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Elizabeth was born at 1:58 am on June 12, 2001, and weighed in at 6 pounds, 13
ounces. It was a mostly quick and easy labor and delivery, with (obviously!) a
wonderful outcome! And now here's the full story...
To start off, I really have to backtrack to the Friday before Elizabeth was
born, June 8th. I went to the hospital that afternoon for an ultrasound,
biophysical profile, and non-stress test, because the doctor wanted a good look
at how Lizzie was doing, since I'd been diagnosed with gestational diabetes at
20 weeks into my pregnancy. The ultrasound and BPP showed a perfectly formed,
healthy baby, and she was estimated to be 8 pounds, 5 ounces. From there, I
went for the non-stress test, and it only took about 30 minutes, rather than
the usual hour
at the office!*L* The nurse proclaimed it to be reactive, and told me that I
was having contractions about six to seven minutes apart, so she wanted to call
the doctor to see if I should be checked for dialation. The doctor said to go
ahead and check me, and I was dialated to between 1 and 2. Since the
hospital was really busy that day with lots of babies on the way, I was sent
home. The nurse joked that she wouldn't be surprised to see me later on that
night, but I kind of blew that off...it would be nice, but I'd been having
contractions off and on for more than a week, so I figured that it wasn't quite
time yet. The contractions always quit eventually anyway...but this time, they
didn't! They kept coming, but never got intense or any closer together...in
fact, they moved further apart and got less intense than they'd been. It went
on like that all weekend long, too...every time I thought to myself, "Okay,
this has to be it!" the contractions would slow down and ease off. By Monday
morning, I was miserable and exhausted, because the contractions were just
enough to wake me up when I was lying down, and by Monday afternoon, they were
still coming, and I was having more cramping and pressure between them. I
finally called the doctor's office, and they told me to go on to the hospital
to be checked out, just in case. That was about 3 pm on Monday, June 11th. I
called Mark at work and told him not to stay too late, because when he got
home, we were heading to the hospital. I hopped into
the shower and threw a last couple of things into my bag, just in case, and
when Mark got home, we kissed Kasey good-bye
and told her that we'd call soon to let her know if her baby sister really was
almost ready to be born, and headed out.
When we got to the hospital, we had to check in through the ER, and that was a
mess!! We waited there for more than an hour, so it was about 6:30 before we
finally got up to the L&D ward. When we got there, we were taken straight into
a birthing room, because the hospital was still busy, and the observation ward
was full. That was really nice, actually, because it was quiet, cool, and
private...between the times that the nurses were checking on me, Mark and I
were alone, and we were able to relax a bit. After about an hour on the
monitors, the nurse came in and told me that I couldn't possibly be in labor,
because there were no contractions being picked up, but that I was dehydrated
and was passing ketones into my urine, so they wanted me to drink a bunch of
water and see if the ketones went down. I couldn't figure out how it was
possible that I was dehydrated, since I'd been drinking LOTS of water all day
long, but I obediently started gulping down water. I stayed on the monitors as
well, and started griping to Mark that my back was killing me...I just KNEW
that they were going to tell me that they were finally picking up contractions
soon...I was having back labor! After about an hour of that, the nurse came
back in to check my urine again, and told me that they still weren't getting
any contractions on the monitor, but my blood pressure was going up, and she'd
called the midwife again. Nancy, the midwife, had told her to check me for any
further dialation, and she'd be there soon. So the nurse checked me, and I was
STILL at 1-2 centimeters, after an entire weekend of contractions! I just
wanted to cry, or at the very least, beg for something to help my back. The
nurse told me that Nancy was on her way to the hospital, and that after she got
there to see me, we'd probably be sent home, since the ketones were dropping.
She also suggested that we get something to eat to help ward off the ketones,
so that I could definitely be released...I really didn't want to stay in the
hospital if I didn't have to! So we called my mom and asked her if she could
possibly bring us something, because by then it was 9:30 pm, and Mark was
exhausted, plus I didn't feel like being left alone...my back was still killing
me, and I was starting to feel really edgy. Mom brought us some hamburgers,
and she and Kasey visited for a few minutes. We reassured Kasey that we'd be
home later on that night, and then they left and we had our dinner. As I was
finishing my hamburger, I started feeling sick, as if I was going to throw up.
My back was still killing me, and I was having contractions, no matter what the
crazy monitors were telling the nursing staff, every 3 1/2 to 4 minutes. I
finally laid back and tried to relax...I was truly exhausted, and still felt
mildly sick to my stomach, so all I really wanted was some rest.
Nancy came into my room around 10:30 and told me that she'd looked over my
results, and the ketones were gone. But then she told me that my blood
pressure was still spiking, and she was really concerned about that, so she
wanted to keep me overnight for observation. I still wasn't feeling quite
right, and I think I snapped at her that my blood pressure would probably be
fine if I could either quit having contractions, or if someone would believe me
about them! I apologized, and then asked her to check me again
for dialation, because I KNEW that the back pain I was having was contractions.
She said that she was just about to offer to do that, but she didn't expect to
see much change, since I'd just been checked recently. The internal was
uncomfortable, but when Nancy was done, she
was smiling. In the hour between then and when the nurse had checked me, I'd
dialated to 5. The blood pressure spikes were explainable now...I was in
labor, and we were having a baby...TONIGHT!!! Nancy told us that she'd be back
in a bit, and the nurse would hook me up for the IV antibiotics for the group B
strep, but that it looked like things would go pretty fast. Mark decided to go
home, because we didn't bring the cameras with us, and I waited and watched TV
by myself for awhile. The nurse came in to put in the IV, and I warned her
that I'm a hard stick (I have deep, hard to find veins), so that she'd know to
be careful. Fortunately, she found the vein on the first stick.
Unfortunately, I had a contraction just after she put the needle in...I've
never in my life had such a hard time keeping still for ANYthing, but I knew
that if she'd found the vein, I didn't want to go through the pain of having to
do it again! I managed, and the antibiotics were started. I was supposed to
get two doses, but at this point, we were just hoping for time for one.
Just after Mark got back (it took him about 30 minutes), Nancy came back in to
check on me. By that time, I was dialated to 7, and she told me that as much
as she hated to do it, she was going to break my water. (Normally, with a GBS
positive patient, the waters are left intact until they break on their own, due
to risk of infection.) The external monitors just weren't picking up my
contractions, and they weren't picking up the baby's heartbeat as well as she'd
like either, so she wanted to be able to do internal monitoring. I agreed, and
she went to work. It didn't take anything to break
my water...it was ready to go anyway. I was starting to get a little crazy
with the pain, and Nancy asked me what I'd had for pain when Kasey was born. I
managed a laugh, and told her, "Inner strength!" She told me that this time
was going to be different if I wanted, and I told her yes, I wanted, please,
thank you! I'd thought about another unmedicated birth, but I'd also learned
my lesson about back labor when I had Kasey...I didn't know if I could handle
the pain on
top of the exhaustion I was feeling! (Remember, it had been 3 days since I'd
had more than an hour's sleep at a time by this point!) She told me that she
could order an epidural, but that the person who'd administer it probably
wouldn't be able to get there in time, so she suggested a dose of Stadol
through the IV. I'd heard horror stories about Stadol, but at that point, I
was desperate for a little relief, so I agreed. I'm glad I did...the nurse put
it in during a contraction, and I immediately felt some of the edge come off.
Between contractions, I was able to nap, and even though that was only minutes
at a time, it really helped. Plus, Mark was able to lie down on the couch next
to the birthing bed and sleep a bit himself, rather than having to stay with me
and try to help me through the contractions...it was almost 1 in the morning,
and he'd been up since 5 the morning before! About a half hour after that, I
told Nancy that I was feeling a lot more pressure between contractions, and I
thought it might be about time to push. She checked me one last time, and told
me that I was fully dialated with only a "lip" of cervix left, and she felt
like I could push through it if I wanted. Time for our baby girl to be born!!
On the next contraction, I started to push. The Stadol had worn off by then,
and I was feeling exhausted and in so much pain that I told Mark I thought I
was dying, rather than giving birth. I kept pushing with each contraction, but
kept telling Nancy that I just couldn't do it, I was too tired and it hurt too
much. I also remember getting a bit incoherent...saying that I just wanted it
to stop, while what I was actually thinking was that I wanted it to stop just
long enough for me to pull myself together again (I'd have taken an extra 30
seconds between contractions...*L*). Nancy was wonderful through
that...she was really encouraging, and told me that even though I
thought I couldn't do it, I was doing great, she could see our baby girl's head
and some brown hair, all I had to do was keep it up. Finally, she called in
two nurses to hold my legs up, and I pushed with all my might. I finally
understood the "ring of fire" stories that I've heard people tell...it burned
SO bad as her head was being delivered!! But once her head was out, I could
hear her squalling, and Nancy told me to hang on, blow through the next
contraction so she could suction her nasal passages. I did, and on the
contraction after that, I barely pushed and the rest of her body just slid out.
Nancy and the nurse were both talking to her, calling her by name and telling
us how beautiful she was. I could see her feet kicking while they cleaned her
off, but I couldn't see anything else, and all of a sudden, I was completely
awake and demanding to see my baby girl! A couple of minutes later, they
handed her to me and I just marvelled at her...she really was SO beautiful, and
SO tiny, and SO perfect! Nancy told us that her birth Apgar was 9, and I was
more than happy with that. A few minutes later, the placenta delivered as we
tried nursing for the first time, and then they took Elizabeth to be weighed
and measured. She was 6 pounds, 13 ounces (much smaller than the ultrasound
had estimated!), and 18 1/4 inches long. They handed her back a couple of
minutes later, and Nancy and Amy, the nurse, were both laughing and smiling,
and told us that her 5 minute Apgar was 10, and they never give a 10, but there
just wasn't anything at all that they could take off for. What a relief, after
the months of worrying about the effects of gestational diabetes, and then the
group B strep at the end! We were totally
thrilled about our beautiful, healthy baby girl!
We were released from the hospital on Thursday afternoon, after Elizabeth
passed the 48 hour mark. We only had to stay that long because I'd only
received one dose of the antibiotics for group B strep, and the pediatrician
was being cautious about that. Since we've been home, everything has continued
going well, and we feel so blessed to have Lizzie as the newest member of our
family!!
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