. A sewing machine may be worth bring if you regularly use it. It may come in handy for making curtains, clothes, etc. There are some fabric shops in Tongdaemun that I have heard have fantastic prices (some as low a 1,000won per yard -that is less than $1) Small tools may be handy to bring with you, such as a hammer, electric screwdriver, etc. Bring your favorite catalogs, particularly those with small appliances, linens and home furnishings because you will find there might be several things you want to make your new home more pleasant. Catalogs are great because there is a very limited selection of just about everything and the PX is usually sold out of common clothing items in popular sizes. If you wear a size 3 or 5 you will have no problem. If you will be living off-post (and you probably will) you may want to bring some inexpensive and light furniture and a good toaster oven. You will probably have to get a refrigerator when you get here, but it is much cheaper to get a used one here than to ship one. One great thing I just found was Wal-Mart on-line!! They will ship just about anything to you! They can be found at http://www.wal-mart.com

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COMMON ACRONYMS IN KOREA

AAFES Army Air Force Exchange Service

ACS Army Community Services

AER Army Emergency Relief

AFAP Army Family Action Plan

AFKN American Forces Korean Network

AFTB Army Family Team Building

ARC American Red Cross

CFC Combined Forces Command

CINCPAC Commander in Chief of the Pacific Command

COPE JADE A joint and combined Air Force Exercise

COURAGEOUS CHANNEL The bi-annual NEO exercise held in the spring and fall.

DEROS Date Eligible Return From Overseas

DMZ Demilitarized Zone

ETS Estimated Time of Separation

EUSA Eighth United States Army

FOAL EAGLE A joint and combined, two part FTX, usually held in the October or November time frame.

FREEDOM BANNER A CINCPAC fleet exercise involving US Navy and Marines and ROK Navy and Marines

FTX Field Training Exercise

JSA Joint Security Area, also know as Truce Village or Panmunjom, it is an 800 meter wide, roughly circular area that bisects the MDL.

KATUSA Korean Augmentation to the United States Army

MAC Military Armistice Committee. It was established by the armistice agreement as an agency to supervise the implementation of the truce terms.

MARS Military Affiliate Radio System

MDL Military Demarcation Line

MWR Moral, Welfare and Recreation

NCS Non-combatants

NEO Non-combatant Evacuation Operation

PBC Pear Blossom Cottage

PCS Permanent Change of Station

RAPID THUNDER A crisis action exercise

RCP Ration Control Plate

ROK Republic of Korea

RSOL Reception, Staging, Onward Movement and Integration. A joint and combined exercise held in the April/ May time frame.

SAAOWC Seoul Area American Officers' Wives Club

SAESO Seoul Area Enlisted Spouses Organization

SAHS Seoul American High School

SOFA Status of Forces Agreement

STORK'S NEST The facility provided by the hospital for out of the area mothers-to-be to stay and await their new arrivals.

TDY Temporary Duty

TEAM SPIRIT A theater wide exercise using elements of each service.

ULCHI FOCUS LENS A simulated joint and combined exercise.

USFK United States Forces in Korea

USO United Services Organization

VALIANT BLITZ An amphibious training exercise.

WAR FIGHTER A 2ID post exercise.

WAR STEED A 2ID annual combat exercise.

2ID The Second Infantry Division

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