Linked Autobiography-Seattle
After that long three months I lingered at my parent’s house and considered
returning to my childhood, but when the flowers started blooming I decided
to leave Seattle for the gold country as hundreds of thousands had before
me. Skagway,
Alaska offered work as a hotel housekeeper, then a doorman/dealer/light
technician for a small theater.
Back in Seattle I found another home, a job, and the desire to go
back to school. I got my first apartment on Capitol Hill, a few blocks
away from my classroom( at Seattle
Central Community College), and I could walk down the hill to sell
tickets & etc.. at the Pacific Science
Center. I was taking classes to prove my worth to The
Evergreen State College, where I had unsuccessfully applied.
After my first quarter my "studential quality" was proven. The next
fall I started my three years back in college. I entered as a sophomore,
again. At first I planned to pursue environmental studies courses, then
I went on a study trip to Nepal with seven other students. We traveled
through Thailand and India as well, but we stayed two months in Nepal studying
its language and culture.
There my eyes began to open to Eastern culture and religion. We
read The
Snow Leopard as part of our study and I brought along a book on Buddhism
from Dad’s library. The different way of relating to life I witnessed and
was fascinated by. The relationships between men & women, children
& parents, citizens & government, religion & society, and man
& nature was a new wilderness for me. My area of study changed then,
forever.
After coming back over the water I attempted to return to environmental
stuff but I had seen too much. The second quarter after Nepal I switched
part way through to writing about my trip.
The books on my shelves echoed the word, "Zen". At that time the
mainstream books on Buddhism were on Japanese Zen. I knew that religion
was the only thing that could give me the base by which to understand Eastern
culture.
In between the precious time in school I returned to Alaska the
first summer to work in an art gallery, and the next I spent in the "sunset
elevator" on the Space Needle.
My last year I spent studying Japanese, falling in love with my
girlfriend, and teaching as a substitute at a private English academy for
foreign students.
I fell in love with Buddhism also, and decided to become a Christian/Buddhist.
It was not really a choice. As I learned more about Buddhism I saw how
much sense it made and could not keep it from becoming part of my "practice",
and way of thinking. Buddhism commanded my attention and respect without
making me leave Christianity. Christianity was the culture I grew up in.
It is my base which defines me.
As I read more I found the magazine, "Tricycle:
A Buddhist Review". I have every issue. It is the only completely non-sectarian
Buddhist magazine.
In the fall after graduation I lived in Japan for two months with
a host family, which I had found in Tokyo. I had hoped to find work, but
due to a weak economy I returned home empty handed. After some time living
with my sister in my parent’s house( they were in New York at the time),
I worked for a short time at the paradise of Doe
Bay Resort in the beautiful San Juans, before coming back and landing
a job with METRO
at their expanding West Point Treatment Plant in Discovery Park.
I found a "dharma house" to live in with a Jewish/Buddhist and his
teacher/dog in West Seattle. There I earnestly began doing Zen mediation
and enjoyed it.
After a year and a half I finally moved to Asia for the long-term.
This time it was Pusan, South
Korea, where jobs came more easily, and opportunities beckoned.
From my first weekend I regularly visited Pomosa
Temple( actually monastery), where I made friends with the monks and
began teaching some of the younger ones English in my free time( they insisted
on paying me).
I enjoyed the expatriate life
in Pusan, but teaching resistant students was draining my energy. After
five months I convinced one of my good friends in the administration of
the monastery to have Pomosa sponsor my visa for work as a "scholar of
Buddhism".
I visited my parents and friends for two months then came back to
live with the monks and study Korean language, culture, and Buddhism.
I continued to teach some of the monks , but spent most of my time
studying Korean and the Chinese characters in which the Buddhist texts,
and some Korean literature, are written. I also edited an English guide
to the temple and gave tours to English speaking tourists.
About halfway through my year-long visa I started teaching part-time
at an academy in the city. At "David English House" the students were almost
all in elementary school and the teaching philosophy was using games. It
was quite the opposite of the quiet life I came home to at the monastery.
Pomosa,
on the sides of Kumjongsan Mountain was the most peaceful and beautiful
place I have ever lived.
After the year, since I truly realized I wasn’t cut out to be a
monk, I came down the mountain to work half-time at the academy, continue
my studies, and live in front of Pusan National University. Among the numerous
coffee shops, restaurants, night clubs, singing rooms, video rooms, and
bars I found interesting places to continue my study of Korean culture.
Fully immersed again in the foreign community I saw the need for
better understanding of Korean culture and language, as well as better
communication within the expatriate community. I also saw the need for
more information on what to do and see in Korea when a foreign resident
was not working. Along with some good friends and volunteers I started
a paper for the foreign community called, "The
Expatriate", that would be positive and helpful.
Most of my hours spent teaching were actually not at the academy
but at an elementary school with which David English House had a contract.
Yangjong Elementary School turned out to be the best experience I had teaching
in Korea. Seeing the kids in an environment much more comfortable than
the academy made it easier to see their individual personalities. After
some initial wonder at seeing their first foreign teacher, and a giant,
they warmed up to me and some would even insist on holding my hand as we
walked to the classroom. Though I admit that some of them were frustrating
discipline problems, as a whole I miss them greatly. I wish them the best
of luck. In August I left the paper in the capable hands of Jon Marshall,
wished everyone well, bowed to the monks, and went for a two week vacation
in Japan for two weeks on my way home to the country I dearly missed.
Japan was great and you can read all about it the e-mails I sent
to my friends in the section of this site called, "The
Japan Trip".
When I returned to the land where I didn’t stand out like such a
sore thumb, I spent a few months looking for work, and found a great job
at Hagens Berman, a law firm
in downtown Seattle. The firm does mostly class action suits such as the
states’ suits against the tobacco companies, and the suit against Boeing
on behalf of shareholders.
At the office I worked as the relief receptionist and a kind of
office assistant. I thought of myself as a walking "wellness center". Besides
answering the phones I was responsible for the day to day appearance of
the office, and keeping the employees happy.
I spent my free time volunteering with the Asian Pacific
Task Force and the Northwest Dharma
Association.
The Asian Pacific Task Force works on justice issues for Asian Pacific
Islanders and on a Pacific Theology. I mostly help them with events.
The Northwest Dharma Association is a non-sectarian group of Buddhists
that work to support and disseminate Buddhist teachings in the NW. In the
past much of its work has been organizing retreats and events for Buddhist
teachers. NW Dharma Assoc. is now focusing its energies on publishing the
"Northwest Dharma News". NWDN is a paper for the Buddhist community that
annnounces a variety of Buddhist events and lists Buddhist groups/temples
in the area, as well as providing some insightful articles and enlightening
advertising. NW Dharma Assoc. will continue to sponsor community events
and organizes events for teachers. It also has started a Seattle tradition of the "Change Your Mind" Day which I initially encouraged.
I was the managing editor of NWDN from December of 1997 to about April of 1999 . Almost exactly a year after I had started "The Expatriate". The paper gradually
expanded its volunteer staff, hired some professional help, and is fast becoming the "voice" of NW Buddhists.
My parents are enjoying their retired life, though Dad worked for quite a while at Seattle University and Mom is volunteering with the Wing
Luke Asian Museum, Virginia Mason Hospital, the Nordic Heritage Museum,
and the ACLUoccasionally. My sister, Christi,
worked at Cole & Weber, an advertising firm downtown, and gave birth
in April of 1999 to twins(Grae & Will). We all found time to visit
with my grandmother, Irene Malcomson, who gracefully turned ninety-five
1997. She moved up here to live in retirement home in Seattle about
two years before.
My brother, Scott,
is married, living in New York and continuing a very successful writing
career. He has had two books published so far in addition to his many articles
for a variety of publications including The
Village Voice and the New
Yorker.
I lived at the Companis House for a year (with David, Marisa, Pat, & Ingrid).
Companis is an organization somewhat similar to AmeriCorps. I was
provided with housing, food, health insurance, a bus pass, and a small
monthly stipend(as long as I worked for a non-profit in Seattle). The
Companis program lasted a year and during that time, which started in September of 1998,
I worked at Asian Counseling & Referral
Service as their volunteer coordinator. It was great to have my
work blending with my area of study. At ACRS the staff speak a total
of more than thirty languages. I got some chances to practice my
Korean and Japanese. ACRS is especially unique because it is an pan-Asian
agency. In August of 1998 August I had left Hagens Berman( a law firm downtown) to become
a Companis volunteer and I was much happier. While at ACRS I went
through the process of applying for the MA in Buddhist Studies (Contemplative
Religion Track) program at The
Naropa Institute.
From January to the end of April of 1999 I led a discussion group in Christianity
& Buddhism at my church. It went great and I am now continiuing
the discussion in a way on a Christian-Buddhist
Listserve on Yahoo!Groups.
As to my family my niece Grace Tandy, and
my nephew Will Loomis(my sister Christi's kids)continue
to be happy and healthy. When I wrote the original version of this they were more than thirteen months old!
Follow their linked names to see their pictures (from 8 months old) and
this one to see the whole family. My parents
are retired and lived at that time in a condo on Lake Washington.
My brother Scott and his wife Becky, and my gorgeous niece Hannah Lacey,
continue to live in NYC and even visited twice in 1998. They had
a son in June of 1999. Grandma Irene
Malcomson passed away in October at 97! She lived a great long
life and decided it was her time to go.
9 Months living in Colorado:
As mentioned above, I worked at Asian
Counseling & Referral Serviceas a service-learning volunteer
from October of 1998 to August of 1997. I had been provided with housing, food, a bus pass,
health insurance( which I luckily didn't need to use:o), and a monthly
stipend by Companis.
My "year" finished on August 20th. On the 21st I am flew to
Boulder, Colorado where I started the MA in Buddhist Studies (Contemplative
Religion concentration) program
at Naropa University.
I really enjoyed working at ACRS. As their Volunteer Coordinator
I had been able to meet some wonderful staff, interview many great volunteers,
and interact with some of the clients. I even did some of the
citizenship class teaching. I was glad to keep up my teaching skills.
It was the first time that I had taught senior citizens and I loved it.
I also had the chance to practice my Korean, and a little Japanese.
I was excited to be going back to school and finally starting my graduate
study. I hoped to find a cheap room to rent! I had never been
to Boulder, but I heard it was beautiful. I planned to live a fairly ascetic
lifestyle. I hoped I could pull it off.
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