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   When I was asked to write an article for the Hispanic Genealogical Society of New York's boletín, Nuestra Herencia, by its editor, Chaz Fourquet, I asked myself what could I possibly have to offer to this newsletter which already does such a wonderful job of fostering pride in ourselves and our culture by helping others to understand and become interested in the search for their roots? Then, I thought, we all have different reasons which motivate us to begin searching for our "muertitos" as my brother and I lovingly refer to them. So, I decided to tell you "dos cuentitos" of our family. The first cuento is the reason why we began nuestra búsqueda. The second, well, ..........................you'll see.


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--- PRIMER CUENTO ---

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     When our mother was a little girl growing up in Vega Baja, she came from a family of four: her brother Carlos Manuel (the oldest), Ángel, Rosa María (my mother) and Alicia, the youngest. Their parents were very much in love, even with all those children who were only a few years apart. My grandmother, Ana, apparently was a very beautiful and striking woman with black hair, high cheekbones and blue eyes. Her physical characteristics were inherited from her Oliveras ancestors, from the Aragon region of Spain. She was almost six feet tall. However, she was confined to a wheelchair most of her life. The reason for this disability, we have not been able to ascertain as those who would remember, are long gone. My grandfather on the other hand, was between 5'2" and 5'4". Un "taponcito" as we fondly refer to men of such stature. For whatever private reason, they had never married.

     My mother was about three years old, when she suffered her first tragic loss. Her brother Ángel, died of pneumonia at the age of seven. As young as she was then, she remembers to this day, how beautiful his voice was and that he had taught her to sing and to love music. Not long afterwards, she lost her mother due to a brain tumor (most likely the reason she was in a wheelchair). It was on her deathbed, that she and our grandfather professed their love for each other and were married by the same priest who gave her the last rites. This explains why on official records, and in our documentation, their marriage date is the same as the date of her passing. One day, about a year later, not long after her mother's death, my grandfather took each child separately and talked with them, hugged them and told them how much he loved them.....They never saw him again.

     Time blurs memories past and my mother does not recall how she learned the truth, but tragically, her father was gone, too. So despondent, he had committed suicide because he could not live without the love of his life. He was only 41 and she was 34. The oldest child Carlos, was sent to New York to live with relatives. The two girls, Rosa María, age 7 and Alicia, age 4, were raised in an orphanage until their early teens. They were then raised by their father's sister until they themselves married. The only photograph of our grandmother was in our uncle Carlos' possession when he died many, many, years later. It has never been found. This is sort of a sad story, but a romantic one as well. It is part of our family's history.


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--- SEGUNDO CUENTO ---

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RedRose
     We had come to New York in that mass exodus in the '50's when I was only four and a half years old. Our family had settled in Brooklyn. One day, when I was almost 8, on one of those brisk and gloomy days just before spring (you remember those days?), my two little brothers and I were walking home from school. I was busy, frantically trying to keep my eye on Ángel, who was 5 and in kindergarten. He was as mischievous as they come! He was "un teremoto chiquito", and his nickname was Chiqui. He had a habit of tugging on my hand and pulling me towards whatever object he saw along the way, to what was for him, some fantastic "treasure" to be picked up and put in his pocket. On more than one occasion, he had run into the street, and I was anxious to get home. I used to think God had punished me for making me the only girl and giving me five brothers........and Chiqui to watch.

Chiqui&Tony
     Chiqui (left) & Tony (el padre)   {Photo is over forty years old.}

   As we walked past the brownstones in the Brooklyn Heights area, we spoke about the little things that are so important to children at that age. We had just turned down Schermerhorn Street, the block where we lived and I was listening to Tony (later, el padre). He was in the first grade, and was chattering about something or other that he had learned in school that day. Suddenly, Chiqui pulled away from my hand and ran towards the street. Fortunately, he was grabbed by a very old woman who seemed to come out of nowhere, and she stopped him from running into traffic. Back safely on the sidewalk, she picked up my little brother in her arms and gave him a kiss and said, " Y este es el Chiquitín!". She put him down and gave both Tony and me a kiss, calling us by our first names and murmuring some other things we no longer remember. She had tears running down her face and we were frightened. I turned just for an instant to take Chiqui firmly by the hand and turned around to thank the lady......The old woman was gone.


     If you've ever been on Schermerhorn Street, you'll remember that it was a very loooooong block. The steps leading up to the brownstones were also not short. We had not heard any gate being opened [everybody's gate creaked] nor the closing of a door. She was too old to move so quickly. We looked everywhere up and down the street, but the old woman had disappeared. We could not figure out where she could have gone. We ran scared down the block and into our building which was in the middle of Schermerhorn Street. There, we found our father crying. My mother told us to be very quiet because he had received a telegram saying that his mother, Cristina, had died. This was especially hard for him because his father had died suddenly when he was three and he, his mother and his one brother were very close and were the only family he had. He had a picture of his mother in his hands and when we asked to see it,..............you guessed it, it was the picture of the old woman whom we had seen.


       It gives me goose-pimples even writing this down because my grandmother had never seen Chiqui. He was just a baby when we came to New York. As a physician, I tend to be skeptical about these types of matters, and Tony, as a priest, definitely is skeptical about these kinds of things. Nevertheless, whenever my father would mention our grandmother, we always just looked at each other and said nothing. Chiqui does not remember anything at all about that day.


     Well, that is the end of my "dos cuentos". Our parents brought us up with a strong sense and respect for family, a love of music, stories about our island and respect for our culture. For the most part, they were both raised, my mother especially, without much family. Their fiftieth wedding anniversary is in 1999. We hope to give them a sense of their family as our gift on that special day, and continue to search fervently for "nuestros muertitos". By the way,.......I was named for both my grandmothers.


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Pulse aquí para leer el segundo cuento pero escrito en español. Pase a la página del padre:

LA SEÑORA: CRISTINA (RAMÍREZ) RIVERA NAVEDO

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  Dra. Ana Cristina Oquendo Pabón, M.D.

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The edited version of this story was first printed in Nuestra Herencia, boletín del Hispanic Genealogical Society of New York,(Vol 1.2). Go there! Membership is free!
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