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[ Jun - Sept, 1997]
[Jan - Mei, 1997]
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| I will never forget the day and the words my
friend told me. That day, I was in a terrible bad mood and felt that life
is meaning-less. My friend noticed my unhappiness and showed her concern
to me. I was touched and told her, "Every human will die, no matter how
success we have achieved. Furthermore, how high the status and how good
the name we have got will be meaningless after we leave the world..."
My friend told me, "But, at least the world without you will totally different for us. Actually we have influenced the people around us, to worse or to better. Even though you will have or just left nothing after you die, but what you have done, said, acted when you were alive have changed the world and the people around you." "Ya, you have influenced and totally changed me now." I said. In our daily life, maybe our one word or one action that has changed a person and yet we didn't realized at all. People's lives are interconection. Everybody has his/her own important to the world. Since we have to stay in this world, we must appreciate what we should be in the world. Then, we will feel happy to be ourselves. As Dale Carnegie said, "Be yourself - You are something new in this world. Be glad of it. Make the most of what nature gave you. You can paint only what you are. You must be what your experiences, your environment and your heredity have made you. For better or for worse, you must cultivate your own little garden." So, now, I just want to be myself and never regret but take the responsible for what I have done. All the matters are basically same, you just take/accept it or leave it. I must set goals and always remind myself and be initiative towards my success... To me, success is not meant having a lot of money neither the higher status in the society, but, it is just meant be happy and do the best in whatever life I am/will... |
| Be happy - Appreciate
your life
We seldom think of what we have but always of what we lack. By the way, you are comparing to what? Count your blessings but not your troubles. If you don’t stop your growling and grumbling, you can’t get what you lack and will lose not only what you lost, but also your health, your home and your friends. Although you have lost everything, but don’t let your happy feelings be lost, too. Appreciate every experience you have, even if it is a failure or unhappiness, it is also worthy to be learnt. |
| So, you have made
mistakes? That’s good! Keep it up!
Don’t be afraid to face failure or make mistakes. If you have never tried, you will never know. Learn from the mistakes and try again. You still have time to retry, don’t you? The game continues until the last minute that you can stay in this world. Appreciate the time you still have to make mistakes. |
| You will have a stronger feeling of sadness because you can't succeed even when you have already worked hard for it, compared to the feeling of happiness when you succeed even though you didn't work hard. |
| There are no lasting promises, because human beings can never fight against the changing environment and situations. |
| Employment of an ambitious staff, is just as riding on a wild horse. If you manage to control it(him/her), it will help you to achieve speedy success. But, once you lose your control, you will be trodden badly by it. |
| Maybe I am not a useful person, but I can be a happy one. |
| Happiness is the beautification of unhappiness. |
| If it is not the temporary, the lost or the unreachable one, you won't think that it is the wonderful or eager to own one, neither will you notice it. |
| Actually,whether the things surrounding you are beautiful or ugly, depends on your emotion and how you want to treat it. |
| Growing up means the addition of pressure. |
| Happiness is the appreciation and acceptance of the past. |
| Nobody wants to believe that she/he is in a tragedy. |
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